Um Yea Hi!!! I Just Have To Say That First Things First I Love Ur Blog!!! Its Just So Aesthetic And Pretty!!!

um… yea hi!!! 🙈💓 I just have to say that first things first I love ur blog!!! ☺️ it’s just so aesthetic and pretty!!! you tie everything together really well. so kudos!!! secondly, um… I was wondering if you could do a post on how to stop self-destructing? or if you could give any tips on that? it would be most appreciated!!! thank u!! 😇

hello my love!!

thank you so so much for your kind words and my apology in getting back to you.

and here are my top tips to stop self destructing (but i'll make a longer post soon!)

practicing compassion with myself - it's okay to make mistakes, it's okay to not feel like you have it together. but you have to soothe yourself first and tell yourself that YOU GOT THIS, and it will only get better from here

making healthy habits & modifying my routine - i know we all say your routine should be rigid but sometimes it feels like it overwhelms me! whenever im in a self destructive mood i start with easy tasks and slowly build up my energy to get towards my bigger tasks

emotional outlets - finding ways to channel my emotions and honour them. i used to ignore my emotions off anger,frustration etc., and kept it all bottled up but that led to self destruction. journaling, praying, going to the gym or playing cozy games helps me redirect that energy towards something until it passes. then i can regroup.

i hope this helped!!

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hi my loves,

i've been pretty mia this week as im working on some new campaigns for clients.

i'll be back next week to answer your questions so please send me any questions or topic you want me to cover in content!!

love you all xoxo

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(You're so extremely nice -and super duper aesthetic. Wish I had that in me-)

hello lovely!!

thank you for your kind words and shhhh you absolutely have the power to be any aesthetic you want. just remember to be kind along the way too  💖