Metamorphosis

Metamorphosis

You hypnotise me and tell me how much better it would feel to never orgasm, how much better I would be to be aroused, to edge, to enjoy the sensations of arousal all day. You suggest I try it out for one day, just don’t orgasm for one day. If I masturbate, to stop myself before I cum. It’s only one day.

You give me a recording of this session with instructions to listen to it every morning when I get up an every night just before sleep.

A month later I am back for the next session. While hypnotised you tell me how much better it feels when my arousal is high, when I’m feeling that desperate ache between my legs. When I feel I need to be stuffed with hard cock or toys, how delicious it is to crave cock. You suggest my awareness of men being around me might be heightened, that I just notice them near by. You suggest when I am aware of men nearby, my arousal and craving for cock goes up and I enjoy that feeling.

You give me a recording of this session with instructions to listen to it every morning when I get up an every night just before sleep.

In my third session a month later you tell me how good I feel with this constant, nagging arousal and not having an orgasm. You tell me it feels so good, I cannot imagine orgasm ever feeling this good and if I did have one, I would lose this amazing feeling. You suggest I am much better off feeling wonderfully aroused forever and never having an orgasm again. You tell me how much happier I would be to never cum again and to just think about that idea. You also tell how much more satisfaction I feel now when others around me are having orgasms. How much more satisfied I feel with their orgasms than I ever did with my own. How amazing it is to be freed of the cycle of arousal and being left deflated after orgasm and instead to just feel permanently aroused.

You give me a recording of this session with instructions to listen to it every morning when I get up an every night just before sleep.

Forth session and you’re reminding me how good I feel now, how much better it is to never cum and how much happier I am. How much more I enjoy sex when I focus on my partner’s pleasure and how I glow with joy experiencing his orgasm, knowing he feels so much more satisfied too now that we both only focus on his pleasure. You mention how I only see his pleasure now as also mine and have stopped seeking my own because that is empty of any happiness or joy for me. You suggest I try focusing only on his pleasure, enjoyment and needs just for one day and see how it feels and that I might like it.

You give me a recording of this session with instructions to listen to it every morning when I get up an every night just before sleep.

Fifth session you tell me how much prettier I look now and remind me how much better and amazing I feel now that I only feel arousal and focus on the other’s pleasure. How much better it is to give than receive and how unfulfilling it is if I try to have sexual pleasure myself now. You suggest maybe this new way of being a sexual being is permanent and how much I love that idea because it gives me so much joy and satisfaction to see my partner satisfied while I never orgasm. You suggest it might be a good idea if I am permanently unable to orgasm because then I won’t have to focus on stopping orgasm and can put all that energy and focus into pleasing my partner. You remind me how good it feels to know men are satisfied because they used my body for their own pleasure and suggest maybe it will feel this good with any man who wants to use me. You suggest I might be curious to find out how good it feels when other men use me for their pleasure.

You give me a recording of this session with instructions to listen to it every morning when I get up an every night just before sleep.

Sixth and final session. You tell me how much joy and pleasure and satisfaction I get from knowing men enjoy using my body for their own pleasure and they never have to focus on my pleasure because I can only experience their pleasure as my own. You remind me how good it is to know this is a permanent condition and will never change. You mention how good it feels knowing men want to use me for their pleasure and tell me I cannot say no if any man ever wants to use me for sex. I am compelled to have sex with them because it would make them happy and it feels so good for me when they feel satisfied. You remind me to listen to the tapes every month or so, to remind myself how good it is now. You tell me how it is so good that I always say yes to sex with anyone, even men I don’t like, are repulsed by or fear. You suggest I never have to go back to how I was because being this way now is so rewarding and in the future any time I feel I need it, I can come back for more sessions to take this feeling deeper.

I love knowing men see me as inferior and will correct me without a second thought.

Men need casual sex, women don't

Men and women are different, we have different needs. A man needs no-strings-attached, casual sex as well as a committed relationship to be mentally healthy and happy. A woman needs one man in her life that she can commit to and knows he is committed to her. Multiple sex partners is beneficial for the man. It is not beneficial for the woman.

If I find out a woman has been sleeping with others in secret, I will immediately inform her partner. If I find out a man has been sleeping with others, I will keep silent.

I support men having casual sex because it is good for him and what is good for him will benefit her as well. I will never support a woman having casual sex because it is not good for her and does not benefit anyone.

This is the natural order, we should respect it.

A little about me

Mature woman of "a certain age" who is submissive to her core and living a long term, real life D/s relationship. Explored kink in my teens and taken part in bdsm experiences for over 20 years.

