(if You're Seeing This Post Directly From Apolladay Just Reblog DON'T VOTE As I Think It Will Skew The

(if you're seeing this post directly from apolladay just reblog DON'T VOTE as I think it will skew the answers. i didn't have enough followers to justify posting it myself lol)

I frequently realize I've been following someone for a while, but actually don't know what their profile picture depicts.

Sorry, OP, this was too funny not to reblog with.

Winner will receive the honor of being allowed on the train

artist in denial of being depressed: omg this 2 month long art block has been crazy... sorry i haven't updated any of my fics in a long while! it's just been super difficult to daydream! so weird that i've lost a little bit of passion for my current comfort character and ocs... this couldn't possibly have any implications or alternative explanations

Storytime cause I can't fit it in the tags:

I live with my dad, but he's such a hindrance that as soon as i move out he's getting blocked on everything.

Now, don't get me wrong, I wouldn't call him abusive, really, but he does have abusive behaviors he tends to do as he was raised that way by an actually abusive piece of shit father:

He (unknowingly) gaslights us constantly, meaning I don't trust him anymore and won't ever again.

He sleeps most of the time, and all he is worried about is literally going back to bed, not caring about helping us.

He will ask us if we need anything, but if we don't, he fucks off and goes to fucking sleep where we can't get him if we end up needing him later.

He shuts down anyone if we try to explain something he doesn't wanna hear (at least me and mom).

He talks back even when he is 100% without-a-doubt wrong.

Because he kinda often beat my ass until i was 6 at most i don't trust him with fucking any of my problems

And before anyone gets on my ass without context, yes, my dad has narcolepsy; that's not the problem. The problem is that he doesn't even try to help us. "But he asks y'all if you need anything—" yes, but that isn't his goal. He asks so he can get the greenlight to sleep for 4+ hours cause he doesn't actually want to help us.

Normally, this would be fine (my brother is an adult), but with us, it's not. Since he always did everything for us growing, my older brother can't take care of me (as i am greatly disabled) cause he doesn't have the fucking skills to and feels incompetent in his (good enough) abilities, so he always gets our dad to when I want nothing to fucking do with him.

This is why my mom had to stop working. We were literally dysfunctional without her to take care of me because my dad was such a terrible father that my older brother—who is a fucking adult—is too incompetent to help take care of me like my mom tasked him with for fuck's sake.

reblog for larger sample size :)

No, that is Nyctophilia (this is correct, look it up). What this woman confused for Nyctophilia is actually something shunned by our society (and for a good reason), hence the censorship to bypass TikTok's flagging system.

(I know the joke was getting the definition wrong while trying to correct it, but I wanted some factual shit for the newbies who don't know what Nyctophilia is—which I was confused about when I saw this—and confuse it for the other thing which is clearly... not that—which I obviously already knew)

ONE OF MY FAVORITE VIDEOS EVER

This makes me sad.

You guys never deserved this, and you still fucking don't. The fact that you still deal with this is just so goddamn upsetting.

And I know I am feminine to the core (and also a woman), but even I fucking know that this shit shouldn't be considered "the norm."

The fact that parents (as well as doctors in certain circumstances) still force their kids into "being" their AGAB regardless on who they are as people is fucking awful. And I strongly hate how this is how it is, currently.

I know it can get better, but it sure doesn't fucking look like it, at the moment. Change is probably just be taking its sweet-ass time, which is goddamn infuriating (what can I say? I'm impatient as fuck).

Why is it so fucking hard for us as a society to just fucking accept each other for our differences like we've seen in every other goddamn species on the fucking planet? It shouldn't be that hard.

If the person isn't fucking hurting anyone (or doesn't have a history of doing so), we should just fucking accept them and move on. No prejudice or anything to get in the way.

Trans men and transmascs aren't gonna be a goddamn danger to anyone for just being trans or men. The fact that other women don't accept that pisses me off.

And the fact that I share a gender identity with morons that, frankly, might be the ones putting you guys in danger and not vice versa pisses me off sometimes, ngl.

Like, I love being a woman, don't get me wrong. It's just some of these fucking idiots who I SHARE MY GENDER IDENTITY WITH are putting you guys in danger, and I hate that so goddamn much.

This fact always makes me so fucking upset. People always talk about the struggles of trans women/fems—which does happen and needs to fucking change because it fucking sucks—yet always want to ignore the struggles of trans men/mascs or pretend it doesn't happen, and that any trans men/masc who speaks out about their experiences is a liar and misogynist which isn't fucking true at all.

Like you should be able to speak out about the bullshit you face and not get backlash 'cause it is bullshit that you've dealt with it, and you have a voice that deserves to be fucking heard.

The moment we as a society can finally get on that page I hope I am alive so I can fucking see it. This shit is taking too goddamn long.

Being forcefully raised as a woman is not any less traumatic and emotionally repressive as being forcefully raised as a man. Femininity is not inherently pure and safe. Coercing someone to perform femininity is not any less toxic than coerced masculinity. Being dysphoric around femininity or having trauma from women doesn’t make you a misogynist.