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(Part 1) Vetted fundraisers that have reached out to me:
@bilal-salah0 here (verification)
@reemshehab / @fahedshehab9 / danashehab / fahed-shehab-9 here (verification)
@hyamshehabnew11 here (verification)
@mahmoud-sharif here (verification)
@hamzahilles here (verification)
@wafaaresh here (verification)
@mohiy-gaza here (verification)
@aymanayyad82 / mayadayyad81 here (verification)
@bisanalbalawi18 here (verification)
@mahmoudayyad here (verification)
@save-salem-family2 here (verification)
@noorabd1992 here (verification)
@fidaa-family0 / fidaa-family2 here (verification)
@fedao here (verification)
@ahmedalnabeeh11 here (verification)
@anqar here (verification)
@islamgazaaccount2 here (verification)
@karamrafeek here (verification)
@save-salam-family here (verification)
@mohammadyaser1980 / y2082008 / yasermohammad here (verification)
@samiraayman here (verification)
@yousefhamaad11 here (verification)
@aseelo579 here (verification)
@mahmoud1995 here (verification)
@abdelmutei here (verification)
@hayanahed here (verification)
@noor-alanqar here (verification)
@abeeribrahim2006 here (verification)
@mahmoud0hilles here (verification)
@as-maa-56 / @asmaa2005 here (verification)
@girlquee here (verification)
@frhatfamily here (verification)
@aslambalousha here (verification)
@ahmed-mohammed1 here (verification)
@heba-baker here (verification)
@khaled-gaza here (verification)
@aya2mohammed here (verification)
@save-hijazi-family2 here (verification)
@help-mona here (verification)
@hazempalestine here (verification)
@atalah-mohammed here (verification)
@hanaa987 here (verification)
@ahedalshaer here (verification)
@children-gaza here (verification)
@ahmedkhabil here (verification)
@abood-family-gaza here (verification)
@bshaeromars-blog here (verification)
@hsalem-1 here (verification)
Last updated: August 7th, 2024
EDIT: I reached the limit number of mentions you can make in one post, so I'm continuing in a reblog. You can find it here
LGBT in fighting is fucking dumb and I’m super tired of yall’s stupidity. The fascists who run the government do not care that you are “Not like the other queers”. The fascists do not care that you hates it when bisexual women are taking their straight boyfriends to pride. The fascists do not care that you are a gay person who hates trans people with a passion. The fascists do not care that you are a trans person who hates non-binary people with a passion. The fascists do not care that you are a queer person who bullies 12 year old kids on tik tok who use fox/foxself pronouns and identify as fox gender. Hating each other will not make the homophobes go away. I don’t care how many times you say “But these people in the community make everyone else in the community look bad.” Fascists think we are all the same they will not single any of us out just because some of us have the same opinions as the fascists/Alt right. They are not passing anti trans laws because some trans people are too loud and cringey they are doing it because they hate all trans people. They are not passing anti gay laws because some gay people are too loud and cringey they are doing it because they hate gay people. FASCISTS DO NOT CARE ABOUT YOUR OPINIONS THEY WILL KILL YOU REGARDLESS! FASCISTS DO NOT CARE ABOUT YOUR OPINION THEY WILL KILL YOU REGARDLESS! FASCISTS DO NOT CARE ABOUT YOUR OPINION THEY WILL KILL YOU REGARDLESS! Do you understand me?