Those experiences and my life has led to a change in many ways I see the world. I have come to accept I am inferior to men and at my most beautiful and powerful as a woman when I submit, surrender and serve men. His needs, desires and wants are the most important, his pleasure and satisfaction the only thing that matters.

I do not accept that a female orgasm is necessary or desirable in a relationship and naturally feel more respect for a man who does not permit his woman to have one. From personal experience and that of many other women, I know when we are left to be sexually aroused without orgasm, we become more submissive and eager to please. It brings out our most natural, positive features.

When a man and a woman marry, they become one flesh. Only one orgasm is needed. His. His arousal becomes her arousal, His pleasure becomes her pleasure, His needs and desires become her needs and desires, His orgasm becomes her orgasm.

i am not religious, i just find this concept to be beautiful and sacred. What could be a more loving action than the surrender of her orgasm for him?

I am pro circumcision for any adult woman who seeks one.

You may consider my beliefs extreme but I am not forcing them on anyone.

Explanation why I believe Men are superior

102 reasons female orgasm denial is the best

Feminists have promoted orgasms as a liberation for women but it’s the exact opposite. Orgasms make women slave to their desires, always craving for immediate reward. Freeing them from this burden opens their mind to the fulfilling role of anal only sluts. 

Found this here and could not agree more : 

I like to be denied and I’m proud of it 🙂 I’m also a woman and a feminist so I find it a bit disappointing that looking around one only finds smut and information on denial and chastity for men. So here are my reasons for denial rights :

1. I have no moral right to enjoy the same pleasures as a Dominant man. 2. I have no right to refuse pain, discomfort or frustration from my Master. 3. Permanent Orgasm Denial is safe and sane and is therefore fully within the rights of the Master. 4. Slaves have no automatic entitlement to pleasure. 5. Whether I orgasm or not should never be my decision. 6. Dominants should have the right to orgasm whenever and however they choose. 7. I have no physical need to orgasm and therefore no right to.

Service 8. Orgasms make me unwilling to serve and obey and are therefore counterproductive. 9. Denial makes me more subservient and willing to do domestic work. 10. Denial helps me to see all forms of service as being of equal importance. 11. Denial helps me prioritize service to others above pleasure for myself. 12. Denial makes me easier to train and control. 13. Denial makes me more willing and able to quickly get up and continue serving after being used sexually. 14. Denial makes me more eager to find a Dominant to serve and submit to. 15. Denial allows me to serve fully without expectations of my own pleasure.

Downsides of Orgasms 16. Orgasms make me bossy, manipulative and self-serving. 17. Orgasms make me bratty, disobedient and demanding. 18. Orgasms make me spoiled, greedy and needful. 19. Orgasms make me selfish, lethargic and unsubmissive. 20. Denial prevents mood swings caused by fluctuating sexual arousal and the highs and lows of orgasms.

Better in Bed 21. Being aroused makes me more fun to play with. 22. Most Dominant men prefer to fuck a very aroused submissive. 23. Being very aroused makes me more eager for and responsive to sex. 24. Denial makes me a better sex slave as I am not distracted by the hope of my own orgasm. 25. Denial allows the Dominant to focus on his own pleasure during sex. 26. Denial allows the Dominant to enjoy sexual relief without the pressure of being required to perform. 27. Denial gives Dominant an additional way in which to pause and enjoy my suffering. 28. Denial makes me equally happy to be used in my arse or mouth or to be cum on. 29. Denial makes it easier to accept being used by others when a Dominant requires it. 30. Being denied ensures that I have less self-imposed limitations and expectations about play and sex. 31. Denial helps me give complete sexual control and obedience to those who Dominate me. 32. Denial ensures that I am physically ready whenever and however a Dominant wishes to use me. 33. Lack of submissive expectations about pleasure ensures that the Dominant does not feel judged, compared or rejected sexually. 34. Denial makes me see sex as a privilege and not a right. 35. Denial allows the Dominant’s sexual preferences to take full priority. 36. Denial helps me focus on the pleasure of the Dominant instead of my own physical sensations. 37. A lack of concern for my pleasure and satisfaction gives more options to those who use me. 38. Denial reminds me that my preferences are not the limit of how I can be used, sexually. 38b. Denial makes my pussy tighter, giving more pleasure to my Owner.

Benefits to the Relationship 39. Denial will help me bond with my Master by establishing a constant feeling of connection, submission and control. 40. Denial ensures my faithfulness and commitment as casual partners are unlikely or unable to offer the orgasm denial that I need. 41. Permanent Orgasm Denial is an intense, rare and unique experience which will ensure a deep and powerful bond between me and those who enforce it. 42. Denial ensures a contented submissive who is not anxious about her own pleasure. 43. A happy Master is essential for a happy relationship.

