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Fear: Being a burden.   Coping patterns: Isolation, independence.   Root issue: Lack of safe connection during developmental years. Was criticized when asked for help. Learned to detach before further rejection.   Healing: Safe connection. Safe touch. Affirmation of strengths.
Fear: Abandonment  Coping patterns: Overextending yourself, avoiding your needs to care for others.   Root issue: They left. You didn’t have a say or coping patterns on how to process the loss.   Healing: It never was & never will be your responsibility to make someone stay.
Fear: Always being alone.   Coping patterns: Staying busy/distracted. Hides. Fills time with numbing behaviors.   Root issue: Did not receive proper help when needed most. Felt invisible.   Healing: Be the voice that hidden part of you needs. Take up space unapologetically.

Reposting this because I need to materialize it somewhere.

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Fear: Being a burden. 

Coping patterns: Isolation, independence. 

Root issue: Lack of safe connection during developmental years. Was criticized when asked for help. Learned to detach before further rejection. 

Healing: Safe connection. Safe touch. Affirmation of strengths.

— Nate Postlethwait (@nate_postlethwt) February 13, 2023
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