Tummy Asks: Cute Edition

Tummy Asks: Cute Edition

hello fiends. have some Soft Asks. thanks to local fiend extraordinaire @tiny-tum for coming up with the 😈question and helping me with the rest!

Food

☀️What are your favorite foods to indulge in when it’s hot outside? ❄️Favorite foods to indulge in when it’s cold outside? 🍦Name one food you associate with a good memory. 😍Name one food you can’t resist even if you’re already full. 🥘What’s the most delicious meal you’ve ever had? 🍬What’s the most sweets you’ve ever eaten in one sitting?

Feeling

🌹Talk about a time you were stuffed and it felt really good. 🥀Talk about a time you were stuffed and it didn’t feel so good. 🍽Talk about a time you were really hungry and ate something very satisfying. 🥧Talk about a time food made you feel loved. 💤Do you get sleepy when you’re full? What kind of food makes you sleepiest? 🎈What’s the most swollen your tummy has ever felt?

Comfort

💕Would you rather give a tummy rub or receive one? ✨Are there certain rubbing motions or places you can press on your tummy that feel really good when you’re full? 🛋Would you prefer to be in a certain position while getting a belly rub? (e.g. lying down, snuggled beside a caretaker, lying in a lap?) ♨️Do you enjoy warmth on your belly? Any preferred methods? 🍵If you had a tummyache, how would you want to be comforted? 😈 Are you more likely to eat until you’re achy if you know you’ll get a tummy rub? Or do you know someone who would do that?

Company

🐝Is it cuter if someone is openly complaining about how full they are or trying to hide it? 🦋Is it cuter if someone is super happy with how much they ate or a little uncomfortable and needy for cuddles? 💌 If you were stuffed, would you rather have someone tease you for being silly or immediately show concern? 💬If you were stuffed, what could someone say to you that would make you melt? What about if they were the stuffed one? 😵Has anyone ever done something unintentionally kinky in front of you? 🙊Have you ever told anyone (excluding people you’ve met through the kink community) about your kink?

