This Is It. This Is What The Pan Label Did To Bisexual People.

This is it. This is what the pan label did to bisexual people.

No matter how hard you all try to change the meaning of pansexuality, it will always stem out of misunderstanding bisexuality. It will always be the result of transphobia and a false belief that bisexuality is about being attracted to cis men and cis women. I hate this and I hate you all for forcing us to be ashamed of our identity.

women saying no to femininity is a show of power. women saying no to marriage is a show of power. women saying no to pornography and getting it banned is a show of power. women saying no to dating men is a show of power. women earning money for themselves is a show of power. women saying no to sex is a show of power.

this is why the men are outraged when women do any of this. they are the ones who lose. this is also why conformity in any of these is still, for the most part a concession to male power.

Huge trigger warning for this one