And Remember That Consent Can Be Withdrawn At ANY TIME!!!

And remember that consent can be withdrawn at ANY TIME!!!

Started but not feeling it anymore? You can say no.

They want to do something you don’t want to do/aren’t comfortable with? Say no.

Wanted to try something new but no longer want to see it all the way through? SAY NO!

Consent is fucking important. Using your voice and advocating for yourself and your boundaries is fucking important.

Anyone who makes you feel or says otherwise is not worth your time and energy.

You do not owe your partner(s) sex. I mostly see this passed around in the asexual community, and it absolutely needs emphasis there, but this applies to anyone of any orientation. You never owe your partner(s) sex under any circumstance.

If your sex drive or libido is lower than your partner’s, you may feel obligated to “keep up” with them to make them happy. But you have a right to say no, or not be in the mood, or be too tired, or just not want to right now. Your partner(s) should respect your right to say no and your bodily autonomy.

If your partner(s) try to harass, manipulate, or coerce you into having sex when you say no, they’re an asshole. Having said yes in the past does not mean you can never say no. It is not your responsibility or obligation to provide sex. You do not need to violate your own boundaries to make someone else happy. Your partner(s) should respect your right to say no, and if they don’t, they don’t deserve you.

Your body belongs to you, and you decide what’s best for your sexual health. Happy Pride

Listening to Peter by Taylor Swift and just knowing that a year ago this song would have hurt you so much more than it does now because you had to leave them behind. You didn't have a choice. You were growing and they weren't and you couldn't be the only one trying anymore. It hurt too much to wait for them.

And at the same time it hurts in a completely different way now. It aches of healed wounds and time and perspective. You understand why and that you are in such a better place then you were at that point.

But you still wonder. The anger and sadness have dulled but you still revisit it. Wondering. Waiting. Questioning.

And a small part of you knows that you are never going to get those answers. That the why's and ifs and when's will always be there. But instead of haunting you, they are just whispers now.

And thats ok. You can handle the whispers - brush them off, even. But this song will always take you back to that place, that person. And it hurts, but you'll still smile.

Yeah, you'll still smile.

Listening to Peter by Taylor Swift and just knowing that a year ago this song would have hurt you so much more than it does now because you had to leave them behind. You didn't have a choice. You were growing and they weren't and you couldn't be the only one trying anymore. It hurt too much to wait for them.

And at the same time it hurts in a completely different way now. It aches of healed wounds and time and perspective. You understand why and that you are in such a better place then you were at that point.

But you still wonder. The anger and sadness have dulled but you still revisit it. Wondering. Waiting. Questioning.

And a small part of you knows that you are never going to get those answers. That the why's and ifs and when's will always be there. But instead of haunting you, they are just whispers now.

And thats ok. You can handle the whispers - brush them off, even. But this song will always take you back to that place, that person. And it hurts, but you'll still smile.

Yeah, you'll still smile.

Ok but should I send this to him? 👀

Me and who this spooky season? 👀👻

Breakups suck.

Bed never hurts you. Bed understands. Bed comforts you. Everyone should be like Bed

you know what never ceases to amaze me? bed time!!! bed time never disappoints