Feederism and consent

So, in light of this profoundly disturbing situation that has occurred in the bara community, in which several young men have passed away owing to alleged, but not unbelievale, pressure to modify their body to align with the desires of a certain individual, I wanted to take a moment to reflect on power dynamics, and the potential for manipulation in our own community -  I’ll try not to ramble on too much. The stereotype of a feeder as a manipulative, abusive individual that objectifies their feedee and puts their health second to their own sexual pleasure is something that as a community we have strove to distance ourselves from and for the multitude of posts decrying this issue is not something that demands further comment. What I want to address is the issue of subtle, and subconscious pressures and manipulations that feeders might place upon their feedees either through a lack of experience, ignorance, or selfish and hurtful attitudes. When you first introduce a loved one or casual partner, irl or online, to feedism or fat appreciation it can be very exciting - talking openly about a subject that has felt taboo and unspeakable can be relieving to speak your truth out in the open - I like fat, I’m all about it!  It is normal to find yourself waxing lyrical on the aesthetic delights of an overhang, or the pleasure you get from seeing somebody push the limits of their stomach’s capacity and be truly gluttonous, and when these desires are received warmly it is a rare and precious validation of your sexual identity. However, we need to proceed with caution about setting expectations and defining standards to the recipient of this information. When you tell your somewhat chubby, or maybe large partner, that you appreciate their body and perhaps its potential for growth, sensitivities need to be observed to maintain that partner’s sense of autonomy over their body and said growth.  I think one of the most poisonous things you can do to your partner is to directly compare and contrast bodies that you find pleasing against their own, especially if those bodies differ to a large degree, even if not done with manipulative intent. As feedists we need to be careful to make sure that our partners or the people we play with know that we appreciate their bodies now and that attraction and interest are not conditional to them growing. If you do not find your partner’s body attractive in the present, I would advise you to take a look at the kind of pressures that you might be exerting that may indirectly force somebody to do things outside of their comfort zone. You may not even realise that you’re doing this, but it’s an important thing to remove in order to have a healthy relationship. There is a huge community of people who, in lieu of being able to find this rare relationship irl, give and receive encouragement online. I think that it’s a wonderful resource that the community allows for people who many not receive attention or the type of sexual interaction that they desire in real life to express their abundant and beautiful sexuality. My opinion I want to express on this issue is not a criticism of any particular individuals, but comes from the deep affection I have for you all and reverence I have for people’s individual mental well being and feedist journey. The power dynamic in feedist relationships is strong and hugely erotic for many of us, and we need to be conscientious that we are participating in it with the right intentions and respect for each and every person as an individual. If you are encouraging somebody online, you have a duty of care. If you do not care about their mental well being and who they are as a person you run the risk of being exploitative. Fat is a societal issue and a health issue, and the majority of us have overcome or are still processing the deeply complex emotional, intellectual, and moral ideas around fat, our bodies, and the bodies of our partner/s.  If you do not pay attention to where your feedee is at in this process you run the risk of actually helping them engage in behaviour that could be harmful to their mental and sexual health, and preventing them from establishing a normal range of emotions towards their sexuality - something that is critical to human happiness. I would promote feeders to be aware of the power that they have in this community where they often outnumber feedees, particularly the ratio of FFA’s to male feedees. The attention that you may halfheartedly give to a number of feedees may be the only attention that they are receiving, and subsequently they are likely to go to extremes in order to please you. For many, this will be fine and an ideal situation, but I urge feeders to be aware of where they stand in this dynamic. It is important that you are receptive to having conversations about concerns that your feedee might have about their gains, and that they can express any desires to lose weight or maintain without fearing that the affection or interest they are receiving will be immediately relinquished. If you do not have that kind of relationship with you feedee then I would advise you to reassess whether it serves the right purpose for either party. Feedees, if you find that you are not able to express your emotions and concerns regarding your gains to your feeder I would implore you to find somebody who is more interested in seeing you as a person and not a growing belly for their collection. Again, I think a lot of these potentially harmful situations arise from a lack of experience and maybe fewer years spent pondering the moral implications of your fetish, and do not point to any inherent bad nature of either party. When I was younger (nearly 30 now, folks) I definitely put pressure on people and behaved in ways that I now regret and see as morally objectionable. The point is that we have the capacity for change and should hold ourselves accountable for our actions going forward. I know a lot of the thrill of engaging in kink comes from participating with individuals who understand your drive and have the potential to turn you on without instruction, but it’s plain to see that there’s so much variety in our collective community that you can’t presume to know instinctively that what you say or do works for another person and isn’t actually triggering.  Not everyone is into name-calling, or stuffing, or even feeding. I know that talking about what you’re into with somebody before playing with them can mentally remove that pleasure that comes from feeling like somebody is a natural fit for you, but I think we actually need to get more used to talking about sex, expectations, and consent - I think we’d actually all end up having more satisfying sexual experiences because of it rather than in spite of it, but most importantly we’d know that we’re not hurting anyone else through our pleasure. Our community is so special and it’s so important that we foster supportive, nurturing attitudes alongside the fun, sexually driven side of things ❤️ (this was extremely long and I’ll be surprised if anyone makes it to the end. Hello, skim readers and people who actually care about this stuff)

Weight Gain Fantasy Scenario #14

This is kinda inspired by the foreman at the farm. This is fictionalized.

I'd make a wish that the foreman would be constantly eating throughout the day. From the time that he arrives at the farm to the time he goes home, he always has some kind of snack or food in his hands. He'll never be caught without food in his hands.

He'd show up to work every morning with a thermos of coffee and a thick breakfast sandwich he brought from home: a bagel with sausage, egg and cheese on it. While the boss was going over the day's agenda, he'd slowly eat his way through that sandwich, taking occasional sips of coffee to wash it down with.

