Like Its Not This Huge Life-ending Thing If You Have Sex Wirh Someone And Come To Hate Them Later Or Whatever. It Doesnt Have To Be Scary - Tumblr Posts
1 year ago
the rise in sex negativity amongst young queer people in recent years coinciding with the overall rise in conservative and particularly evangelical christian ideology is genuinely terrifying. i understand that unpacking ideas you've been taught since childhood is hard work but in the current political climate it's absolutely vital that you do not regurgitate queerphobic talking points (which queer people have been fighting against for decades). people are going to die, and it is our responsibility to minimise the damage, because governments and corporations sure as hell aren't going to.
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ive spent a long time fighting with my own identity in desperate attempts to figure out if im sex repulsed. asexual. greyace. etc terms that
at this point are a bunch of horseshit to me. ive come to terms with the trauma that caused those feelings and understand that most of the
time. sex Doesnt matter to me
but more than THAT. its ok when it Does
ive actually come to adore the idea of casual sex and sex between friends because it takes all the mysticism out of it
like its not this huge life-ending thing if you have sex wirh someone and come to hate them later or whatever. it doesnt have to be scary
or important. it can just be... fun!
and i understand sexual repulsion bc ive been there at times! but at this point its like
yeah if you feel uncomfortable with going to pride bc of sex repulsion that Sucks. but pride isnt the only physical space
to find other queer people.
sometimes parts of the community Are Not going to be for you. its okay. you dont need to feel left out or lesser
for not going to pride because the visual reality of people having sexual attraction makes you personally uncomfortable. its alright to feel
that way
but do not take it out on people who enjoy sex and being sexual. do not try to get sex banned or put morals to it because it does not help
you or me. it helps no one but the bigots who want us all dead or at minimum invisible