The Key To Not Having A Terribly Destabilizing Moral Freak Out When You Detect Abusive Traits And Behaviors

the key to not having a terribly destabilizing moral freak out when you detect abusive traits and behaviors in yourself is to not put abusive people in the category of evil subhuman who can never be absolved or forgiven.

sometimes rest is the most productive thing you can do for yourself

i really used to overplay my part & try to be so understanding about everything even if it hurt me. The old me really lacked boundaries, but now it’s up. Respect me or lose me, that simple.

loooooove how in Tha Real World lotsa mistakes dont have consequences. whoops, booked the wrong item! time to just... remove it from the list and book the right one! whoops, sent an email when i should've called! got a mail response that everything's fine but i should please call next time! whoops, lost my passport! gotta go get a new one at the civil office!

like it does not matterrrrrrr so many fuck ups can just be fixed with only the cost of time. fuckin school test mentality is a scrouge upon the earth and upon mental health. most mistakes can always be righted, and after that you just move on with your life. who give a shit

When in doubt, ask, instead of assume

This tweet has changed my life btw