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How your future spouse will behave in marriage 🪷
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🪷🩷This is a concept of Derivative astrology. 🤎🪷
ᯓᡣ𐭩 Information:-
Traditionally, you look at Venus if you are interested in women and Jupiter if you are interested in men. Personally, I look for both. 7th lord and darakaraka are the most important when it comes to spouses irrespective of sexual identity.
7th house shows partnership and the sign in 7th house shows how you behave in partnerships/marriage.
🤎🩷 In this post 🩷🤎
We are looking at the sign opposite your Venus/Jupiter/7th Lord/Darakaraka sign to know how your spouse will behave in marriage/partnerships.
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While intended for vedic astrology, description is also applicable for your 7th house sign in groom (5129)/briede(19029)/juno(3) persona chart(PC).
🩷 Venus/Jupiter/7th lord/darakaraka/PC Rising in Aries: (opposite sign in Libra)
Your spouse will be someone who seeks partnership and balance with a partner, they believe in give and take, someone values communication and will be you true partner, most likely enjoy doing things together, waits to come home or you to come home to tell you about anything new they learnt, loves to gossip with you, will enjoy going out with you, likes taking you out, showing you off and your achievements to the world, they do enjoy being cozy and couply in public wants people to know you guys are together and are partners. They can be romantic in public and likes when others know that they are "taken". Probably will enjoy socializing as a couple, attending events, throwing parties. I so see you guys having a bunch of friends over often having parties and gatherings. Focused on Harmony and peace, not to be the one to be petty or bring up things just to hurt you or to provoke, even in fights will remain calm and has a rational mindset, will listen to both sides and will try to put themselves in your shoes, but that doesn't mean that they are a pushover, they can be depending on their Mars placement. They will be utterly romantic and dream of a commitment with you, wouldn't want to jeopardize the relationship. Will be supportive and a true partner in crime. They will treat you with kindness and understanding. Will probably be happy when they have you(their partner ) around, romance is a priority ofcourse, treating you to luxuries and surprising you with gifts is their love language, will want you to be always comfortable and materially fed. Have the tendency to bring up something you did in the past just to level about something they are in the wrong now. They will prioritise what both of you want to do, so will compromise on things. ᯓᡣ𐭩
🤎 Venus/Jupiter/7th lord/darakaraka/PC rising in Taurus: (opposite sign in Scorpio)
Your future spouse is most likely more private and would like to keep the relationship low-key and not give out much information to others, they are not the kind to talk about what happens between you two with other people or to discuss your private matter with others, even their own family would like if you do the same. They are big on intimacy though, will want to be alone with you (their partner) a lot, and when alone it will be hard for them to be apart from you, will probably love being skin to skin (sounds very sensual 18+ , it can be iykyk) or likes touching you a lot. They are protective and also possessive, don't want you with others for long, they would want you both to spend as much time together as possible, for them you are now one-soul, one unit, so when one suffers both suffers, which makes them very protective of you as well, can baby you. They will be very emotionally attached to you and seek vulnerability between you two, probably won't like having secrets in the relationship, they crave the deepest level of commitment there is. Might get jealous easily. Will take care of you without question and would like to keep you fed and happy, they can be devoted to you and see you as a soulmate. Might enjoy spending money on you, and give you everything you want. Can be very sensual and likes to do a lot of bed activities (18+), wouldn't mind spending time alone in the woods or on a deserted Island as long as you are there. May be intune with you and knows what you need instantly, strong intuition with partners. The kind to sweep you away from people to have alone time or to chat just with you, ask you how you are doing.ᯓᡣ𐭩
🩷 Venus/Jupiter/7th lord/darakaraka/PC rising in Gemini: (opposite sign in Sagittarius)
Your future spouse will undoubtedly want to have their own freedom within the partnership. They value relationships where there is two people who have their own independent lives, this is not to say they want an open relationship but they like having their own time and respects a partner who does too, they will not be the kind to be extremely co-dependent on someone. Now, they are probably the funny ones and will use humour to keep the dynamic light and fun, they will be your best friend and you can be as open with them as you have never been with anyone, they will be non-judgemental and will be extremely supportive of you, showing you the right path. Here me out, I do think that, they might think that what they know is for the best, I do think they value intellectuality as a couple, where both of you are discussing hot topics, having hot arguments, they like when you have interests to discuss or when you you both share soke interests so that you can discuss them later. They will travel activities you can both do together, activities you like, activities nobody has done but they want to experience with you. Another partner in crime placement, I think they will be happy doing new things with you, and will like to keep the spark alive by indulging in new hobbies and experiences. No doubt that they are big on traveling and will plan adventures for you both or even you do. I don't think there's anything they would mind doing together. Possibly wants to expand spiritual/religious understanding with you, especially if they are from different backgrounds, will want both of you to be involved in each other's cultural things.They will feel lucky to be with you.ᯓᡣ𐭩
