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Fuuuuuck Im having AroAce Problems capital P

I tried to explain to an allosexual/romantic ally friend of mine that im having a astethic/sensual attraction crush on a mutual friend of ours, and eather they think of me as a weirdo now or just decided not to think about it to much.

Like, I explained (way too exited, btw) how much i liked the crushs body shape, and how pretty their jawline (so soft!!) was and i must have sounded posessed (how do allos do this?) just to use my fav. aroace crush metaphor (aka. 'the painting') later to explain that even though they are beautiful and i want to cuddle them to death, i am not sexually attracted to them.

Imagine a friend gushing about your other friends curves and body shape, and then being like 'naaaaw i don't wanna fuck them, i just think they're neat' like yeah shure totally.

After I realised what i had done, and how my explanation might have been percived by an alloally, i just died a little.

rip me