Ppl Are Puzzles Take Them As They Come And Most Of The Time Either U Won't Know Them Long Enough To Get All The Pieces Or You Could Know Th - Tumblr Posts

a man can like dresses dressing up makeup like fashion like expression like the textures and not be trans that should be common fuckn sense vica versa n everything no matter the way u mix it and put it together people are multifaceted can like what they like do what fulfills the and thats that nothing = anything when it comes to expression and creativity n just personalization or whatever be it a gay relationship a lesbian a trans man a trans anyone a straight cis man a cis straight woman a black woman an east asian woman it goes on and on there's stereotypes and trying to rule over ppl with them or insist they're something or try and convince/coerce someone whatever its dumb and isn't going to help u dont know someone or have the capability to understand someone more than they do or then they have the capability and possibility to know themselves etc cause ur not them. the reality u know someones truth or identity completely and utterly before they do is unlikely its a journey they have to figure out whichever way that journey turns out and i dont mean u can't try and help ppl find answers or support them and try 2 giv them potential conclusions or 'fixes' or whatever if theyr hurting im saying a st8 man can luv skirts can lov cosmetics and jewellery adore gymnastics love ballet and still be a straight cis man and that goes for any case or however one wants to or what they spin. a gay woman can love skirts can love pink can love cosmetics can love dolls can love fairies n still be lesbian and even the 'dominate' party or 'play that role' sometimes whatever if they're psychically intimiate sexually and it still makes sense and doesn't matter if they wear pastel acrylics and like a nice plush the most goth grunge lesbian woman can still b feminine can be bbg whatever they can say prefer the more 'submissive' or whatever in a relationship in their sex life its not that serious we need to shut up ppl are puzzles take them as they come and most of the time either u won't know them long enough to get all the pieces or you could know th for years u still dont get it and ur not compatible who cares or they dont know about the puzzle piece yet and they r the puzzle the bottom top bs is dumb the 'dominant' one sexually can be 5'1 man or woman anything in between it does not matter the bottom could be 6' like the top(s) isn't/aren't always the 'dominant' one in a sexually active relationship they can be submi . the 'bottom' could be dom its not that crazy a cis straight man might like a dominate woman as a partner and they go crazy go stupid in bed have a good time if its the case it just is hes not less of a man hes not less masc its the guys personal relationship he wants to be bbg and theres defo women who love that or two ppl wanna be short together idk do ur thing im sure many tall women might want a short man as a partner it doesnt matter its not crazy and if they're both happy and its what they want and are comfy in then who cares they don't hurt you its not your life