We coworkers would take turns each week to buy donuts for everybody. And after the morning meeting, I'd catch the foreman grabbing one or two of them on his way out to start up the tractor. While we are in the fields, I occasionally look back and see him sitting on the tractor, eating his donut and sipping his coffee. When he finished the donut, he has his lunchbox handy by on the tractor with him, so he can reach behind him and take out one of the snacks he brought from home. It might be a chocolate chip cookie, or a few Oreos, a swiss roll, nutty buddy, granola bar, etc. And each time he finished one snack, he'd reach in again and take out another and just munch on that. And then another one. And another one. Then when he's done in that field, he'd drive back over to the main building and grab another donut or two. I would come back to the office a little later and find him just finishing up his fourth or fifth donut for the day.

Lunch break would roll around then. He brought a lunch from home, just a turkey & cheese sandwich and some potato chips. But he would also drive off in his pickup into town where he'd stop by the local fast-food joint and grab a burger, fries and a large chocolate milkshake and bring that back to the farm and eat it all at the staff table. He'd work steadily on that feast, with no sign of slowing down. Just a constant rhythm of chewing.

When he gets up from the table, he goes and grabs his lunchbox again and heads to the greenhouse. While he was in town, he restocked his snack supply, so that lunchbox is packed full again of all sorts of sweet and savory treats. While he's laying dripline in the greenhouse, he's taking bites out of a Snickers bar. He has his lunchbox fastened to his belt loop with a carabiner and some rope. So as soon as he finishes that Snickers bar, he immediately reaches into the box and pulls out another snack. This time it's a party-sized bag of peanut butter M&M's. He leaves the lunchbox open and sets the whole bag in it, and as he's going along, he reaches into the bag to pull out a handful of M&M's to pour down his gullet.

By the end of the day, his snack stash is all gone. So before he leaves for the day, he takes whatever left of the donuts and gets into his pickup. I can see him driving down the road with one hand on the wheel and the other gripping a donut. His mouth is smeared with sugary glaze.

So, this goes on for a few weeks. As weeks turn into months, the effect all this grazing is having on his waistline is evident. What was once a small starter gut has now grown to a respectable ball gut. His stomach, moobs, and love handles all bulge out under his t-shirt, making it look uncomfortably tight. His jeans look like they were painted on now. His thighs have filled out more and now look like stuffed sausages encased in denim. But he still lumbers around, still is always found with something in his hands to munch on.

anonymously send me an emoji! feeder/feedee/FA edition

😍 I think you’re cute. 💋 I want to kiss you. 💕 I want to cuddle with you. ✋ I want to spank you! 🍩 I want to feed you. 🍰 I want you to feed me. 👅 I want to eat food off your body. 😈 I want to fuck you! 🐷 Let’s have some piggy play! ☎️ Let’s talk dirty. 🐽 I want you to tease/humiliate me. ⬆️ I want to dominate you. ⬇️ I want you to dominate me. 🔴 I want to stuff you silly. 🔵 I want to blow you up like a blueberry! 👕 I want to grow you out of your clothes. 👐 Belly rubs!

Feel free to reblog and add more!

About Me

I'm 31 years old, straight 👫 and use he/him/his pronouns 🚹

I like to cook 🍳🥘 and I like to eat 🍽

I'm a foodie, soft-feedist, casual gainer, and platonic encourager of fellow BHMs/male gainers/male feedees 😈

I use this Tumblr blog to engage with the online #Feedism community 🧁 and explore my own interests (i.e. "kinks") therein. Mostly by reading male tf & wg fiction 📖. DM me!

I'm open to chatting about Feedism topics with any fellow feedists. If you have any questions about my Feedism interests, just Ask me or DM me!

My current weight is ~230 lbs (~104.5 kg). For now, I want to keep it <250 lbs (113 kg). I'm taking my gains slowly and enjoying the journey.

At the moment, I fit into size 38" pants and XL shirts. Bumping up a size or two would be kinda sweet.

Ooooo, I love the "mutual benefits" aspect of this one! That's a fresh take! Cheers to myself and anyone else whose weight gain is all my fault! 🍻🧁🍰😈

I like these posts that go around speaking weight gain into existence. Those posts worked for me so now let me repay the favor…

Like + Reblog this to gain weight. The person you liked/reblogged from will also gain weight. Let’s make tumblr fatter 😊