![A Palestinian woman is depicted hugging a heart with the colors of the Palestinian flag against a pink background. She has light skin and is wearing a white hijab and a magenta shirt. Her eyes are closed in peace, and she is smiling. Around her float multi-colored hearts and stars. On the side is a QR code of a link to her fundraiser. At the top is a white with the text "You Can Help Tala's Family!!"](https://64.media.tumblr.com/33cf869da4c50be321e9d12c8ba24fc3/117ca5d5a2fcf070-e2/s500x750/eb65a607c08fd8a69de7a7e3bbeaefc708fa57c0.png)
![At the top of the picture there is text that reads "Help Tala's Family Evacuate Gaza." The background is pink, and a photo of Tala is included. She is a light-skinned Palestinian woman wearing a white hijab and magenta shirt, and she is crossing her arms and wearing a determined smile. There are stars, wavy lines, and an olive branch surrounding the main text that reads:"Tala is a resilient third-year dentistry student from Gaza city with a heart full of compassion and dreams. She worked hard, pursuing her passion to heal and serve her community, until it was shattered by the horrors of genocide. After nearly ten months of genocide, Tala and her family have left behind their home, studies, and life, displaced and left with no access to basic necessities like electricity and water. Every day is a battle for survival, marked by hardship and uncertainty. Tala needs to raise $30,000 to reach a safe haven for her family and herself - with your help, Tala and her family can achieve their greatest wish of evacuating to safety to reclaim their dreams! https://gofund.me/f290a3fc"](https://64.media.tumblr.com/6e761633700250f45dcfc17d75612bc7/117ca5d5a2fcf070-9e/s500x750/12ce273930ccc9f84ee3aa0359094a763b0cdb5f.png)
Please help Tala and her family! They still have not reached their goal of $30,000 to evacuate from Gaza; they have currently raised $19,146/$30,000. Every donation counts so please don't become discouraged - every dollar counts no matter how little!!! With your help, we can help Tala and her family to reach safety!!
🌟 This campaign has been vetted - this fundraiser has been promoted by PYM Dallas and is supporting the family of a TX community member!!
Please donate and share widely!!!
![Donate to Help our family reach Safety, organized by Heba Lozon](https://64.media.tumblr.com/23e3f245ebd542e819b58aa01d6784f7/117ca5d5a2fcf070-de/s540x810/8b3a93c80d0fc342902dcf57cd0dd0f78062ff7c.jpg)
This campaign is also a spotlight fundraiser from Artists 4 Gaza where your donation could get you a free art request from one of their many many talented artists!! Click for more info!
[template for the secondary graphic made by the amazing @/starelegy_ (IG)]
i genuinely hate how people have to sit and write a post that stands out while boosting a fundraiser because most people won't bat an eye at the misery and inhumane conditions Palestinians are living in.
i see people making art and telling others to use it because fundraisers with art are generally reblogged more often. i see people using colored text in order to make the post more eye catching.
palestinians on instagram are using popular audios and stitch trending reels at the beginning to make the world pay attention to them. imagine having to make something look entertaining in order to survive.
they are living under constant threat of israeli airstrikes, bombing, scarcity of food and disease. many have lost a lot in the past few months.
palestinians on tumblr are posting their pictures and the horrible conditions in which they are living. they travel long distances for internet connection only to be called a scammer by some privileged ass who cannot locate gaza on a map.
here are some verified gfms. please share the linked posts. it's the bare minimum we can do from the comforts of our home.
@amjadshiltawu: link to the post
vetted
@dima96yousef: link to the post
vetted
@tamer200333: link to the post
vetted
@ahmed8311: link to the post
vetted (#161)
@saratahrawi: link to the post
vetted
![Fascists Are Up To Their Old Tricks Again, This National Front Sticker With A Razor Blade Beneath Was](https://64.media.tumblr.com/a23560c1a4302ffd898ce48a87226ca8/06a2ad7e80ecc14b-e2/s500x750/9152038d3f5d516965cc6f6f416ee62f3819c3fe.png)
Fascists are up to their old tricks again, this National Front sticker with a razor blade beneath was found in Dunton Green railway station but they’re mobile this weekend for protests all over the country so be careful.
![Please Help Rawan, Yemna, And Their Family! They Are Still Far From Their Goal Of Kr319,315 SEK (~$30,000)](https://64.media.tumblr.com/f562245f3ed7b3b606ad4c149567ce83/2dbe5d34c4c5dc51-3a/s500x750/321c92f179ffa19f6c2dbe8f79b1766c8d61c5f4.png)
![Please Help Rawan, Yemna, And Their Family! They Are Still Far From Their Goal Of Kr319,315 SEK (~$30,000)](https://64.media.tumblr.com/405c109a29b864b005be13d7f2ea1ff4/2dbe5d34c4c5dc51-75/s500x750/4607faea5d2c93d1e8f0c78ef7506c4268a16911.png)
Please help Rawan, Yemna, and their family! They are still far from their goal of kr319,315 SEK (~$30,000) to evacuate from Gaza; they have currently raised kr97,184 SEK / kr319,315. However, with your help we can change that - every dollar counts no matter how little!!! Together, we can all help the Abudaya family!!
🌟 This campaign has been verified by a Palestinian-led collective - follow them @/palestineasdiqa on IG!!
