Is This A Problem?

Is this a problem?

hi, i love dynamics that r like “we make each other worse” on the surface but when u look deeper it is actually just “we understand each other on a level that no one else does and nudge each other out of our typical comfort zone” which just circles around to “we make each other better”. it’s abt the accidental growth just by being in each other’s lives. idk

I have polls and a burning desire for answers....

AKA I've been doing a big book of crossword puzzles and I wanna see if anyone does their E's the same way as me.

Bonus/Extra credit question !!!

If you do,--or have ever done--crossword puzzles, (in a language/alphabet that has upper and lower cases) do you fill in the answers using capital or lowercase letters?

Arospec Ask Game!

Where are you on the aro-spectrum?

How would you describe your identity?

Do you use aro-spec microlabels?

Are you romance favorable, neutral, or repulsed?

What kinds of attraction do you feel? [platonic, queerplatonic, aesthetic, alterous, etc.]

Do you feel tertiary attraction? If so, what kind? 

Do you use the SAM? [split attraction model]

Are you also acespec? Do you use the term aspec?

What made you realise you were aspec / arospec?

What would you rather do instead of a romantic relationship?

Would you want a romantic relationship? 

Are you married? Would you like to be married? 

Do you have a mallowfriend / queerplatonic partner? 

Have you ever had a crush / squish / hush / etc. ? 

What made you realise you wanted a queerplatonic/romantic relationship [if you ever did / do]

What confuses you about typical romantic relationships?

What types of things would you like to do / already do in a qpr?

What types of things would you not like to do / already don’t do in a qpr?

Describe your ideal partner [romantic / queerplatonic / etc.]

Do you have a “type” in attraction?

If you could, would you go on a romantic TV show? [the batchlor/ette, love island, 90 day fiance, the dating game, etc.]

How do you feel about typical intimacy? [kissing, cuddling, etc.]

Most underrated form of intimacy? 

Would you like to be flirted with? 

Are you good at flirting? Do you flirt often?

Do you consider yourself a romantic? 

Do you enjoy seeing romance IRL / online / in media / etc. ?

Have you ever experienced the aspec obliviousness when it comes to someone flirting with you? How about innuendos? 

Were you ever confused about “love” or romance as a kid? Are you still confused about it?

Have you ever asked anyone out? 

Have you had anyone ask you out? Have you rejected anyone? [valid!]

Come up with the stupidest way to ask someone out, right now!

Come up with the best way to ask someone out, right now!

Favorite place to go on a date? [platonic / romantic / queerplatonic / etc.]

Do you enjoy Valentine’s Day? 

If you could live somewhere with only aspec people, would you?

Has anyone ever came out to you as arospec?

How many arospecs do you know online / IRL ? 

How long have you identified as arospec? How long have you used aro-spec microlabels?

Are you out as arospec? 

Who’s the first person you came out to, if any?

Have you ever been to pride as an aro person? If so, what was it like?

Do you do things to show aro pride without being out?

Do you have an aro ring? Do you want one? [an aro ring is a white ring on the left middle finger]

Do you have an ace ring as well? Do you want one? [an ace ring is a black ring on the right middle finger]

Do you use the card suit nicknames for your aro attraction? 

What are your favorite aromantic symbols?

How do you feel about love songs? 

How do you feel about romantic subplots in movies?

Any arospec headcanons? 

How do you feel about romance tropes in media? [enemies to lovers, only one bed, fake dating, the italicized oh, etc.]

What is love? [to you]

What is the best part about being aro? 

What is the best part about using arospec microlabels? [if you use them]

Bonus – ask me anything about being arospec! 

Would you like to find out what you would be the god of? Take my new uqiz to find out

Aro Week Poetry

Love has always felt A little bit like A poison to me But maybe the Better metaphor now Is love is simply A harmless substance To which my body has -- For unknown reasons -- Decided I have an allergy to And I wanted to Know what it tasted like So I thought a little Mithridatism couldn't hurt At least not worse Than the whole world Screaming "LOVE LOVE LOVE" And at first I thought they were right Because just like French fries Fried in peanut oil A little taste Was almost sweet But I should've known From my brother That the hives Aren't worth Anything more Than that