Ive Seen A Lot Of Discussion About How Bisexuality And Pansexuality Are The Same Things, So Here Is A

I’ve seen a lot of discussion about how bisexuality and pansexuality are the same things, so here is a very general diagram with some basic differences.

It’s important to remember that no one has the right to police anyone else’s sexuality or how they identify. However, saying that the two sexualities are the same can be extremely invalidating for people of either identity.

Also, it’s important to remember that labels aren’t everything, and you don’t need to label your sexuality for it to be valid. But for many people, labels help them better express and understand themselves. Also, for some people, labels can be comforting and validating because they allow the people who use them to feel understood and seen by others.

So this is just a friendly reminder to respect people’s sexualities and how they identify and not to invalidate or erase other people’s sexualities.

Let’s all take some time this pride month (and every other month) to respect and understand each other better.

being a writer is being in a constant state of breakdowns

kinda forgot about this, behold, baby wyvern

This is Ember. They are a baby wyvern... Babeys

pretty

㋡🥀

I just remembered my second Pride, where I made different flag themed daisy chain bracelets/necklaces to hand out. I need folks to understand something:

They were free.

They were fucking free.

They were maybe ¢60 of acrylic yarn each at the most, and the whole ziploc bag of them took 2 hours max.

Three people gave me sad eyes until I took their money.

Someone who was clearly the mom friend of their group made me take a $5 and gave a 10 minute pep talk.

At least four more people insisted on getting change to pay for the, once again, free bracelets.

In spite of all these shenanigans, the absolute best was this one person who I can only describe as, “queer surfer dude who looks like a boyfriend who looks like a girlfriend.” I can remember nothing of the outfit, only the impeccable vibes. I did the same thing I did with everyone else, explaining the bracelets were free, and they nodded along as they took the last 6 strand rainbow bracelet. As soon as they had it on their wrist, they pointed at something over my shoulder and, like a fool, I looked.

Next thing I know, they’re running off cackling, yelling, “YOU’LL NEVER CATCH ME!” and I’m holding a fucking $20. I had to stop at least two people from chasing them, cause they thought the person stole something, and then they tried to give me money cause they thought it was funny seeing me flail over people being Too Nice.

That was the year I got reverse-robbed at Pride. I hope everyone out there is having a good time and, in particular, that queer surfer dude is out there still causing benevolent chaos.

Vincent is wayyyy too jealous

ohhh the helios/vincent ask got me curious: would either or both of them be up for a poly relationship?

For Vincent it's a no but I can see Helios in one.