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❌ What feedist related kinks do you not enjoy? I'm not into Gaining to Immobility or Death Feedism. 🔥 What's your current favorite feedist/weight gain fantasy? I'm into male-only weight gain, in myself and other men. I like the idea of myself and other guys gaining weight while being kept in the dark about it the whole time. Or at least, being subtly (re-)conditioned to not take as much notice of it (via mind-control, hypnosis, etc). Like, "No, of course you're not getting fat, you're clothes must've just shrunk in the wash!" "No, that looks like a perfectly normal portion of food for a 'growing boy' like yourself." 👄 What's something a feeder/partner could say to really get you going? Address me as "big boy"... pretty easy, lol

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Get to Know the Gainer

Pick one or more emojis to ask me:

💬 What petname/nicknames do you prefer?

🗯️ What petname/nicknames do you dislike?

✔️ What feedist related kinks (force feeding, vore, inflation, etc) do you enjoy?

❌ What feedist related kinks do you not enjoy?

💦 Do you enjoy humiliation, shaming, etc?

🍽️ Are you an active or passive gainer?

💗 Do you prefer a slender or larger feeder/partner?

💞 Do you prefer soft belly worship or rough belly play?

🌗 Do you prefer to be a submissive feedee or a dominant feedee?

🌝 Do you overeat to feel full or to specifically gain weight?

🐯 Do you have stretch marks? How do you feel about them?

♾️ If you could have an endless supply of any food, what would it be?

🎯 If you could target your next weight gain anywhere, where would it be?

👄 What's something a feeder/partner could say to really get you going?

🌸 What's your favorite soft part of your body?

⚖️ Where do you tend to gain the most weight?

🥡 What's the most you've ever eaten in one sitting?

🧸What's your favorite way to soothe a stuffed tummy?

👕 When was the last time you outgrew an item of clothing?

🏃‍♀️ Is there anything you used to do that is harder now that you've gained weight?

☔ What's been your biggest struggle regarding weight gain?

🔥 What's your current favorite feedist/weight gain fantasy?

💭 What's your fondest feedist memory?

📺 What's your favorite weight gain/inflation/etc scene in television? Alternatively, which was your first?

🖥️ Are you active anywhere else? (Feabie, Grommr, YouTube, Insta, etc)

General get-to-know-you asks:

⭐ What's your zodiac sign?

🐾 What's your spirit animal?

🏳️‍🌈 What's your sexual preference?

🎞️ What's your favorite movie?

🦸‍♂️Who's your favorite superhero? Why?

🌎 If you had a free ticket to anywhere, where would you go? Why?

💼 What did you want to be when you grew up? Has that changed?

📜 What's the best piece of advice you've ever received?

❔Has anything ever happened to you that you could not, or cannot explain?

↩️ If you could have one "do-over" in life, what would it be?

Reblog if you're a fat boy who loves getting fatter.

I can't be only one getting addicted to stuffing my face and feeling my belly get bigger and bigger, craving feeders to spoil and grow me into a big piggy.

Would you be willing to do female gain stories?

Hi, anon! Thanks for asking! I'm gonna have to say no, sorry. Firstly, I don't identify as a creator or writer. I just don't find myself inspired enough to devote time and energy to writing any full-length stories. I'm sorry if my blog gave off that impression. I mostly just write snippets and prompts based on my own imagination. And secondly, female gaining doesn't really interest me personally. It's just not among my own personal feedist tastes or kinks. So I probably wouldn't be the one to do it. If you're looking for female or BBW weight gain fetish fiction, why not try browsing Fantasy Feeder, Dimensions Magazine, Writing.com, etc?

Sounds fantastic! 😊🐷

y’all it really is the dream to take a cute boy and have him let me fatten him up by cooking all his favorite foods, treating him extra dessert and letting him idly snack all day long while we cuddle on the couch and watch movies or play video games

