How Do You Think... Is It Ok To Be Aloof On The Outside But On The Inside Want To Have Fun With People

How do you think... Is it ok to be aloof on the outside but on the inside want to have fun with people and make friends?

I mean, logically i understand that it is my introversion mixed with sensitivity and lack of self-confidence which are pretty usual traits but... This knowledge doesn't make the situation much better. I still feel uncomfortable talking on the phone and i never initiate friendship with smn myself. And i don't actually want to take these social actions. When i have to, it feels like a burden.

How can i want to be a more social person if i don't? Sounds like a paradox, isn't it? Maybe the problem isn't right here but nearby.

What comes to my mind right now is that i could be a little more sociable if dealt with my complexes.

By the way, writing this post helps me to structure this problem better 😊

How do i deal with them? ... *thinks for a minute* ... Wow, i didn't expect this question to make my head so empty. *"thinks" for 2 more minutes* i guess i have to come up with something already. Now i know: this topic is very uncomfortable because my mind is currently blocking thoughts and ideas. Which means i have a lot to work on.

I often have a feeling which feels (yes sounds great) like my heart is under chains (or holds some weight), it's not like a knife put there or too depressing, no (I'm glaad its not), it's more of a slow weak wall stopping you from being happy, easygoing, communicative and emotionally expressive (i behave like this with my best friend). I really don't know how to stop it or even should i try to do it?...

Nah I'm tired of discussing bad things, let's talk about music. I love music. Keypad has even automatically replaced love with live)). My favourite genres are rock, hard rock, metal and classic music. I like a lot of music except pop music. I rarely find pleasant songs there. What about you?🌠

Could you advise something on my issue or do you have some similarities?🙁

Be more positive

“All The Time”  ✨

by:  Artmakr

“You are going to have a good and long life filled with great and terrible moments that you cannot even imagine yet.”

— John Green // The Fault In Our Stars

things i tell myself