
be the girl you would look up to
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It-Girling 101 :
you are a goddess, act like it
you have to be confident
you are beautiful, smart, talented and so much more. thereās nothing wrong with acknowledging that and being proud of that. if you donāt hype yourself up, who will? take those selfies, say your self love affirmations in the mirror, wear your cutest clothes that make you feel prettiest! you are the sh!t , donāt let anyone make you feel less than, ever
be proud of everything you do, even the āsmall thingsā because everything you achieve is an accomplishment, nothing goes unnoticed
speak up for yourself! if you donāt like something or how something is going then let it be known! donāt let anyone take your voice from you
stand strong on your beliefs and donāt let anyone sway you
you have to respect yourself
learn how to say ānoā to things that donāt feel right to you, even if it may hurt someone elseās feelings
prioritize your needs and wants! you deserve to be happy, comfortable and have the things you desire
set healthy boundaries and stick to them! have a mindset of, people will respect me and my limits or they wonāt be in my life at all, period!
donāt just date or be friends with anyone. surround yourself with people who treat you right, who donāt call you out of your name, who are kind to you, who are gentle with you, who care about your hopes and dreams, who wonāt put their hands on you, ever! people who donāt make you feel bad about yourself, people who love you unconditionally, someone who will never treat you like garbage, someone who wonāt belittle you
treat your body like a temple and only be with someone romantically because you really want to and have feelings for them and not because you feel pressured to or you think you deserve less than
you have to treat yourself like a prize because you are a prize! donāt forget, the way you treat yourself is how other people will treat you. so walk with pride and make sure your standards are high always š


the it girlās spring cleaning



phone reset
delete old contacts and messages
go through social media following
delete unused apps
go through photos
set a new wallpaper
add widgets for reminders, weather, battery, etc.
delete old songs and add new ones
environmental reset
clean your bedroom (vacuum, dust, put clothes away, etc.)
sort through and donate old clothes
organize your makeup, skincare, etc.
wash or change your bedsheets
rearrange your bedroom
open your windows and curtains to let fresh air in
get outdoors
clean your home with fresh scented products (lemon, lavender, etc.)
physical reset
try a new workout routine
get some new outfits
do a face mask
exfoliate and shave
oil your hair or do a hair mask
try a new hair color, cut, or style
do your nails or get your nails done
get some fresh makeup and try a new makeup routine
do a lip mask and scrub
mental reset
start journaling or try some new prompts
do a refreshing meditation
try a new yoga practice or workout
read instead of scrolling
put a time limit on your phone usage
reset your sleep schedule