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I FUCKING LOVE THIS! AND I WAS THE TYPE OF PERSON THAT WOULD FEEL INDEBTED TO A PERSON WHO TOOK ME OUT. BUT AFTER READING THIS......NO FRICKIN MORE! THIS MAKES SO MUCH DAMN SENSE.
get comfortable receiving! the art of accepting gifts & money without feeling guilty or indebted to men
A lot of women go 50/50 on first dates because “they don’t want to feel indebted to men” or they don’t want to feel guilty about it.
consider this:
men don’t feel guilty asking you for sex on the first date
men don’t feel ashamed asking you to go raw (and risking pregnancy/stds 🤡)
men are not tossing and turning at night thinking about how they lead you on
men don’t feel like they “owe” you a relationship or commitment after months of treating you like their girlfriend
and you’re telling me you feel indebted because of a 100$ restaurant bill ????
if there’s one thing women need to learn from men it’s audacity!
men have the audacity to ask and receive what they want without feeling guilty or over thinking it
let men pay on every date because them paying for a meal means nothing really,
that’s them paying for access to YOUR time,
THEY invited YOU on a date, THEY are pursuing YOU, why should you pay to see them ???
if a man ever pulls the famous “you just wanted a free dinner” you can say that “actually the dinner was never free, you’re trying to get your payment for it just in another form”
which is true, the dinner would have been free if the man payed and went about his day but you can’t pay the dinner and ask for “my part” in the form of sex etc and call it a free dinner
you gotta learn to be savage when receiving from men, because men are savage when it comes to taking from women
also remember no matter how much money a man spends on you, he can always make more money
i don’t care if he put you through school, bought you a house and car, got you a stocks portfolio, a man can always make that money back
but you know what you can’t get back ? time, energy, soul ties
when you give a man your feminine energy, sex, intimacy, you’re granting him access to your soul, it takes months even years to get over a breakup and it’s hard to break a soul tie, when you sleep with a man your body releases hormones to bond with the man, making it harder to get over him
there’s a reason sex workers quit at the end and feel rotten on the inside, because they realize the price they’re getting for sex is cheap in exchange for what they give men, their freaking soul energy!
Speaking of material versus immaterial thing, Earl Nightingale said “Even if our home burns down we can rebuild it. But the things that we got for nothing, we can never replace.“
so never let a man dangle money over your head like it actually means something, accept gifts freely because at the end of the day feminine energy is sacred, it is the most expensive and sought after thing in the world, remember that.