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The ace talk

The first reaction of the partner: they think you are afraid.

They think that they aren’t attractive enough, that it’s on them.

They think you never tried it (because if you did, you’ll “see the light” somehow).

New assumption: the sex you had before was bad.

The way it’s impossible to explain to someone that you see colors when they don’t (or that you don’t see colors when they do).

…And to explain that you like the non-sexual part of the romantic relationship

And then, with all the informations you gave them, they now have to choose if it could be enough for them.