Remy Is The Type Of Bf To Make You ASK HIM To Be Your Valentine Or Prom Date Fr.

Remy is the type of bf to make you ASK HIM to be your valentine or prom date fr.

(Poor Andy)

(I’m late) but I fully agree that Janus doesn’t actually like Remus and it’s so hard to find people who think the same lol so wahoooo! But I personally like shipping Remus with the others but god knows how unstable a relationship with Remus would be realistically

Is it just me, or does it feel disrespectful to Remus's character to ship him?

Hear me out!

Every time I come across Remus ship content, it almost always seems to carry the idea that love or romance can fundamentally change a person's nature. It implies that romantic love must inherently change a person into a more socially acceptable version of themselves: He now takes a break from setting his room on fire to calmly help Virgil through his panic attack. He stops filling Roman's pillow with a dead corpse to cuddle with Patton.

I believe this is unrealistic and leads to the softening or taming of the very essence of who he is to fit a romantic narrative.

On the other hand, if you remain true to his character and portray him as just as chaotic as he is in canon, that scenario is borderline torture for anyone involved. You cannot tell me that Logan wouldn't be beyond stressed out if, while trying to do his job, Remus cut his arms off and hit him on the head with them while saying in a sing-song tone, "Why are you hitting yourself?" Or, Virgil, on the brink of a panic attack because, for some reason, every time they kiss, Remus removes the skin from his own face, and that’s the first thing Virgil sees when he opens his eyes.

The only person who could theoretically have a romantic relationship with Remus is Janus, but that’s only because Janus essentially acts as Remus's zookeeper. He keeps the chaotic side contained and, as a result, “tames” him. Even this dynamic is problematic. If Janus is merely managing Remus rather than genuinely enjoying his company, it suggests a relationship built on obligation and control rather than mutual affection and respect.

Furthermore, I don’t believe Janus genuinely enjoys being around Remus. I think the only reason he (narratively) gave him his own special day is because the others were doing it, and he didn’t want to be perceived as a jerk for being the only side that didn’t do it. (Obviously, the reality is that Thomas couldn't do a video about the pairs and not include Janus and Remus.)

There is a balance between creativity and character integrity that I don't think a lot of Remus shippers have taken the time to consider. Respecting his character means acknowledging that not all characters are suited for traditional romantic narratives.

If you ship Remus, don't let me stop you. At the end of the day, it's not that serious. I was just curious if anyone else felt this way.

This is what inspired my headcanon for Remus having pica

hey what do you think remus might have some sort of eating disorder if so which one?

This is a weird question, but okay. I personally don't have this as my primary headcanon for him, but I think if he did have an eating disorder that could affect his body, it would be Pica.

According to healthline.com, people with the disorder pica compulsively eat items that have no nutritional value. A person with pica might eat relatively harmless items, such as ice. Or they might eat potentially dangerous items, likes flakes of dried paint or pieces of metal. There's no definitive cause, but it might be the body trying to replenish low nutrition. Naturally it doesn't bode well for the patient, physically, mentally or emotionally.

Opposite Remus

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Wears a grey shirt, green shorts and just shorts. Pretty blank dude. A good reference would be Sunny from omori. I think he doesn’t really express emotions very good and is pretty emotionless tbh. He still gives Thomas intrusive thoughts. But they have more reason. Like he’d give Thomas thoughts about dying alone to push Thomas to go out and make some friends, or about killing simply because it’s what he does. But his thoughts have more reason. He usually just eats bland foods like just plain white rice or smth and everyone gets annoyed cuz of his bland tastes lol. I feel like he wouldn’t care enough about the royal aesthetic and it annoys Roman beyond belief lol. He doesn’t lie at all, he doesn’t see the point in lies. But he doesn’t hate them, he has nothing against people that do lie. He just doesn’t like the idea of people lying to themselves. He’d probably just be brutally honest but more subtle like not just yelling it. He does listen to the others.

Most people make opposite Remus Patton but more emotional and green lol. Just thought this would be more accurate lol.

Angst:He’s not emotionless, but sometimes doesn’t know how to feel about stuff or how to express it. Sometimes thinks he might say the wrong thing. He does care about the others though.

Brother comfort

We love Janus being jealous for vee

Imagine an au where instead of Virgil leaving the dark sides what if Janus or Remus left instead lol? Like if Janus left it would leave Virgil and Remus alone or if Remus left it would leave Virgil and Janus alone lol.

Bonus idea where Virgil didn’t leave the salaries but if apart of both groups cuz he’s a neutral side lol. Like he’s apart of both of the groups.

Patton:So we still down for Friday vee?

Virgil:Yeah-

Janus:ERMMMM, ACTUALLY WERE HANGING OUT OF FRIDAY SOOO..(they aint he just doesn’t want Virgil to go)

ooo that would be interesting to see how their dynamics would change

but man if Janus left Remus and Virgil alone JEEZ how that would suck for Virgil LMAO bro would be suffering

as for the second thing -

Jealous Janus is so funny to me hehe