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steakout-05

11 months ago

i might get some hate for this depending on where this post goes but i think lesboys are so valid and the discourse about them is so ridiculous. like you guys shouldn't have to deal with all that and it frustrates me that people throw hissy fits over an identity that literally does not affect them at all.

"but men cant be lesbians-" wrong. butch lesbians and trans men have a really closely connected history with each other that practically intersects and you should really do some research on that before you make blanket statements, not to mention that gender and sexuality is weird and wobbly and fluid and a very personal experience. it means a different thing to each person. being a man can be something completely different and saying stuff like this ignores people like demiboys, demigirls, genderfluid and genderflux people etc. these people will really preach "demolish the gender binary!! love is love!!" until someone's relationship with gender and sexuality is a little too freaky for them to handle and be challenged by lmaoo

"ohhh but what about the cishet men who say they're lesbians to prey on women-" YEAH WHAT ABOUT THEM????? THIS AIN'T ABOUT THEM BRO!!!!! this argument also REEKS of terfy "trans women are just predatory men!!!111!!1" rhetoric and it grosses me out. yeah some men are gross and do try to pull this but that does not negate someone's entire identity completely just because of a few bad actors, you know that right? actual black and white behaviour.

queer discourse is silly and i don't know why it's a thing. just let people exist. it isn't that hard. we have worse things to worry about than whether someone calls themselves a lesboy or not. i think we need to unplug our ears and yank our heads out of the sand and remember that the queer community is what it is because of our unique and amazing diversity. arguing over labels like school children isn't gonna help that. damn.

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also this should be obvious but terfs fuck off go explode you are not welcome here this is a terf UNsafe space terfs fuck off terfs dni terfs eat shit terfs explode this post is really random but i'm actually quite compelled and interested in queer discourse even though i think it's stupid and silly. i'm compelled by how angry other people get over literally nothing and ironically i end up discovering some new identities and developing a -newfound love for the diversity of our community like i could be reading some shitty post about an identity i don't know about and all i would be thinking is ''that exists? thats so cool!' and then i end up ignoring the bad post and research the identity and think ''man i love how queer we all are'' exclus people seem really sad. like im not saying this to be mean i genuinely think they seem really frustrated by everything. where's the joy in limiting your support and policing people around all day. where's the fun and growth in that. where's the learning. i obviously cannot change people's minds but if i could then i'd make sure no one falls into the trap of being an exclusionist because that -sounds like it really sucks. going full hippie mode in the tags lol i'd rather be a hippie than make allies with terfs anyway lesboys are cool gender is an illusion buy gold bye

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