And Have Been Together Happily For Years - Tumblr Posts

picked other surprised none of these options included 'already nonmonogamous' my spouse knew that was a relationship condition for me before we even started dating had a conversation about it when we started dating to establish mutually agreeable boundaries that worked for both of us rather than the socially expected pure monogamy and now we're married and have been together happily for years the important thing is to have boundaries that work for both (or all!) people involved in the relationship not ones that work for other people who aren't involved