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8 months ago
i think there is a very special category of "most dense mfer in the world" for people irl who somehow misgender me (and continue to misgender me) despite me wearing multiple layers of men's clothing, cutting my hair short, not shaving, binding my chest and wearing a very visible and big he/him pin on my bag. disrespectfully: how the actual hell did you fuck up that badly.
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like surely you can take a hint as to what gender expression i'm going for. surely.
at this point they have to be doing it on purpose. there's no way you can look at someone who is obviously presenting as masc this much and
-be like ''eerrmmm are u a she'' on accident. no way
unless they think i'm butch??? but also like???? the pronoun pin????? the trans pin?????? HELLO??????????
is there some kind of secret sauce these people are picking up that i don't know about or something. am i missing something
because there's no fucking way i could be missing anything with a literal he/him pin
are people just like.... not being very perceptive????
it happens online too??? somehow??????
my pronouns are one of the only immediate pieces of information someone could get from me online. how the actual fuck.
i'm gonna have to put my pronouns in my username in online games at this point 😭
i'm convinced cis people don't know how to take a hint or something. in any situation
i'm kidding...... or am i?
but seriously though it's as if i gotta hold up a giant sign that says ''I'M A MAN I GO BY HE/HIM'' just to be gendered correctly
it's especially annoying when people continue to misgender me after hearing my voice cause like. i know it's not the lowest voice-
-in the world but SURELY you can decipher something from someone who's on his way to sounding like australian critikal
it's also confusing because i pass to all my friends. and yet. strangers somehow don't get it.
(maybe that's why my friends are my friends and the strangers aren't /jjjjjjjj)
anyway yeah. very annoying
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