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4 months ago

Just because someone slows down doesn't mean they are not interested anymore!

Just Because Someone Slows Down Doesn't Mean They Are Not Interested Anymore!

I have seen anxiety-inducing posts about partners drifting apart and having lost interest when not interacting, but real life happens fam. Yes, when we are low on brain juice, we choose to reply to threads that appeal the most to us at that time to not get swamped in threads too much.

But we REALLY need to stop assuming the worst about our partner right away when our thread is not among the few chosen ones and takes longer to get replied to.

Maybe your partner wants to tend to your reply when they feel less tired, to give you the best they can do? Work and private stress can also take a while to subdue, so please be patient with your partner and don't just softblock because your brain assumes only bad things.

Sometimes we are in a bad place ourselves and need to step back a bit instead of projecting our own insecurities onto our partners in these moments. And taking time for yourself is perfectly okay. Being chronically online is not healthy in the long run.


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1 year ago
That Feeling When Your Entire Party Fails Their Perception Roll
That Feeling When Your Entire Party Fails Their Perception Roll

That feeling when your entire party fails their perception roll


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2 years ago

ah nothing like opening your history book on a random page because you still gotta do your homework at almost 11 pm because you're stupid and put it off until after doing the other homework which took like 4 hours and the first word you see is just "cannibalism"

isn't that fun


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