🤎 Venus/Jupiter/7th lord/darakaraka/PC rising in Cancer: (opposite sign in Capricorn)
Your future spouse is likely to be more mature and practical in the relationship, they think before acting so will not be impulsive with their actions, will plan before they decide to do something, so depending on how you see it it might be boring for you but for others it might just mean they are more responsible and meticulous, their love language probably will be acts of service and gift giving, I do think they will look to be the provider in the energy, not just Materially but will want to make sure you are fed in all aspects, so whatever you need emotionally, physically, materially they will get you, they will want to be at your service. They will be very respectful of you and your boundaries, they are definitely not someone who will push you, they will be your biggest supporter but if there is something you don't want to do they will not push you to do it. They will be reasonable with you, try to reason in fights or in moments of conflict, depending on where there Mars is they might get loud in fights, definitely stubborn and don't budge easily especially if they think you are Being unreasonable, they are all for your well being but they cannot accept irrational behaviour. They will expect you to be mature and take care of yourself, if you don't they might motivate you to do so. When sick, the kind to baby you feed you and be at your beck and call, not the one to limit you when you are being ambitious, will be your biggest supporter, always there to guide and listen when you are not having a good day. Very chill person on most days but can be pushy and act like they know best. Also the kind to plan about finances so you have long term stability, might worry about common finances ᯓᡣ𐭩
🩷 Venus/Jupiter/7th lord/darakaraka/PC rising in Leo: (opposite sign in aquarius)
Your future spouse is someone who is not one for co-dependent love, and I mean the extreme kind, they are not the clingy types but that doesn't mean they can't be idealistic in love. I would think of them having fantasies from time to time but also they switch because they also have other things to do, they like having the kind of dynamic where both of you are independent people, having their lives, working their jobs and coming home to a partner to share that burden with. Very focused on providing you the luxurious life and nothing less they seem to be kind who will value you greatly and your opinions, they would want to bounce of what they are thinking and to get your opinions, they might also enjoy having intelligent conversations with you, especially about political/social issues, I think it might be important for them that you guys agree on issues or if you don't you have a strong point of view why not, they do value that you have the right intentions. Again a good best-friend like behaviour, enjoys sharing interests with you and enjoys when you both talk about common stuff. Providing materially is a thing for them and may be proud to show you off, they will be proud to have you on their arm at social events, introducing you to high ranking individuals (probably at their workplace) to show off what a catch their partner is, may see you as a status upgrade for themselves, Could be marriage is something that elevates their status and they are happy to be out socializing. I also see you both throwing parties and having people over, you may be the couple who hangout with other couples a lot. ᯓᡣ𐭩
🤎Venus/Jupiter/7th lord/darakaraka/PC rising in Virgo: (opposite sign in pisces)
Your future spouse is someone who craves a strong intuitive connection with their partner, someone who knows the ins and out of you, how you are feeling. They will constantly check up on you and will always want to make sure you are happy and content, because to them you are the one and all. They can be idealistic and treat you as their true soulmate and will treat you like one like you two are one soul. Their favourite time is when it is just you two together, they want to have you just to themselves and alone. They are likely to be understanding and empathetic when it comes to you, understanding your emotions and how and when you react, they will adapt to it and honestly will expect the same from you, if they wanna be alone you have to understand to give them the space. However if the situations were reversed I think they might struggle with giving you your space (if underdeveloped) or would have a hard time being away from you, because if something is bothering you they just want to be there to fix everything (well the main placement is in Virgo). They are one of the naughtiest bunch, they also express their love through other more sensual means (18+) they are someone who will pamper you, and wouldnt mind staying in with you in your safe space (your home) and meet no one. There's an idea of being inside the bubble or atleast even if temporary after coming back from work, it's a joyful time for them. They will treat you like an inspiration, so if they are in artist you are the muse, if they are just listening to music they will think of you, any form of art that invokes emotions you are that. They are the kind to behave madly in their love as their love for you will know no bounds. ᯓᡣ𐭩