Feederism and consent

So, in light of this profoundly disturbing situation that has occurred in the bara community, in which several young men have passed away owing to alleged, but not unbelievale, pressure to modify their body to align with the desires of a certain individual, I wanted to take a moment to reflect on power dynamics, and the potential for manipulation in our own community -  I’ll try not to ramble on too much. The stereotype of a feeder as a manipulative, abusive individual that objectifies their feedee and puts their health second to their own sexual pleasure is something that as a community we have strove to distance ourselves from and for the multitude of posts decrying this issue is not something that demands further comment. What I want to address is the issue of subtle, and subconscious pressures and manipulations that feeders might place upon their feedees either through a lack of experience, ignorance, or selfish and hurtful attitudes. When you first introduce a loved one or casual partner, irl or online, to feedism or fat appreciation it can be very exciting - talking openly about a subject that has felt taboo and unspeakable can be relieving to speak your truth out in the open - I like fat, I’m all about it!  It is normal to find yourself waxing lyrical on the aesthetic delights of an overhang, or the pleasure you get from seeing somebody push the limits of their stomach’s capacity and be truly gluttonous, and when these desires are received warmly it is a rare and precious validation of your sexual identity. However, we need to proceed with caution about setting expectations and defining standards to the recipient of this information. When you tell your somewhat chubby, or maybe large partner, that you appreciate their body and perhaps its potential for growth, sensitivities need to be observed to maintain that partner’s sense of autonomy over their body and said growth.  I think one of the most poisonous things you can do to your partner is to directly compare and contrast bodies that you find pleasing against their own, especially if those bodies differ to a large degree, even if not done with manipulative intent. As feedists we need to be careful to make sure that our partners or the people we play with know that we appreciate their bodies now and that attraction and interest are not conditional to them growing. If you do not find your partner’s body attractive in the present, I would advise you to take a look at the kind of pressures that you might be exerting that may indirectly force somebody to do things outside of their comfort zone. You may not even realise that you’re doing this, but it’s an important thing to remove in order to have a healthy relationship. There is a huge community of people who, in lieu of being able to find this rare relationship irl, give and receive encouragement online. I think that it’s a wonderful resource that the community allows for people who many not receive attention or the type of sexual interaction that they desire in real life to express their abundant and beautiful sexuality. My opinion I want to express on this issue is not a criticism of any particular individuals, but comes from the deep affection I have for you all and reverence I have for people’s individual mental well being and feedist journey. The power dynamic in feedist relationships is strong and hugely erotic for many of us, and we need to be conscientious that we are participating in it with the right intentions and respect for each and every person as an individual. If you are encouraging somebody online, you have a duty of care. If you do not care about their mental well being and who they are as a person you run the risk of being exploitative. Fat is a societal issue and a health issue, and the majority of us have overcome or are still processing the deeply complex emotional, intellectual, and moral ideas around fat, our bodies, and the bodies of our partner/s.  If you do not pay attention to where your feedee is at in this process you run the risk of actually helping them engage in behaviour that could be harmful to their mental and sexual health, and preventing them from establishing a normal range of emotions towards their sexuality - something that is critical to human happiness. I would promote feeders to be aware of the power that they have in this community where they often outnumber feedees, particularly the ratio of FFA’s to male feedees. The attention that you may halfheartedly give to a number of feedees may be the only attention that they are receiving, and subsequently they are likely to go to extremes in order to please you. For many, this will be fine and an ideal situation, but I urge feeders to be aware of where they stand in this dynamic. It is important that you are receptive to having conversations about concerns that your feedee might have about their gains, and that they can express any desires to lose weight or maintain without fearing that the affection or interest they are receiving will be immediately relinquished. If you do not have that kind of relationship with you feedee then I would advise you to reassess whether it serves the right purpose for either party. Feedees, if you find that you are not able to express your emotions and concerns regarding your gains to your feeder I would implore you to find somebody who is more interested in seeing you as a person and not a growing belly for their collection. Again, I think a lot of these potentially harmful situations arise from a lack of experience and maybe fewer years spent pondering the moral implications of your fetish, and do not point to any inherent bad nature of either party. When I was younger (nearly 30 now, folks) I definitely put pressure on people and behaved in ways that I now regret and see as morally objectionable. The point is that we have the capacity for change and should hold ourselves accountable for our actions going forward. I know a lot of the thrill of engaging in kink comes from participating with individuals who understand your drive and have the potential to turn you on without instruction, but it’s plain to see that there’s so much variety in our collective community that you can’t presume to know instinctively that what you say or do works for another person and isn’t actually triggering.  Not everyone is into name-calling, or stuffing, or even feeding. I know that talking about what you’re into with somebody before playing with them can mentally remove that pleasure that comes from feeling like somebody is a natural fit for you, but I think we actually need to get more used to talking about sex, expectations, and consent - I think we’d actually all end up having more satisfying sexual experiences because of it rather than in spite of it, but most importantly we’d know that we’re not hurting anyone else through our pleasure. Our community is so special and it’s so important that we foster supportive, nurturing attitudes alongside the fun, sexually driven side of things ❤️ (this was extremely long and I’ll be surprised if anyone makes it to the end. Hello, skim readers and people who actually care about this stuff)

Wow, this is a fascinating concept!

How to be a feedee when you don’t have a feeder

There is only one rule, but it’s important:

Always accept offers of food.

