I'm Finally Getting More Settled In Myself But I Have To Say - Tumblr Posts

I love femme women without apology. I have never understood the dynamic in the lesbian community where femmeXfemme couples are less prevalent or desired. I want a femme lover, partner and girlfriend. No offense to masc women, but it's how I love.

super warm hug to the femmes who struggle to accept themselves. An extra hug to those of us who struggle against the shame that marginalization has taught us in order to carve out our sense of home in being femme.

fat femmes who don't have a conventionally feminine body shape

femmes of color who have never been treated as delicate or worthy of protection

femmes who are strong-willed, abrasive, direct, and assertive

femmes who have never felt desirable, who have felt like they were invisible or even unworthy of being in relationship with others

transfem femmes who feel starved of true acceptance

femmes who overcompensate for this feeling by becoming neurotic and controlling about their outward presentation

femmes who deal with this feeling by stifling their femmeness and hiding behind the most nondescript clothing they can

You are all worthy, and you are all precious.

edit: I wanted to explicitly include transfems :)