🩷 Venus/Jupiter/7th lord/darakaraka/PC rising in Libra: (opposite sign in Aries)
Your future spouse is someone who is the more the initiative taker, plans things and will initiate new things with you, also the planner, will bring out new ideas and things to do in the relationship, anything you might have even slightly mentioned "oh I wanna try this", they will come up with a plan to do that, both of you. Again I think this is another very friendly best friend kind of a dynamic they seek and treat you like an equal partner, that also means they wouldn't care telling you when you are wrong, or will try to counter you in arguments, it doesn't have to be an impulse thing but just they are presenting an contrary view and also because they like Provoking you, getting you riled up, hot and heavy. They will be protective of you and would like to be respected. Slight disrespect or dismissive behaviour from you, they will not have it. They might occasionally put their own preference over you. Likes to be pampered, and wouldn't actually hate if you guys as a couple get attention from others, infact will love it, they would love introducing you as their partner to others (such a Libra thing to do). They do get competitive if it's a couple thing, as they want to be the best couples amongst every other. They might be the one to introduce fun into the relationship and doesn't appreciate when things get sour, ofc it doesn't mean constantly doing the fun stuff but if you guys go beyond some time without fun, they would worry. Very passionate and sensual and cannot keep their hand off you, would get jealous if they sense a thread but probably wouldn't say anything because they have high self respect.ᯓᡣ𐭩
🤎 Venus/Jupiter/7th lord/darakaraka/PC rising in Scorpio: (opposite sign in Taurus)
Your future spouse is someone who will be more calm and chilled out and I believe very happy once in a relationship or marriage or commitment as they might be someone who likes to skip the dating part and be in the long commitment with someone they so dearly love and care for. While they are relaxed, they take their duties very seriously and also a provider energy where they want their partners and possible other family members to be taken care off, and the kind to be Fully aware of what's happening in your day to day to the tiniest detail, unlikely they forget major stuff, you have an important meeting coming up they will make sure you are eating, sleeping, not nervous, prepared. They will root for you, they want you to succeed. They however will rage if they go under appreciated or taken granted for, then they can become petty and revengeful so you know what role they play in your life. On beat days, will feed you and pamper you and will enjoy being in the comfort of your home with their partner, pet, children, etc. They might show their appreciation of you through gifts and will bug things that remind them of you. They be passing by a bakery and remembering you like lemon tart and get that for you (unasked), so tiny things that bring you joy they do it without much thought. Cuddles and hugs and comforting you. Comforting you through other means (iykyk)(18+) as it gets them going. They will like when you initiate intimacy as well, and will love to see you get all dressed up and pretty for them, and celebrating small victories. They are the kind to imagine old age with you and how you will be together forever. ᯓᡣ𐭩
🩷 Venus/Jupiter/7th lord/darakaraka/PC rising in Sagittarius: (opposite sign in Gemini)
Your future spouse is likely to be very communicative and chatty with you, they love to bounce ideas off you, have intellectual debates, conversation about random stuff and discussion about anything. If they chose you are already interesting to them so what you think or you view different things they wanna know, they are not judgemental and very open to accepting different views from you. They are friendly and a partner on crime vibe, they see you as one of their favourite friends/bear friends with whom they can be unapologetically themselves, and with whom they dont think they will be judged, they will be almost too crazy with you and childish, doing or wanting to do all sort of weird things, they will probably be the one to push you into your hobbies and will rejoice seeing you being childlike and connecting with your inner child. If you have difficulty communicating they will be so happy to see you do so and especially when they see that you trust them. Others might not treat them seriously but they really are wise and will pour in their lessons from experiences from time to time and will appreciate if you are understanding and not dismissive of them. They are almost too bright and sunshine in the relationship, and also enjoys learning from their partner or with a partner, so they may drag you to classes and stuff so you can both engage in meaningful learning experiences, but also very spontaneous and quirky. You can count on them to ask you if you wanna go on a drive at 3 in the morning to a nearby town. Probably the kind to find shared interest or show interest in things you do because they like to be involved in your activities and what you like. Kind to get you art supplies, make up supplies, camera lenses, writing pens, notebooks etc for your hobbies. If you create art they will probably be too excited when you are in the process. They will find it so fascinating. ᯓᡣ𐭩