There are no exceptions, ever.

If the worker at the fast food counter tries to sell you on a larger meal, you must say yes.

If you are out with friends, and you’ve finished your meal but someone else isn’t so hungry and offers you the rest of theirs, you must say yes.

Even if you are stuffed to the brim and certain that you can eat no more — you must say yes.

You must pay special attention to when you offer yourself food, because this is the most difficult offer to notice. Whenever you have a pang of hunger, or the briefest of thoughts of getting more food, or consider just for a moment the possibility of ordering in — you must say yes.

There is an easier way to think about it.

See everything and everyone as a single unified entity — the World. You are you — your conscious mind and nothing more. The World is everything that is not you, including your subconscious.

You are the feedee and the World is your feeder. It is yours and only yours. It is dedicated to you. (It cannot be anyone else’s feeder, because by definition, those people would be contained within it.)

You are the opposite of everything that is not you, so seeing everything as a single tool dedicated to your consumption corresponds to your own single-minded dedication to your own growth.

You don’t need to do anything to begin this relationship. You know that it is already true. It always has been.

The World wants you to be its feedee — it wants what you want, after all, you define it — but it cannot express it directly. It cannot give you an unambiguous command like a human feeder can. You have to help it by complying with its suggestions whenever you feel them — whether that comes from someone else, or your subconscious, or signs you see on the road, or simply your own hunger.

Do not resist — the World is less powerful than you and it is not equipped to handle a bratty sub. You must let it win.

When you give in — when you eat — know that the World is watching. Let it use your hands. Know that it derives infinite pleasure from your consumption. Know that when you feel hungry to eat, it feels hungry to feed you; when you feel hungry to grow, it feels hungry to watch you grow. Know that is is thankful that you allow it to act out its desires.

Remember that the World is always there and it is all-encompassing. If you find a human feeder, know that the World doesn’t mind. It will wait for you, and it doesn’t mind sharing. All it wants is for you to be a fat, happy feedee. You will always see its suggestions, once you know how to look for them.

Remember: it’s not that you’re hungry. It’s that the World wants to feed you.

Let it.

Mac and cheese with garlic bread

🔹for 4 servings

🔹Ingredients:

1.5 cups milk

2.5 cups of heavy cream

1 lb elbow macaroni(455 g), dry

2 cups shredded cheddar cheese(200 g)

1 cup of butter

Garlic powder

(Parmesan cheese if you want)

🔹Method:

Preheat oven at 170°C

Place milk and cream in a pot and bring to a boil, add a pinch of salt in it.

Throw pasta in and stir constantly until pasta is done (about 10 minutes)

When the pasta is done add cheddar , butter and stir until it's smooth and thick

Place your mix in a pan and cover with bread crumbs and a bit of more butter in spots (and more cheddar If you want but unde the bread crumbs)

Get bread slices, cover with butter and a bit of garlic powder on top, cook it with your Mac and cheese. Before you remove them from the oven add some cheddar on top of your garlic bread. To melt.

Serve your food. If you want you can add some chopped chives and parsley on top. On both dishes.

Happy fattening meal!

🆘Heavy fattening ideas:🆘

Replace milk with heavy cream.

Sauté bacon, lots of bacon and pour the bacon and the bacon's fat in your pot while you mix the cheddar in.

I could definitely be the boyfriend

Filled

You barely even noticed anything the first few months. Yeah, maybe you were a little too full a few times more than you ever had but you wrote that off to coincidence. It wasn’t like that had anything to do with your new girlfriend. You were in love, very much so, and it was normal that you gained some weight at the start of the relationship right? It were only a few pounds anyways. You could still wear your pants even if closing the button was slightly harder. That didn’t really matter. 

The next few months were the turning point though. You were already used to the snacks your girlfriend kept bringing you, used to her bringing over takeout and used to her ordering food for you. You kept getting fuller and fuller every single day, it felt like your entire world revolved around food. You noticed that every week it seemed like your pants were getting way tighter and then you needed a bigger size. And then again. And again.

You really did try to put a stop to it. You tried to convince your girlfriend that you didn’t need all the food, that you needed to go on a diet but your girlfriend kept distracting you with, you guessed it, food and sex. And more food. You kept being stuffed full, you were always filled to the brim and sometimes it even got painful. 

