8TH + 12TH Synastry Combo Is CRAZY, I Swear Y'all, I'm Done With Karmic Relationships, I QUIT

8TH + 12TH synastry combo is CRAZY, I swear y'all, I'm done with karmic relationships, I QUIT

A quick house overlay note!

11th house synastry is usually so overlooked and underrated. The 11th house synastry provides a solid ground for acceptance, tolerance and also shared fanatasy/vision.

If your venus falls in someone's 11th house, they will immediatly take notice of all the things about you that has been rejected and shunned upon by society and fully accept it. They might even point it out as something they like or fancy! This will instil a deep sense of fascination towards the 11th house and you might not want to seperate from them. The venus person would want to spend as much time as possible with the 11th house because it makes them feel good about themselves and their individuality. Since the 11th house is the house of inspirations and fantasies, the venus person will feel like they are living a dream with the 11th house person... quite literally. However, since 11th house is Uranian, there can forces outside of your control that seperates both of you for a while... in that case, venus will feel like they were forced to wake up from the dream, and they cannot recreate it with anyone else no matter how hard they try. Venus sees the 11th person as the 'wild card'.

The 11th person loves the venus person, unconditionally and without any strings attached. The way the 11th house loves the venus is very mature, progressive and allows a lot of space and motivation for venus to grow. The 11th person sees venus as their ideal type. Venus looks like they walked out of one of 11th person's fanatasies. Venus might remind the 11th house of their celebrity crush, or might look like a celebrity to the 11th house person. However, the 11th house person will remain detached, not because they are not interested, but more so, they love venus so unconditionally that they will just go with the flow.

The connection can be on/off, unpredictable, but it has a feeling of 'meant to be'. You might find your way back to each other after months or years. It is also possible that this connection started when both of you where stuck, or at a stagnation point in your lives. In that case, this connection brings incredible enegry of inspiration, change forth movement.

aries-libra axis🌋

continuing with my series of axis fynamics, if you haven’t read the previous part, you can read it here i’ve already talked about how i see oppositions as two opposite ends of the very same thing, as two sides of one coin, and how they are more about balancing and completing each other rather than opposing forces that are fighting. soooo, today let’s talk about aries-libra axis!

aries-libra line is a true representation of masculine vs feminine, yang and yin, bc basically aries is a martian sign and libra is a venusian one. if you’re into greek mythology, you probably already know about Mars and Venus relationships - they were lovers deeply keen on each other, and even had children, which are Eros, Anteros, Harmonia, as well as Demios and Phobos. stay with me here, bc imo understanding of this axis is closely linked to mythology.

first two brothers rule over love: Eros is the god of passionate love and sexual desire, and Anteros is, on the other hand, the god of rational and required love. second two bros are heavily contrasting with first ones, being the rulers of fear (Phobos) and terror (Demios). and also, there is a sister Harmonia, which (you may have already guessed) is the goddes of harmony and concord. do you notice a pattern here?

Mars (Ares) - the god of cruel war, fighting and everything related to agressive masculine (which also includes motivation and libido) and Venus (Aphrodite) - the goddes of love and beauty, which also was able to change her looks to charm and seduce whoever. and those two completely opposing forces - the undomitable forceful warrior and a magnificent and flexible goddes of beauty gave birth to gods of extremes and a goddes of harmony and balance.

now lets return to zodiacal archetypes: aries is a sign of self. It’s a sign of beginnings, where one usually is full of hotheaded energy, desire and motivation to go-go-go! It represents the head, which is kinda where the masculine energy is ruling over (head over heart). aries itself is so eager to be the pioneer and the leader, that sometimes he suddently realizes that he is, actually, left alone in his own world - whether it’s because he is too far ahead from others, or becaused everybody left his territories that he’s been so protective of. in pursuit of fighting for one’s justice he lost the point he was fighting for.