Please donate and share widely!!!
![Donate to Helping two student sisters from Gaza Strip., organized by Ayman Zahir](https://64.media.tumblr.com/7b151526715bfc54ad2fb1d535b59739/2dbe5d34c4c5dc51-24/s540x810/7b3e2827c4529daa54b4e175017d560391b6e08e.jpg)
This campaign is also a fundraiser where your donations can get you some free art from the talented group at Artists 4 Gaza!! Check out artaction4gaza.carrd.co for more info!
[template for the secondary graphic made by the amazing @starelegy_ ]
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![Bwahahahahaha! pic.twitter.com/pKJlIfa1Pa
— Abier (@abierkhatib) August 6, 2024](https://64.media.tumblr.com/42db58d647c636590936f789a4334847/1f8feecca30297b2-5c/s500x750/105a31cd1aa3a107366c93c66013413ab718f606.jpg)
![Amid Gaza war, Wikipedia editors conclude Israel guilty of genocide](https://64.media.tumblr.com/e0347cc236740d1cb85ae03c4cc23d03/1f8feecca30297b2-93/s500x750/85258e04372f1bcaf75b2edfbedf1f50ad21629e.jpg)
![This Is Unconscionable. (more)](https://64.media.tumblr.com/b978d0b3385f4e83a979def98d93fc13/e2a820976ab85c22-d9/s500x750/705bdcd09a8546c17618d747dc541f897a3444fc.jpg)
![This Is Unconscionable. (more)](https://64.media.tumblr.com/f1a0611f51c5fba32cd46f14a18287cb/e2a820976ab85c22-cc/s500x750/978e6d2bb951658d3162c5e5b87970f57cc7cb6f.jpg)
This is unconscionable. (more)
![John Oliver Buys $15M of Medical Debt for $60K and Forgives It All, Because He Could](https://64.media.tumblr.com/1fb4eadf9814afaf7ba5c63c2785ca68/49d27425c17974e2-07/s1280x1920/135b80bcc50b39a5006073a0b397c64cb4a1e2f3.jpg)
![Sudanese refugees in Cairo are suffering in silence, our group are currently supporting families with one meal per day. To expand and sustain the work for one year, I started this fundraising campaign, Please contribute and share. https://t.co/HjYXNwcrs5
— Mohamed Kambal (@MuhammedKambal) May 29, 2024](https://64.media.tumblr.com/2ed9d02805d6287903e12afb36abc147/6832aa7344bc3f9f-a0/s500x750/e29932dcd6be62735d927fcf409811d9438dce9a.jpg)
May 29, 2024
![Donate to Support for Sudanese Refugees in Cairo, organized by Mohamed Suliman](https://64.media.tumblr.com/cf18e00e68cd0d4676e6248135d26b2d/6832aa7344bc3f9f-0f/s1280x1920/68cd2cceed4d25afb77e78cfc91c081b1f76d1d0.png)
uk journalists having to report through gritted teeth that there were no riots last night as thousands of anti-racist protesters significantly outnumbered the racist rioters across the country
vetted palestinian campaigns 31/7
please pick two to donate to & to share to your own followers or on other social medias, in group chats & anywhere you can tell people about the pressing matter of helping people rebuild, evacuate or continuing their educations.