It was already too late for you to try and stop. Your girlfriend was overfeeding you. She was the reason why you needed to go up another size. And another. And then again another because you were simply getting too fat. But you couldn’t stop it no matter how hard you tried. You simply were addicted to it. Addicted to the food your girlfriend made you. And since there was no stopping your gain, you were only going to get fatter and fatter and fatter…

anonymously send me an emoji! feeder/feedee/FA edition

😍 I think you’re cute. 💋 I want to kiss you. 💕 I want to cuddle with you. ✋ I want to spank you! 🍩 I want to feed you. 🍰 I want you to feed me. 👅 I want to eat food off your body. 😈 I want to fuck you! 🐷 Let’s have some piggy play! ☎️ Let’s talk dirty. 🐽 I want you to tease/humiliate me. ⬆️ I want to dominate you. ⬇️ I want you to dominate me. 🔴 I want to stuff you silly. 🔵 I want to blow you up like a blueberry! 👕 I want to grow you out of your clothes. 👐 Belly rubs!

Feel free to reblog and add more!

Weight Gain Fantasy Scenario #15

Now that I'm a bit older and my feedist lit palate has (hopefully) matured a bit, I feel like I'd love to read (write?!) a weight gain story about some guy who gets a job as either a food writer or a professional chef. Somewhere in the culinary industry. And they, like, need to sample something like... 100 Mexican restaurants in order to fully appreciate the underlying complexity of, say, the taco. So they spend weeks, months even, tasting different tacos from different restaurants, and by the end of it, their clothes are fitting a whole lot tighter on them than when they started. And the story would also include, like, very specific details about techniques, ingredients, their sources, flavors, etc.

EDIT (11/28): I guess all I'm saying is, Yes, describing the way that the character's body is changing and growing is great imagery. But also, could we also include vivid descriptions of how food is being prepared, cooked, presented, etc. The colors that are there. The aroma of the ingredients cooking on the heat. How you can taste each component in the symphony of the dish. That's what I'd love to read...

Wish the text was a bit clearer to read, but it is what it is... Found an easier-to-read version here: https://www.titlemax.com/discovery-center/lifestyle/1500-calorie-meals-at-25-fast-food-restaurants/

Casual gainer Feedist Fat Admirer Mutual Gainer

Reblog if you are the following blog

Gainer Feedee Feeder Feedist Feedism Feederism Ect :)

Me in Feedism DMs

Feeder: I'm gonna stuff your belly so full of food you're gonna blow TF up! 🍆

Me: So... tell me all about the best places to eat in your area. What's your local cuisine like? 🤓

Ooooo, I love the "mutual benefits" aspect of this one! That's a fresh take! Cheers to myself and anyone else whose weight gain is all my fault! 🍻🧁🍰😈

I like these posts that go around speaking weight gain into existence. Those posts worked for me so now let me repay the favor…

Like + Reblog this to gain weight. The person you liked/reblogged from will also gain weight. Let’s make tumblr fatter 😊

Tummy Asks: Cute Edition

hello fiends. have some Soft Asks. thanks to local fiend extraordinaire @tiny-tum for coming up with the 😈question and helping me with the rest!

Food

☀️What are your favorite foods to indulge in when it’s hot outside? ❄️Favorite foods to indulge in when it’s cold outside? 🍦Name one food you associate with a good memory. 😍Name one food you can’t resist even if you’re already full. 🥘What’s the most delicious meal you’ve ever had? 🍬What’s the most sweets you’ve ever eaten in one sitting?

Feeling

🌹Talk about a time you were stuffed and it felt really good. 🥀Talk about a time you were stuffed and it didn’t feel so good. 🍽Talk about a time you were really hungry and ate something very satisfying. 🥧Talk about a time food made you feel loved. 💤Do you get sleepy when you’re full? What kind of food makes you sleepiest? 🎈What’s the most swollen your tummy has ever felt?

Comfort

💕Would you rather give a tummy rub or receive one? ✨Are there certain rubbing motions or places you can press on your tummy that feel really good when you’re full? 🛋Would you prefer to be in a certain position while getting a belly rub? (e.g. lying down, snuggled beside a caretaker, lying in a lap?) ♨️Do you enjoy warmth on your belly? Any preferred methods? 🍵If you had a tummyache, how would you want to be comforted? 😈 Are you more likely to eat until you’re achy if you know you’ll get a tummy rub? Or do you know someone who would do that?

Company

🐝Is it cuter if someone is openly complaining about how full they are or trying to hide it? 🦋Is it cuter if someone is super happy with how much they ate or a little uncomfortable and needy for cuddles? 💌 If you were stuffed, would you rather have someone tease you for being silly or immediately show concern? 💬If you were stuffed, what could someone say to you that would make you melt? What about if they were the stuffed one? 😵Has anyone ever done something unintentionally kinky in front of you? 🙊Have you ever told anyone (excluding people you’ve met through the kink community) about your kink?

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One of your deepest desires is to watch yourself grow bigger, fatter, and heavier by the minute.

