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Sometimes Reading These Confessions Makes Me Sad, I Don't Know How The Idea Of You're Only Asexual/aromantic

Sometimes reading these confessions makes me sad, I don't know how the idea of you're only asexual/aromantic if you have absolutely nothing to do with romance/sexuality or shun parts of yourself or media that include elements of those two things. Ace/aro just means lack of sexual/romantic attraction, wanting to look attractive to other people or enjoying media with sex/romance or being okay with those aspects in a relationship shouldn't disqualify people from being aro/ace. It feels like the "gotchas" people use to say people aren't aro/ace are ingrained in people as standards to being aro/ace and its upsetting. I want to let everyone know that you can want to look attractive, want a relationship, want to know what sex/romance is like and consume media with those things and you'll still be aro and/or ace at the end of the day. That's not to say theres no sex/romance repulsed aros and/or aces. I'm one of them but I feel like people stereotype anyone identifying as aro/ace as that when it's not true.

Sorry about the long rant but I really care about the aro/aces here, you're accepted, you're valid and it's going to be okay.

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