Help Munna Tashmali's Family Rebuild Their Home & Future // @monashamali // vetted by @/nabulsi // £6,484/£30,000
Help Mahmoud Khalaf save his family // @mahmoudkhalafff // #151 on vetted spreadsheet // €16,883/€30,000
Help Adham Ayyad's family with relief, crossing fees & education // @stupendouswolfearthquake // vetted by @/90-ghost // kr4,230/kr300,000 SEK
Help Noor Alanqar's Family Rebuild Their Lives // @noor-alanqar // vetted by @/90-ghost // €14,680/€40,000
Help Amna Marwan Evacuate Her Family to Safety // @amnahab // vetted fundraiser (#247) // €12,889/€40,000
Save Ahmed Altaban & His Family // @ahmed4palestine // vetted by @/90-ghost // $13,388/$20,000 USD
Help Ola & Her Family in this Crisis // @olagaza1 // vetted fundraiser (#205) // $19,641/$50,000 USD
Help Oday & His Family Evacuate And Rebuild // @oday-alanqar // vetted by @/el-shab-hussein // €115/€50,000
Help Mohammed & His Five Children Recover and Rebuild // @mohammadyaser1980 // vetted by @/wlwaerith // €12,828/€35,000
Help Ahmad & His Family Evacuate From Gaza // @children-gaza vetted by @/90-ghost // €3,141/€15,000
Help Musab & His Family Rebuild // @musababd // vetted by @/90-ghost // £296/£8,000
Help Muhammad Al-Habil & His Family Evacuate // @alhabil // vetted fundraiser #166 // €18,329/€50,000
Help Ahmed Halas & His Family Evacuate // @ahmeadhilles // vetted @/90-ghost // €872/€80,000
Help Dr. Ahmed M.A. Hamad & His Family Escape // @drahmedhamad2 // vetted @/apollos-olives // kr4,045/ kr400,000 SEK
Help Hadeel Mikki & Her Family Escape // @hadeelmekki // vetted @/90-ghost // €9,483/€35,000
Help Salahaldin Ahmad Khalil Hor & His Family Evacuate // @salahaldinahhorsblog // vetted by @/90-ghost // €2,987/€40,000
T is not just "twink juice"
That sets a fucking standard of "tall skinny white guy" when that's:
1) Not everyone's goal
2) Not something everyone achieves with T because everyone's experience is a little different
Stop fearmongering people taking HRT. Something that saves lives
Testosterone. Saves. Lives.
"Oh but that affect is gross"
"Oh but what if"
SHUT UP
Transandrophobia is fucking crazy.
Also not everyone wants to take T anyway.
Edit to add: Intersexism is also rampant in discussions around HRT in general. HRT is not a choice for everyone and some are forced on it unwillingly or even unknowingly. While not everything around HRT is negative, perisex folks need to recognise these aspects of it.
“When the Israelis pick up guns, or the Poles, or the Irish, or any white man in the world says ‘Give me liberty or give me death,’ the entire white world applauds. When a black man says exactly the same thing, word for word, he is judged a criminal and treated like one and everything possible is done to make an example of this bad nigger so there won’t be any more like him.“
-James Baldwin
dunno who needs to hear this but I know there are people who do so:
no one owes you an explanation of their sexuality/gender.
anyway y'all are valid :)
Okay, for nine months now we’ve all seen firsthand how American media lies and spreads misinformation about the situation in Palestine and what’s really going on over there. Have you stopped yet to consider what other countries American media is lying to you about?
![I Drew This Comic For Firas @firasmuhaisenn, A Friend Who Has Family Trapped In Gaza. Their Campaign](https://64.media.tumblr.com/d1f1fd95fe6791a0b4cdb70dbcb23934/3ef75c3f3f181cf0-7f/s500x750/e08077c8aad84064ffb250eaab88f6fb8935ff88.png)
![I Drew This Comic For Firas @firasmuhaisenn, A Friend Who Has Family Trapped In Gaza. Their Campaign](https://64.media.tumblr.com/45771b799348eb8fd32e75ba3f877b9d/3ef75c3f3f181cf0-12/s500x750/860f0dc64f5f225ac960d8553d058ca217db4ff7.png)
![I Drew This Comic For Firas @firasmuhaisenn, A Friend Who Has Family Trapped In Gaza. Their Campaign](https://64.media.tumblr.com/e2b05e988f3e890b829a9ba0c5d660bf/3ef75c3f3f181cf0-56/s500x750/827085a07d996b54d5f62c61cbdd32ab702aabd1.png)
![I Drew This Comic For Firas @firasmuhaisenn, A Friend Who Has Family Trapped In Gaza. Their Campaign](https://64.media.tumblr.com/6310fff46218aa9e8dadf5be7af1a60c/3ef75c3f3f181cf0-6a/s500x750/f1adf7e3e0fe2f0734ecdbff0e389ab23dbb3cce.png)
![I Drew This Comic For Firas @firasmuhaisenn, A Friend Who Has Family Trapped In Gaza. Their Campaign](https://64.media.tumblr.com/4b90b3993f3128c9991cb606ab3da2e2/3ef75c3f3f181cf0-85/s500x750/9452016c1d91b1de6354a9db78d33e7a2885f56c.png)
I drew this comic for Firas @firasmuhaisenn, a friend who has family trapped in Gaza. Their campaign has been verified by @/90-ghost. Not only do he and his sister Nisreen have to deal with the stress of being medical students, they also constantly worry about their family’s wellbeing.
