Clarifier, When We Say "relationship" In Our Posts We Aren't Specifying If They Were Romantic, Sexual,

Clarifier, when we say "relationship" in our posts we aren't specifying if they were romantic, sexual, parental, platonic, familial, religious or any other kind of relationship.

Same goes when we say abusive relationship.

We're not specifying because, frankly, it's not Tumblr's business!

Cool?

Cool.

Have a good one y'all!

~ Kaden

OOP OKAY

huh

That's weird

can y'all still send anons or are you stuck for eternity having to be honest /t

Well so someone was so kind as to reply to my anons question with this

I THINK I know who it was but I'm not certain and their blog doesn't allow replies

if not I just blocked someone for good

oops 😭💀

Concept: You walk outside one night and notice that there are two full moons. A few hours go by and they don’t seem to move.

You stare up at them.

They blink.

No gay has all 5:

- A job

- Good relationship with father

- Neurotypical brain

- Ability to top

- Driver’s license

A kid will only remember the pain/fear that comes with a hit, not why they got hit. All the parent is teaching is fear.

If the child is old enough to understand why they're being hit, they should never be hit. That is when you teach them the lesson without violence or pain.

Never, ever, hit a child. They don't remember why you hurt them, only that they were hurt, and that shatters trust.

If your parents hit you but it was only once in a while, that was abuse.

If your parents hit you but never left a mark, that was abuse.

If your parents hit you but never with a closed fist, that was abuse.

If your parents hit you but never in the face, that was abuse.

If your parents hit you but never with an object, that was abuse.

If your parents hit you but said they were sorry after, that was abuse.

If your parents hit you but only when you were really acting out, that was abuse.

If your parents hit you but it was only spanking, that was abuse.

If your parents hit you but stopped once you got to a certain age, that was abuse.

If your parents never hit you but they shoved you, grabbed you roughly, scratched you or dug their nails into your skin, pulled your hair, or otherwise put hands on you out of anger, that was abuse.

If an adult did any of those things to another adult they were arguing with at the grocery store, it would be considered assault. If an adult did any of those things to their romantic partner it would be considered domestic violence. It's not any more okay when a parent does it to a defenseless child.

I spent most of my life not realizing I was abused because I wasn't being beaten, and I spent even longer thinking the abuse was only emotional.

Aaaa that's a pain!!!! I hope it works out y'all<3

LMAOO TRUCK BALLS 😭 yes please do it

Lol adding to that our family has been jokingly threatening to slap a learner's plate on our chair like "this one cannot drive don't trust"

Disabled system culture is having everyone slap stickers on our wheelchair until it looks like a paper-mache project done by a 6 year old

We've removed some for sanities sakes lmao

hough we have this with our cane!! we havent been able to use our wheelchair much recently because there was a period where we moved, didnt have our old one, got a new one, and then school started. our campus is p inaccessible so we havent had much of a chance to use it but once we do. vibrates. gonna sticker that thing up.

very slight nsfw but its funny//

we do, however, have a keychain that looks like testicles and we are gonna attach it to our wc like truck balls :))

-aimee (any)