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Day 1

starting a daily sorta blog to track my progress.

Me and my partner (let's call him Niani, for privacy sake, not his real name) decided we both have some issues we need to improve on in ourselves, and we're going to take til the end of the month, which is 21 days, to see how much progress we can make in that time.

My list is:

Try to work on developing a more healthy attachment style

Become less obsessive over my ex (lets call him Adolpho)

lessen my self destructive tendencies

Be less rigid/emotional about small things (hence doing my part to bring down the amount of bickering we do.) Niani's list is:

Communication/openness

Attentiveness

Showing love/affection

Shifting language to avoid bickering I think that this is really gonna help us. And I have to remember that while I am doing this for myself, and for the forgiveness of Adolpho, it is, most importantly, for Niani, because he deserves the best version of me possible.