🤎 Venus/Jupiter/7th lord/darakaraka/PC rising in Capricorn: (opposite sign in cancer)
Your future spouse is likely to be a doting person and will always look out for you, they would be someone who will like seeing your forever future together and would tell you about their plans for your future together, will be planning things ahead, monetarily always on things and has future in mind, probably will have all the important talks early in relationship about finances, children, culture influence you want kids to have everything, where you will live. The kind who will love to have lovable family members and friends over, and would enjoy throwing parties and hosting gatherings with you as a couple. Will be talking about you to their parents or close friends, doting on you and praising you with them. They will feel like they won and may see you as a price or that they lucked out. They wouldn't even think of putting you in any kind of misery, like if they didn't think they would be good enough for you they would never have courted you, very well you have wanted to be financially abundant or comfortable before courting partner because they want their partner to be comfortable, doesn't have to be luxury but atleast enough to get a car. I think they will try to get along or make efforts to be close to people you dearly love and adore, be it friends or family. They will make sure to see you are taking care of yourself, emotionally mentally. Always there to lend their ears to listen to you and shoulders to cry on, although they would struggle a lot if you do cry or seeing you distressed would be painful for them. I think they would really crave having a family with you, (18+)breeding kink can be a thing or would like to see you pregnant or to carry your child. ᯓᡣ𐭩
🩷 Venus/Jupiter/7th lord/darakaraka/PC rising in Aquarius: (sign opposite in Leo)
Your future spouse will be the kind to be very proud to have you as theirs and will have moments of strong realisations that they get to have you, touch you and call you theirs. Definitely very happy to show you off and have you in their arms as they promenade around (can you tell i finished watching bridgerton). They see you as a total whoot and also enjoys learning from you about what you have to say, they will feel strongly attached and passionate with you, it might be hard for them to keep their hands of you, ofc 18+ intended but I think even if you have been away from each other for few hours they will make sure to touch you on your back, hands, arms when you finally reunite, probably won't like having to stay away from you, can be in the honeymoon mindset a lot or would prefer if it was just that, might not like to face the unpleasant facets of relationship or would isolate if this happens as they may like to solve things on their own first before having discussion with you. If they work in business/corporate, would love to introduce you to people, especially seniors in kinda braggy way see this is who I am with, they will always have your back and will be supportive and encouraging of you and your dreams. Will be more invested in you achieving great heights than you, will push you to do your best because they see only the best potential in you and you can do anything. They will be so protective over you and possessive might be a trait, can get jealous if you spend more time with someone else, although does have a healthy esteem but wil lbs slightly bothered if you have a lengthy conversation with someone who they know is attracted to you, will publicly show that you are with them with small/big gestures. ᯓᡣ𐭩
🤎 Venus/Jupiter/7th lord/darakaraka/PC rising in Pisces: (opposite sign in Virgo)
Your future spouse will be practical in love and the kind to plan a lot in advance, will be the kind to imagine about the future and what your future looks like together. However I also think they will worry in general a lot, if the relationship is going right or would overthink your actions, so you might have to re assure them a lot, but would also worry if you guys have a family, for the future, about the finances about how things can be better, they will constantly think of making improvements in your lives. The kind to push you to stay on top of your health, will cook for you and take care of you. Might Banter with you because it's all about finding the best solution, would also enjoy listening to you and would find you knowledgeable. Their approach to conflicts I can see being direct and practical, if something is not right they will say it, i think this might happen gradually because initially I think they will overthink a lot about what they are doing and if it's the right thing to do. They would enjoy doing mundane things with you, going outside to the park, walking your pet, doing shopping, basically would love to spend every waking minute with you(mostly). Kind to enroll you both in classes so you can learn new things, acts of service being important love language. They would really like shopping with you or for you. Might be emotionally connected to you a lot and will hate to see you worry and they will want to do is solve things for you. Will plan random candlelight dates at home, romanticising daily life, i think their approach is more away from people and in comforts of your your own bubble. I don't think they think much about people in regards to relationship, only how you both feel and do and act. More on shy side about saying how they feel. Remembers smallest of things about you, how you like certain things, dotes on your small habits. ᯓᡣ𐭩
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