Objectification 44. My sexual organs, including the clitoris, should be at the service of Dominant men at all possible times. 45. Sex is for the Dominant’s pleasure, not the slave’s. 46. It is not appropriate for a slave to lose self-control whilst serving a Dominant. 47. A slave’s body belongs to her Master and He decides how it is used. 48. My holes belong to those who use them and are for their pleasure only. 49. Serving anally and orally will help me focus on the pleasure of those who are using me. 50. My body can be used to give pleasure, enjoyment, and satisfaction to others, even when I dislike what is being done with it. 51. Denial helps me appreciate the utility, femininity, and submissiveness of my body.

Better at Taking Pain 52. Denial makes me more willing and able to take pain to please others. 53. Denial accustoms me to the reality of slavery that is physically painful or difficult. 54. Denial makes me desire pain to deal with the sexual frustration.

Altruism 55. My orgasms do not benefit anyone else and are therefore unnecessary. 56. My own pleasure is irrelevant to how much pleasure and satisfaction I can give to others. 57. Slaves are inferior to Dominants and do not deserve to orgasm. 58. Denial of orgasm is a small price to pay for the privilege of being Owned and enslaved. 59. Denial helps me to enjoy service and submission in their own right, and not just as payback for sexual pleasure. 60. Both parties working towards the Dominant’s pleasure creates harmony of purpose and avoids conflict of interest. 61. Denial helps me to appreciate the beauty, dominance, and eroticism of the male orgasm. 62. My denial pleases and arouses Dominants who enjoy this fetish. 63. Denial prevents me from favoring only the sexual and s&m activities which are likely to cause me pleasure. 64. Denial makes me more willing to try things that may not be pleasurable or desirable for me. 65. I am more useful as a slave when my enjoyment is of no concern to myself or others. 66. Denial makes me less judgmental about serving and pleasuring others. 67. Physical arousal caused by denial enables me to pleasure more men, making me more useful as a slave.

Submissive Mindstate 68. Denial helps me to see myself as a total and permanent slave. 69. Sexual frustration is a constant reminder of my submission. 70. Denial causes me to remember and focus on the non-physical and non-pleasurable aspects of submission. 71. Denial trains me to give up control of my body, even when single. 72. Denial helps me appreciate the power and privileges of Dominant males. 73. Denial shows Dominants that I am willing to serve and be obedient. 74. Orgasms are unnatural and unsubmissive for slaves.

The Pleasures of Denial 75. Sexual frustration makes me emotionally happier and more subservient. 76. Extreme arousal is fun to play with! 77. Permanent Orgasm Denial is a great reward which I should seek and hope to experience. 78. Denial is an amazing gift of arousal and control from a Dominant and should always be treasured and appreciated. 79. Denial gives me freedom from my own sexual dictates.

Denial Improves Me as a Person 80. Being denied for long periods gives me discipline and self-control. 81. Learning not to obsess about my own orgasm makes me a better, more well-rounded person. 82. Denial saves time that would be wasted on masturbation. 83. Denial prevents me from prioritizing short-term satisfaction over long-term growth and development as a submissive. 84. Denial helps me choose Dominants on the basis of giving service rather than receiving sexual pleasure. 85. Realizing that I cannot and should not have everything I want is good for my humility.

Denial as a Natural State 86. Denial is not an irregular restriction but a natural and permanent state for a slave. 87. Women have no physical need to orgasm. 88. Female orgasms are unnecessary for impregnation. 89. My orgasm serves no biological purpose. 90. Intense sexual arousal is a preferable and healthy state for adult females. 91. Denial of orgasm has been a normal state for women throughout history. 92. Sexual arousal is designed to persuade women to accept penetration from an aroused adult male. 93. Orgasms not resulting directly from insemination are unnatural and require correction. 94. My orgasm is designed to take place only after a male has ejaculated deep inside my vagina. 95. Female orgasms are designed to prevent sex from occurring after successful impregnation. 96. Female orgasms triggered by sodomy are abnormal and should be avoided. 97. Female sexual arousal is necessary to ensure breeding, unlike female orgasms. 98. Lack of sexual arousal after orgasm is an undesirable and temporary state. 99. Anal sex is a natural alternative for those wishing to avoid impregnation. 100. It is not natural for a woman to touch her sexual organs except when cleaning herself. 101. Denial causes physical arousal and lubrication prior to sex and is, therefore, natural and to be encouraged for women. 102. My arousal serves no purpose if it does not lead to impregnation.

To be female is to experience the beautiful art of surrendering every day.