My name is Haze, my pronouns are They/Any, chill-Millinial with Casual Fandom fixations.
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Dragons are so neat :3
The Practically Complete Guide to Dragons - D&D Cover by Clint Cearley via ImaginaryDragons
reblog to give a trans girl a grilled cheese sandwich
(keep in mind I only made six)
I wanted to answer this then it got mega long! (Lol)
Speaking as someone who discovered their Fluidness about 3 years ago, I've been having the same debate over and over. Surgery is a huge commitment, right? You gotta do what's right for **You** and not limit yourself to an Expected Aesthletic.
This concern is 100% valid, and I think a lot of NBs struggle with it. There is a procedure called a "Radical Reduction," I believe where you can go from what size you are down to an A-cup. The tissue is still there, just smaller and more manageable, and you could just tape up when you're feeling masculine for that period. Or, if you go the double mastectomy route (to guarantee no regrowth), you can have the stick-on silicone bitties that drag Queens tend to use for your feminine days if it'd help.
Your Top Surgey is Top Surgery because it's Yours. If someone wants to argue semantics, then it's a learn opportunity for them, isn't it?
What if there's regret? Mostly, we can chuck it up to that lizard brain trying to adjust to a big dramatic change. Some parts of our consciousness don't really accept or adapt to change easily, but after an adjustment period, that feeling will pass.
MOST IMPORTANTLY! You DO NOT owe the world or anyone else androgy just because your gender expression is a coin flip every morning. Do what's going to treat Your own personal experience.
As for the debate, if you actually really want this?
Consider the back pain you endure, a smaller chest could help relieve that pain and prevent arthritis in the future. Bra straps causing dents into your shoulders as well as discoloration depending how stressed that area is, thats not fun. The icky feeling you get on occasion, though flippant, its still uncomfortable and will hit your psychi harder over time. If people can get nose jobs, chest implants, facial reconstruction, etc., and get to feel better afterward, then you deserve that Pretty/Handsome feeling too!
If Sugery is still scary (Again. Valid.) there are queer centered exercises designed for reducing chest fat (which I'm considering for myself), and bulking up to a more ambiguous shape if that's your jam. You have so many options! I get that it's overwhelming, especially for the saving up part. But you got this! Do what you gotta do for your own experience as the little queerdo you are!
I hope this helped a little.
Im in constant debate on if I should get top surgery or not
tumblr tuesday: something something something, we win.
Everyone's being entirely normal about one scrunkly meow meow dad and his very gender sidekick 🤘
We've tried to be as spoiler-free as possible here, but if you haven't seen Nimona, go watch it and then come back for the pretty art, we promise you will have no regrets.
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There is. So. Much. Art. Here's the rest.
Spirit: Stallion of The Cimarron & the Indian Boarding Schools/Residential Schools allegory
I found this artist through my Deviant Art days! Look at these adorable character designs!
Happy pride! ~
Happy Pride Month!
Faust the Crow loves you even more than she did the last 2 years!
Hello My Fellow Dragon Age Nerds, I bestow my collection of PRIDE NUGGS! Go Forth and Conquer! Happy Pride Month!
Con O’Neill at MCM23
drew these for lesbian visibility week last year!
I didn't know they could do that. Huh.
I started reading this story a few years ago. The Artwork is absolutely stunning and SO Detailed. I love how vibrant the colors are. It's literal eye candy! And that was just on a screen, I can't wait until I see the tangible print!!
The character designs are incredible as well! The linework is so smooth, and emotional expressions are very spectacular. Each character has their own theme and are incredibly unique from one another. I still remember each character vividly, even when I haven't caught up in a couple years. I should track the webconic down and do that!
A Visual Caution or Trigger Warning: There are some Body Horror elements in this series, but such moments are far between. Also, Bullying Speech between characters at the very forefront of the comic.
🎉SO EXCITED🎉 to announce that Ava's Demon is FINALLY going into stores. After a decade of work, Barnes & Noble and my publisher, Skybound, are releasing this special edition Book One with a unique cover of Ava. A literal dream come true!! 😭🎉🎉🎉
You can pre-order your copy here for $16.19 (and be sure to leave a very cool review!!)
If you missed the kickstarters or couldn't afford them, this version is unique to Barnes and Noble, and honestly the cover is pretty special to me since it only features Ava (and -7- dragonflies). AND it comes with a really neat double-sided poster of Ava that you can preview on the Barnes & Noble website. Hopefully I will be at the nearest Barnes & Noble soon, signing copies for anyone in the Bay Area.
Special thank you to all the readers who have supported me for so long through kickstarter and patreon. It's been a wild journey but we finally made it!!! 🎉🎉🎉
lesbians love and support our trans sisters 💖💖
