You Know, As A Person With Adhd I`m So Fucking Angry And Frustrated, Just So Done In General Sometimes

you know, as a person with adhd i`m so fucking angry and frustrated, just so done in general sometimes with neurotypical people, who have no fucking patience with us. i understand that you`re pissed at me that i forgot someting, or i didn`t norice something, or it seems to you that i didn`t pay attention to your words. but it`s so fucking hard for me too. wow, what a big surprise! i don`t do it because i`m lazy or because i`m an asshole and want to annoy you on purpose. it`s. just. how. my. fucking. brain. functions.  and i`d do anything at these times to trade it for yours organized brain.  i`m angry myself at me. stop making it worse. i`m tired of hating myself for that.  i`m so angry, i wanna cry

“I’d rather support a potential liar than a potential rapist.”

My question is, why does your support include being an asshole?

@hibernatingwithgrizzlies has a great post on this and I’d like to add to why it’s a logical fallacy and problematic.

People who say this or variations thereof, are, in legal terms, insufferable twats.

It goes the same for anyone who posted “I’m not writing/creating content for Xavier anymore because PHW…it ‘goes against my morals.’”

I can’t imagine having to deal with these pontificating asshats in real life.

I do understand pausing creating content because you feel some sort of way, it’s adding “morals” to it and making sure EVERYONE KNOWS that you have “morals” is what gets me.

The logical fallacy is the presumption that regardless of the evidence or outcome, your personal bias and horrible behavior were always justified.

They’re justifying and trying to make being gullible and jumping to conclusions a virtue.

“I’m absolved from critical thinking or apologizing for my vile behavior because I was pretending and grandstanding about supporting women and feminism. That makes everything ok.”

Last I checked, being pathologically gullible is not a tenant of feminism.

When it’s spelled out like that, it sounds batshit insane, right? It is insane.

This line of thinking is problematic because you’re basically saying you’re biased and proud. It doesn’t matter what actually happened, you’re not going to give the accused a chance to defend themselves because you’ve already decided they were guilty. Not only that they were guilty, but it’s your moral obligation to be as vile and obnoxious about condemning them as possible.

If it turns out you were wrong, then you don’t have to admit that because you were on the “right” side of the argument.

I just have to hope these 15-year-olds grow out of this immature and brainless mindset before they’re old enough to be on a jury.

finally having just finished hotd, all i can think about is that viserys might be a good dad (only for rhaenyra...) and a good architect, but rhaenys should`ve been a queen (although it`s also in question with how she murdered so many people just for her stupid stunt). but if she were the queen, then leech-Otto would not be the  hand, which means that there would not be a divorced lesbian couple  in a war cauesed by stupid men

I swear from this time on after eddie kaspbrak and eddie munson I WILL NEVER HAVE ANOTHER QUEER CODED LIL GUY IN A HORROR SETTING IN THE 80TH NAMED EDDIE IN MY FAVS E V E R I`M DONE WITH EDDIES I`m done being heartbroken and treated like that and they both should have been AT LEAST pulled out of this pit 

you know, i  would be fine if Eddie didn't show up in season 5. BUT only if he could finally finish school in season 4, his name is cleared and he left Hawkins with his boyfriend  to become a cool musician. and then their 6 little nuggets would come to visit them. 

sometimes the only thing that reminds me that i`m alive and present, that gives me the birst of energy, keeps me going -  is that random hyperfixation when i was 12 on the adventures of that sarcastic and very loveable demigod boy who would fight any god at any given moment. and now that i see the trailer (LOOK, I DIDN`T WANT TO BE A HALF-BLOOD-) and wait for the series it`s like i`ve never been more alive and excited in these past years percy jackson, you`ll always be a legend