But you can help Firas’ family.
The main goals of their fundraiser are:
1) Paying their university fees by 1st August. They need about $6000 CAD before then.
2) Evacuating their family!
As of 28th July, they have about:
$4,200 CAD / $82,000 CAD.
Please show support to them. Their campaign has been progressing very slowly, so let’s give them hope! <3
![Donate to Help evacuate our family and complete our studying, organized by Firas Muhaisen](https://64.media.tumblr.com/ca99fed1f1aca077625147e1bf4eb8e8/3ef75c3f3f181cf0-bd/s540x810/09b330916aab204f82d6d677bfb97df57988a76f.jpg)
I need to say something and I need y'all to be calm
if it isn't actively bad or harmful, no representation should be called "too simple" or "too surface level"
I have a whole argument for this about the barbie movie but today I wanna talk about a show called "the babysitters club" on Netflix
(obligatory disclaimer that I watched only two episodes of this show so if it's super problematic I'm sorry) (yes. I know it's based on a book, this is about the show)
this is a silly 8+ show that my 9 year old sister is watching and it manages to tackle so many complex topics in such an easy way. basic premise is these 13 year old girls have a babysitting agency.
in one episode, a girl babysits this transfem kid. the approach is super simple, with the kid saying stuff like "oh no, those are my old boy clothes, these are my girl clothes". they have to go to the doctor and everyone is calling the kid by her dead name and using he/him and this 13 year old snaps at like a group of doctors and they all listen to her. it's pure fantasy and any person versed in trans theory would point out a bunch of mistakes.
but after watching this episode, my little sister started switching to my name instead of my dead name and intercalating he/him pronouns when talking about me.
one of the 13 years old is a diabetic and sometimes her whole personality is taken over by that. but she has this episode where she pushes herself to her limit and passes out and talks about being in a coma for a while because of not recognizing the limits of her disability.
and this allowed my 9 year old sister to understand me better when I say "I really want to play with you but right now my body physically can't do that" (I'm disabled). she has even asked me why I'm pushing myself, why I'm not using my crutches when I complain about pain.
my mom is 50 years old and watching this show with my sister. she said the episode about the diabetic girl helped her understand me and my disability better. she grew up disabled as well, but she was taught to shut up and power through.
yes, silly simple representation can annoy you if you've read thousands of pages about queer liberation or disability radical thought, but sometimes things are not for you.
Sorry for the ugliness of the view, or should I be the one sorry or the occupation? Of course, dear reader, you could not bear the ugliness of the scene, but what should I and my family say? We have been here since the third of December,
[ vertified by @nabulsi and elshabhussien , num.221 on fundraising list ! ]
![Sorry For The Ugliness Of The View, Or Should I Be The One Sorry Or The Occupation? Of Course, Dear Reader,](https://64.media.tumblr.com/0fe98838291c16785d3b9bfe2e2a68df/f267150328a384ea-4a/s640x960/e3711ab5bf7b604179361afe663df23bb6603211.jpg)
Note, the iron thing in the picture in the back is the primitive oven in which we bake our daily bread using firewood and plastic. CAN YOU IMAGINE ????!!!!!!! Is your food covered in sewage, urine and feces? Sorry for the words but this is crazy, I'm going to lose my mind!
We have been here since the third of December,in addition to the filth and waste, it explodes daily due to the presence of 30,000 thousand displaced people. It explodes and the place here is flooded with filth, sewage and dirt. It is definitely a hotbed of diseases. Why do I and my family have to live, sleep, eat and cook here?????? Do you see this little threshold? A few centimeters that separate us and it's not enough, a lot of insects and worms,If you go out with your shoes, they will get dirty and dirt will enter inside. We are inevitably stuck in dirt. Is there a decent person who would be satisfied with a life like this? I am tired. We are all exhausted by the disease. Everyone is here with yellow eyes and epidemic hepatitis. Everyone is like a zombie because of this tragic and inhuman situation in which we live. My family does not leave the bed due to the severity of illness and fatigue. [is there a bed? Of course NO, we sleep on the floor, specifically on dirt, but unfortunately we have begun... We get used to the tent like a house and we use its terminology. This habit and habituation is killing me. I cannot accept and do not want anyone to accept the humiliation we are experiencing Or try to beautify it in any way.]
