Jonghyun Oppa Rest Well - Tumblr Posts
We care for you guys
some tips to get through the next few days
drink water crying gets you dehydrated so keep drinking water
do breathing exercises it will help you calm down
take naps/sleep emotions are exhausting, it’s okay to sleep a little to recover
run cold water over your wrists this is especially good if you’re trying not to cry, it will calm you down
eat don’t eat big meals if you’re not up for it but please eat small amounts
get comfort food don’t feel guilty about it
take a bath/shower it’ll help you feel refreshed
cry it’s the best way to relieve some stress so it’s okay to cry as much as possible
talk to shawols, family members, friends, you need their support and it’s okay to ask for it
be easy on yourself it’s normal you don’t feel up to certain tasks or activities, don’t punish yourself and just accept that
Stay safe everyone ❤︎
2 years have passed since your last goodnight. I had a good day today and somehow I just can't seem to shake the feeling that you were watching too. As the laughs and smiles passed my face today, I remembered you. For some reason today didn't beat me down with sadness but rather lifted me up with happiness. Today just reminded me of all your smiles and laughs, the way you seemed to light up my day through a screen. You never knew me but my dearest Jonghyun its because of you I'm alive and here. I found you in my darkest times and you still walk on holding a light in front of me. Today its 2 years since I woke up with the worst news of my life. Today it's been 2 years since you left and today it's 2 years of mourning your loss. Yet as i watch all the videos that I can find and listen to all your songs that I have, I smile. I smile in the celebration of the brilliant and shining life you lived and the gleaming legacy you've left behind. So move forward and start your next life. I promise I'll find you again this time. Please promise me th at you'll just wait until then. I promise I'll love you again then as I love you now. But now I'll remind you as I have been for the past 2 years.
You did well. You did your best and left me with the greatest memories. Now rest well my darling. I'll see you someday and until then I'll live smiling and laughing. Celebrating the boy who gave my life a reason and saved me from demons of my head. Rest well dearest and please smile as you look at me now.
I love you. I miss you and I'll see you.