and on the opposite side of the spectrum there’re libras - the most others oriented sign. i’ve already pointed out how Aphrodite could shift her appearance to appeal the most beautiful to every eye there is on her way. libras (on the contrast with another venusian sign taurus) have kind of inhereted this ability and now are one of the most flexible and socially adaptible signs of the zodiac. libras sense for justuce, on the contrary with aries, is others oriented, up to the point that libras could come to realize that there’s no such thing as their own self, their territory, bc of how eager they were to keep the world in balance. in pursuit of balancing the world out they sacrificed their own selves.

and when those two are put together - that’s where the magic happens. aries shows libras how it is to be unapologetically themselves and how to fight for what they believe in, while libras open aries’s minds to the surrounding world and to other’s points of view. and all of the sudden aries are not fighting alone - now they have their own people and global purpose, while libras develop the sense of self. together those two bring real harmony and balance, and i think it’s beautiful💗

12th house synastry: Sun in 12th house

* Sun person identifies in a way that house don't quite understand /relate to

* Sun person is someone that house person can gain greater perspective from.

*Sun person can act as a teacher, spiritual guide, or guardian to house person

* House person Judges sun person, misconceptions about sun person, Sun person looks/seems "off"

* Sun person liberates House person.

*Sun person is shines light on what House person hides/keeps away. Sun person is shining light within the subconscious mind meaning every and all things connected to house person are seen.

* House person sees Sun person as someone who embodies traits that house person rejects within, feels shame for

— disclaimer: these are general and will vary from individual to individual

🥀8TH SYNASTRY EXPERIENCE WITH MY EX BOYFRIEND🥀 {PART 1}

Hi guys, this is my first post here, and I wanted to start by saying that this is my personal experience during the relationship, I don't accept third party guesses and unsolicited opinions. It's my blog and I post whatever I want.

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Second of all, I'm not an expert or professional in the field of astrology, I'm just posting this because I feel like I should share it with everyone who is afraid of the 8th house.

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His Venus, Moon, Mars and Saturn all fall in my 8th house. In this part I will only talk about his planets and how it felt to be the house person.

🥀 VENUS IN 8TH

When I first met him it was like my whole body had received an electrical charge. My mouth went dry and my heart raced. It was a quick and silly conversation but it had me dying to find out more about him. He was beautiful, like a Greek God, I had already been attracted to other men before, but no one could compare with his beauty. He had something that made me want to get to know him more. He was mysterious, sexy, bold and confident.

His Venus falling in my 8th house was like seeing the most beautiful art in the Louvre museum. There was no one else in the world that could compare to his beauty, he had cast a spell on me, tied me to his feet. I was enchanted.

His eyes were the first thing I saw, his body was beautiful, of course, but the beauty of his Bambi brown eyes was unmatched. They were so loving and kind, I felt like I could tell him all my secrets, dreams and goals. I was at home.

Venus falling in the 8th house makes the house person see everything bigger than it really is. She puts her expectation on the planet person, she thinks he is the only man on earth. It's all more viceral and fanciful. She tries to look directly at the sun and ends up with a sore eye. But she doesn't care, because she's in love with him. It's like magic, it's this crazy thing that makes you obsess over this person.

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{PART 2 IS COMING}

12TH SYNASTRY CULTURE 🛸 {PART 2}

12TH in synastry, is making love mentally. It's stimulating the darkest places in the partner's mind. You don't need to be near each other to know that something has happened.

It's mystical, it's like you're exploring the dark and cold universe alone. It's like you have a mental and spiritual connection, you bring out the best in the person in the house.

There might also be a bit of disillusionment there. Especially if Neptune and Venus fall there. You give the person of the house the role of muse. You write songs, poems and poetry about her. You put her in the lead role, which ends up putting the expectations very high on her. That never ends well.

You two are like a psychedelic dream, it's an explosion of colors and feelings. It's a very strong connection that can end up leading to hatred. So be aware of the signs, give space and time for the two of you.

If you two recently broke up, you're probably having trouble getting over the person. She appears in your dreams as a ghost. I've been there.

It's karmic, the two of you probably met in a past life. That doesn't mean you're soul mates destined to be together. Most likely you came into this life to resolve issues from the past, and let go. There's better things coming your way, believe me.