Self-sabotage Comes In The Form Of Making Irrational Excuses For People Who Consistently Hurt You Or

Self-sabotage comes in the form of making irrational excuses for people who consistently hurt you or let you down. never fall into the habbit of allowing your kindness to be misused by anyone who knows how great your capacity for forgiveness is.

Cut the cord energetically when it adds more noise than peace to your spirit.

No offense, but I really think you need to give yourself as much chance to unlearn and pause as you give to learning and evolving.

You cannot keep writing on an overwritten slate; you'll have to empty the cup to use it again. You have to be brave to let go of what you thought was real and embrace what you know is true. And there's no beauty in it, not always. Changes are ugly sometimes—sometimes being yourself is much more than solo sunset dates and quiet poetries. Sometimes, the change you want comes with blaring sirens and shivering hands—the horrors of taking a step forward against the tornado. That's how unlearning happens. That's how you pause.

Breaks my heart when people talk about the essence of their very being in the past tense – ‘I cared too much,’ ‘I loved too much,’ ‘I trusted blindly,’ ‘I wanted things to work out.’ To invest your heart and soul in a relationship, romantic or platonic, only to come out of it wounded, and to feel repulsive about the qualities that made you you, is an ending nobody deserves.

Only if you would know how someone’s barely existent efforts don’t make you too much. Only if you would know how the lesson was never about how to shrink your love but to give it to yourself first, so nobody’s bare minimum would ever be enough.

Universe sending me signs through you😭...but yes!

“sometimes you are their favourite person because you’re the easy one.”

conveniences

Sometimes nostalgia hits me so hard and my memory is too vivid, too real.

Sometimes I feel it all again, I hear it all again.

Sometimes I find my cheeks wet with tears wetted by smiles of times lost forever to me.

// Willow Teagan

THIS!

~ the right one won't make you ask for basic human decency and sweet gestures.it comes naturally from people who genuinely love you and want to appreciate you for just being there!!

Don't be ashamed of showing them your love language. Or how you want to be loved. But don't do it over and over until it means nothing. Until every flower in your bouquet is something you asked for and not something you deserve just because.