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all the arguments in favour of he/him lesbians seem to be "theyre women or transmasculine nonbinary people so theyre still valid! no ones claiming *actual men* are lesbians" as a binary trans man lesbian is always so interesting. their acceptance of transmasc lesbians relies on the exclusion of binary trans man lesbians

it's began to frustrate me too, seeing every time someone asks what a he/him lesbian is the argument for it relies on that lesbian having 0 connection to manhood in any way whatsoever, rather than just "lesbians sometimes use he/him pronouns for gender expression, whatever that may mean to them" that can include butch/masc lesbians using it as a gender expression or being gnc or being transmasc or trans man or multigender or whatever. placing "don't worry they're not REALLY MEN :')" at the end when some of us. are men just in our own way