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Day 1
starting a daily sorta blog to track my progress.
Me and my partner (let's call him Niani, for privacy sake, not his real name) decided we both have some issues we need to improve on in ourselves, and we're going to take til the end of the month, which is 21 days, to see how much progress we can make in that time.
My list is:
Try to work on developing a more healthy attachment style
Become less obsessive over my ex (lets call him Adolpho)
lessen my self destructive tendencies
Be less rigid/emotional about small things (hence doing my part to bring down the amount of bickering we do.) Niani's list is:
Communication/openness
Attentiveness
Showing love/affection
Shifting language to avoid bickering I think that this is really gonna help us. And I have to remember that while I am doing this for myself, and for the forgiveness of Adolpho, it is, most importantly, for Niani, because he deserves the best version of me possible.
Day 2
Found out last night that I'll probable never talk to Adolpho again, which breaks my heart and makes me feel so angry at myself and so, so guilty, but that was also oddly freeing to learn.
It's weird, I love him to absolute pieces, and I may never even get him back as a friend, but it feels like now I almost have permission to stop constantly thinking about him. If he wants me to put in the work to gain forgiveness, I gladly will, but as it stands, it's unlikely. So, in my mind, if you love someone, set them free, and if having to contact with me would make him happier, then I'll withstand it for his sake.
Again, this does make it easier to stop obsessing over him, and to give Niani the attention he genuinely deserves, even though some of my hopes and dreams are crushed (all be it by my own doing).
I'm still making an attempt to improve myself, maybe a tiny bit in hopes Adolpho will forgive me, but mostly for Niani and preserving and improving our relationship.
Day 3
Been working a lot on world building for my story and making sure Niani feels loved and appreciated. Sometimes I still feel bad things because my brain goes to Adolpho, but I'm getting better at that part so far