I’m curious 😘

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Weight Gain Fantasy Scenario #14

This is kinda inspired by the foreman at the farm. This is fictionalized.

I'd make a wish that the foreman would be constantly eating throughout the day. From the time that he arrives at the farm to the time he goes home, he always has some kind of snack or food in his hands. He'll never be caught without food in his hands.

He'd show up to work every morning with a thermos of coffee and a thick breakfast sandwich he brought from home: a bagel with sausage, egg and cheese on it. While the boss was going over the day's agenda, he'd slowly eat his way through that sandwich, taking occasional sips of coffee to wash it down with.

We coworkers would take turns each week to buy donuts for everybody. And after the morning meeting, I'd catch the foreman grabbing one or two of them on his way out to start up the tractor. While we are in the fields, I occasionally look back and see him sitting on the tractor, eating his donut and sipping his coffee. When he finished the donut, he has his lunchbox handy by on the tractor with him, so he can reach behind him and take out one of the snacks he brought from home. It might be a chocolate chip cookie, or a few Oreos, a swiss roll, nutty buddy, granola bar, etc. And each time he finished one snack, he'd reach in again and take out another and just munch on that. And then another one. And another one. Then when he's done in that field, he'd drive back over to the main building and grab another donut or two. I would come back to the office a little later and find him just finishing up his fourth or fifth donut for the day.

Lunch break would roll around then. He brought a lunch from home, just a turkey & cheese sandwich and some potato chips. But he would also drive off in his pickup into town where he'd stop by the local fast-food joint and grab a burger, fries and a large chocolate milkshake and bring that back to the farm and eat it all at the staff table. He'd work steadily on that feast, with no sign of slowing down. Just a constant rhythm of chewing.

When he gets up from the table, he goes and grabs his lunchbox again and heads to the greenhouse. While he was in town, he restocked his snack supply, so that lunchbox is packed full again of all sorts of sweet and savory treats. While he's laying dripline in the greenhouse, he's taking bites out of a Snickers bar. He has his lunchbox fastened to his belt loop with a carabiner and some rope. So as soon as he finishes that Snickers bar, he immediately reaches into the box and pulls out another snack. This time it's a party-sized bag of peanut butter M&M's. He leaves the lunchbox open and sets the whole bag in it, and as he's going along, he reaches into the bag to pull out a handful of M&M's to pour down his gullet.

By the end of the day, his snack stash is all gone. So before he leaves for the day, he takes whatever left of the donuts and gets into his pickup. I can see him driving down the road with one hand on the wheel and the other gripping a donut. His mouth is smeared with sugary glaze.

So, this goes on for a few weeks. As weeks turn into months, the effect all this grazing is having on his waistline is evident. What was once a small starter gut has now grown to a respectable ball gut. His stomach, moobs, and love handles all bulge out under his t-shirt, making it look uncomfortably tight. His jeans look like they were painted on now. His thighs have filled out more and now look like stuffed sausages encased in denim. But he still lumbers around, still is always found with something in his hands to munch on.

Weight Gain Literature

There are a lot of different websites now devoted to feedism themes. I particularly enjoy (male/BHM) weight gain literature, as it was sort of a gateway drug into feedism for me. So here are a few sources that I know about! Feel free to add more that you know about:

Fantasy Feeder (www.fantasyfeeder.com)

Dimensions Magazine (www.dimensionsmagazine.com)

Writing.com (www.writing.com)

DeviantArt (www.deviantart.com)

Gay Gainer Stories (https://gainerstories.ucoz.com/)

Gay Spiral Stories (https://www.gayspiralstories.com/)

Beefy Frat (www.dev.beefyfrat.com)

Tumblr (www.tumblr.com)

FFAmbrosia (www.ffambrosia.com)

About Me

I'm 31 years old, straight 👫 and use he/him/his pronouns 🚹

I like to cook 🍳🥘 and I like to eat 🍽

I'm a foodie, soft-feedist, casual gainer, and platonic encourager of fellow BHMs/male gainers/male feedees 😈

I use this Tumblr blog to engage with the online #Feedism community 🧁 and explore my own interests (i.e. "kinks") therein. Mostly by reading male tf & wg fiction 📖. DM me!

I'm open to chatting about Feedism topics with any fellow feedists. If you have any questions about my Feedism interests, just Ask me or DM me!

My current weight is ~230 lbs (~104.5 kg). For now, I want to keep it <250 lbs (113 kg). I'm taking my gains slowly and enjoying the journey.

At the moment, I fit into size 38" pants and XL shirts. Bumping up a size or two would be kinda sweet.