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Skin of Skunk Anansie in The Righteous Babes: Feminism and Rock Music in the 1990’s (1998, dir. Pratibha Parmar)

I think the car/robot/mech fuckers on here would greatly benefit from doing some bare minimum research about sex and intimacy with disabled people because I just don't think it occurs to some people that the end goal for dalliances in these situations should not really be how can I contort the vessel my lover calls home to be most palatable to a normative idea of (usually penetrative but regardless high contact) sex but how can I accommodate and enjoy the body this person I want to be with that is gratifying and safe for both parties even if what the other partner wants or is reasonably physically capable is not this ingrained ideal of a "normal" orgasm. And while these ideas apply to sex in general, I feel the approach and the creativity specifically for sex with disability is most pertinent to what thematically makes sense when you want to talk logistics that aren't just thank god, I was able to ducktape a phallus to it.