Queer Advice - Tumblr Posts

heyyy, to all my questioning queer people tryna figure out their identities, consider this:

there is a big difference between what you ARE attracted to, and what you WANT to be attracted to.

what i mean by that is, let’s say for example that maybe you are a girl and you think you’re bi. you definitely feel attraction to girls, however you label yourself as bi because you think you would like to be in a relationship with a boy. but you aren’t actually attracted to boys. it’s just rather you like the idea of boys, maybe you even like some fictional ones, but you’re actually a lesbian.

that was just an example, idk, hopefully i got my point across ok. i just figured it might help some people to think about whether they’re attracted to a certain gender because they ARE or because they WANT to be. idk.