Who Makes Me Very Happy By Being A Part Of My Life - Tumblr Posts
This is honestly great standards. I had such better luck in dating after I finally realized that the only standard I really needed was, "Someone who makes me happier when we're together than I make myself on my own."
Then you figure out all the things that you can do for yourself to make yourself happy, and if anyone tries to tell you, "You'll never find a partner unless you lower your standards!" you can tell them with 100% honesty that a partner who requires you to lower your standards isn't a partner worth having.
Once again proving the reason I'm single is that I've set my self care standards so high: knew I'd be sugar low but too sleepy for a meal after That so I packed myself a chocolate bar with a smiley face sticker on it to find in my pocket and be delighted by later when I came out the gig, which I just Discovered and almost wept with joy at. No other man loves me like I do