Bd/sm Education - Tumblr Posts
There is a misunderstanding in the bdsm community, usually made by people who are new.
It is understandable, people read what others write and get super turned on. There is a mis-belief by many that any submissive is out here, waiting just to fuck you in whatever way you want.
Yes, there are some who will do that - but not all. It's not even the standard in the bdsm scene.
To get to the point of a submissive who will totally, blindly, willingly obey you whatever you ask
You have to put the time, energy and effort into them first.
Even submissives who accept male superiority are human and need to know you are as well. A hello and slip your cock in is not acceptable at Aunty Mavis' funeral and it is not acceptable in the bdsm scene unless it has been previously arranged.
When a submissive is owned property - do NOT approach them asking if they want to [fill in the blank]. You need to approach their Owner to ask, only their Owner can say if that will be OK or not
and chances are they will not be OK if you are a stranger to them. Every Dominant/Master I have met in person has valued their property and will not risk possible, unknown harm coming to them.
Protocols exist for a reason. You will go far in your local community and online, if you take the time to learn what they are.
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When your fingers deep inside of her and you curl them. Your palm pressed against her as you start rocking your hand. You know it's the right spot when her hands suddenly try hiding her face. She can't formulate a single word and she is desperately trying to cover her mouth or grab a pillow.
If you want to give her release right away then the nice thing to do is push your fingers into her mouth, allowing her fixate on that as she suddenly floods your hand.
If you're a bit masochistic you let her have your hand or arm to bite, allowing her to go a bit feral as she cums. You will hear her growling.
If you're a sadist and love to see their brain melt. You use your free hand and take their wrists pinning them. As you look them directly in the eyes. This makes them clench and try so hard to fight and hold it back that when you rock that very last time you swear your getting baptized with how wet she is. Legs shaking and quivering as her own motions will cause her to keep rocking her hips. If your lucky and or evil this allows you to force a few more minigasms.
All of these ways are perfect by the way and no matter what when she finds words again she'll thank you.
Just remember to tell her how good she did for you for maximum blush.
So I had decided to take a bdsm test today n I wanna show my results 2 all of u here♡♡♡
I wanna retake this test every year 2 see if my results change as I progress as a person, anyway here u go!
== Results from bdsmtest.org:=
88% Vanilla
64% Submissive
60% Switch
47% Pet
46% Rope bunny
43% Dominant
43% Boy/Girl
40% Master/Mistress
38% Non-monogamist
37% Experimentalist
35% Voyeur
31% Brat tamer
29% Rigger
28% Owner
24% Brat
23% Primal (Prey)
21% Degrader
17% Exhibitionist
9% Sadist
8% Primal (Hunter)
6% Daddy/Mommy
5% Degradee
3% Slave
2% Ageplayer
0% Masochist
It seems that I'm kinda vanilla 4 the most part but I really like bdsm elements & dynamics, which I feel kinda tracks 4 me 4 the most part ♡