If you would like to help even a little for my family, please do not hesitate for a moment. It is an unbearable situation. Our lives have been destroyed. Or you can help spread the link to our family to someone who might be able to help. Thank you for reading. Have a good day. At least someone should be happy today.
![Donate to Help the Qanou Family, organized by Bridget Pallas](https://64.media.tumblr.com/1aeb55b226b17f165ef7ecaa903d30a8/f267150328a384ea-a1/s1280x1920/abbd0271c4fbda48d55d3e7a8c20b25b720a0280.jpg)
![here’s a gofundme for menstrual kits in gaza! please share!! https://t.co/4MZp0mMpAk
— lou♡︎ seeing r+j (@zeglerlucys) June 16, 2024](https://64.media.tumblr.com/0b37c71d2c2449fe05104fe694a9de13/0fb498891599e3b7-2d/s500x750/38ee2339a886481315f5d6f129f8820f3b5d4aa7.jpg)
![Donate to Menstrual Care Kits for Women and Girls in Gaza, organized by DIYALA ABDLRASUL](https://64.media.tumblr.com/fb5f13a76518b96b416beeb84c74cd53/0fb498891599e3b7-7f/s500x750/19c80a5b9a95702eb6f6ae0a492984bf5946b61a.jpg)
Palestinian girls and women are forced to use tents as pads. People boost. Donate if you can
Can't express how stress free being open minded is.
Some lesbians use he/him? Oh cool.
Some people have people inside their head and sometimes it's fictional chars? Sick your brains like a pirate ship they're all working to run.
Some people like being treated like a pet dog? Bark bark bro.
Being fat isn't unhealthy but a perfectly normal type of body to have? Kinda beautiful how different we can all be.
Something doesn't make any fucking sense? Cool an opportunity to learn. And even if I can't figure it out it's cool we still have mysteries today.
to all trans women, transfems, non binary people, intersex people, genderqueer people and so on who are seeking estrogen HRT, please check out Transfeminine Science
this is an absolutely amazing resource for anyone seeking estrogen HRT for any reason. this website is absolutely chock full of empirical scientific data to help you learn more about how the hormones will affect your body, what dosages and formulations of estrogens can produce what results, anti-androgen medications, demasculinziation processes, and so much more. it comes straight from the source, so there is no awkward speculation: this is for the transfeminine community, by the transfeminine community:
![Transfeminine Science](https://64.media.tumblr.com/02f757ae3c68dbeccb0e61012b1f68e2/2b5483432b459e86-30/s400x600/09f72071ba4a142a4f3102cc3f3960adde67926d.png)
![To All Trans Women, Transfems, Non Binary People, Intersex People, Genderqueer People And So On Who Are](https://64.media.tumblr.com/63b9e6e3e580c9f6ee894d3da0e7aaff/2b5483432b459e86-19/s500x750/d3f49163985190840e71bafb9c118df82e557132.png)
![To All Trans Women, Transfems, Non Binary People, Intersex People, Genderqueer People And So On Who Are](https://64.media.tumblr.com/a24a79f55ee4babd55ea6e35a16f6c87/2b5483432b459e86-68/s500x750/6b3e30bb06d973053b623e0929711e074f54c45b.png)
![To All Trans Women, Transfems, Non Binary People, Intersex People, Genderqueer People And So On Who Are](https://64.media.tumblr.com/342612d31b3c50dd3df9cc01b52f2c70/2b5483432b459e86-dc/s500x750/699299c1c67094d1fbd8309c1665cef3ba9e80fd.png)
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this is so much more accurate than any guide i could ever hope to create for folks, so please feel free to read the numerous articles the site has to offer, this is a very informative collection of articles and resources that you do not have to go combing through google for.
I don't know which transfem needs to hear this but:
Thinness isn't sexiness.
Youth isn't sexiness.
Whiteness isn't sexiness.
Hairlessness isn't sexiness.
Society chooses what features of bodies get to be sexy and which ones don't. We don't have to follow those rules! Society used to think fatness was sexy once upon a time.
Please don't build your self-worth around what a patriarchal, heteronormative, white supremacist society thinks is beautiful. Love yourself, love your community because society at large wasn't looking out for you in the first place. Who gives a single, solitary fuck what they think.