It Only Took Like 3 Months But Im Done

It only took like 3 months but I’m done 🙃🙃

Hello gay witch community

white people, i’m going to need you to change the way you react to poc calling you out on racism, or telling you not to say something because it’s racially inappropriate:

apologize and do better, but don’t repeatedly apologize and put it on the poc to forgive you over and over again

don’t make it personal. don’t make this about how you’re Oh So Socially Awkward and treat this as a form of social rejection. retract statements, decide to do better in the future, and move on

in the context of online spaces, if a mutual calls you out on racism, don’t go crying all over the dash about how worthless and stupid you are etc etc and making yourself the victim. this is especially rude when your mutual of color can see it!!

whether intentional or not, repeatedly bringing the incident up where the poc who called you out can see it - is a form of guilt tripping. don’t do that

don’t make excuses. yes, you did something wrong. no it does not mean you are irredeemable garbage and that the poc who called you out hates you and doesn’t want to be friends anymore. again, Do Not treat this as a form of social rejection. it cheapens what happened and what could’ve been a fruitful lesson on being better about race becomes about your white tears

hey guys just a small lil PSA thing. trying to be non-aggro about this beucase i know a lot of people just don’t know. But the reason a lot of tumbr’s dash changes were made were for accessibility. a LOT OF PEOPLE on tumblr and in the tumblr rpc use screen readers or vision enhancing tools to read their dashboards (many who you don’t even know do it.) I get that many of us are frustrated over the dash looking different but it’s a small price to pay so that people with visiual impairments and other disabilities can read their dashboards and your blog. As nice as you can make photoshop and screenshot replies look, they’re actually kind of a slap in the face to those people, essentially removing their ability to access your blog/posts and putting it on them to make the potentially uncomfortable request of asking you to not do that for their replies. It stops screen readers from being able to read your text. And it also may make your replies unreadable to anyone using color changers on their dash to help with their vision. So please do consider not screenshotting/photoshopping your replies and posts for the sake of making the community more accessible to others. Please reblog this post even if it doesnt’ apply to you, even if it DOES apply to your friends and mutuals. I know a lot of people just aren’t aware that this is a thing so let’s make them aware and make the community a safer and more accessible place for everyone we can. 

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