If U Get Uncomfortable During Periods Imagine All The Ways Ur F/o Would Comfort You!!!

If u get uncomfortable during periods imagine all the ways ur f/o would comfort you!!!

Cuddling with you whenever you ask for it because they know how much you need their presence rn

Soft and gentle touches, putting a hand over ur tum bc its warm and soft and you love it

Bringing your favorite comfort food! Nothing that would make cramps worse but just. Foods you enjoy a lot

Putting on your favorite movies while cuddling under 30 fluffy blankets, melting in their embrace. You basically fall asleep in their arms but they don’t care

If ur experiencing mood swings they get careful as to not be rude and always apologize if they make you cry no matter what they did because they know ur not feeling okay and that your emotions are going up to 280% atm

Bringing in a hot water bottle/hot gel compress/heating pad so ur cramps ease down a bit

If this makes you dysphoric they’ll keep saying how much of a great boyfriend/datemate u are because ur body is being a little bitch and they know it feels wrong™ so they try their best to assure you it has nothing to do with who you really are

Massages!!! Wherever your body aches most/wherever you like better. But usually on the space right under ur bellybutton; they knead on it like dough unless it hurts you too much but they try their best regardless

Bringing you comfy and big clothes (bonus if its theirs!!) so that you don’t have anything on that could make your cramps worse bc of tightness

Do you like stuffed animals bc they’ll bring you all your favorites for you to hug very tight!

Just. Generally being sweet, tender and adorable with you because they know you hate everything when you’re like this so they want you to feel okay with yourself again

If you happen to be on ur periods together they’ll be cuddling up to you 10x harder bc your presence makes them feel like themselves again if it makes them feel wrong

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Imagine your f/o comforting you while you cry. You hate crying, especially around other people. It makes you feel terrible. Your f/o immediately picked up on your emotions, pulling you into their arms and shielding you from the outside world. They allow you to let it all out, whispering reassuring words and phrases to you as they stroke the back of your head gently.

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Imagine your parental f/o finding out about some trauma and/or disorder after unintentionally triggering you. Imagine their heart shattering into pieces when they realise how hurt you feel.

trust me, I was scared too

(but you’re a puddle now so I guess I did a good job??) (you are hereby excused)

Imagine your F/O… but imagine them flawless.

Their dorky rambles you can’t help but pay close attention to, even if you have no idea what they’re about? Nope. The smirk you love so much, perhaps that chuckle of theirs? Forget it. All of those little “imperfections”: their tragic past, their cockiness, their flawed looks? None of that.

Except… It feels wrong now. This isn’t your F/O; this is a mundane, stereotypical, so-horribly-wrong shell.

You didn’t fall in love with a perfect being because your F/O is perfect to you. It’s a beautiful thing, isn’t it? To feel such a dedicated, yearning, unrelenting love for someone with their flaws, not despite them. Even if they can’t see it in themselves, you’d never dream of them being a regret or a mistake. Your F/O is just so imperfectly them.

… So why would your F/O ever wish for a “flawless” you?

Yes, all that was said about them in the paragraphs above applies to you. No matter how hard it may be to believe it, your F/O wants you with all your “burdens”. They want you through breakdowns and panic attacks, through triggers and relapses. They want to be your comfort, your light in the darkness, your strength.

They’re just so happy they get the honor of being with their beloved, someone who is so imperfectly you.

Imagine your parental f/o(s) singing Graham’s Lullaby (King’s Quest) to you…

I’m a minor, and I have an f/o who is a minor, but what will I do when I become a legal adult and, in canon, their still a minor? Sorry if this is a weird ask

(You don’t have to feel bad for sending a “weird” ask! It’s a genuine question, you and the people who might be reading this are free to ask as many as you want.)

This is a question I’ve had to face various times before, actually. In all honesty, I’m also a minor (under 16), so I just wanna clarify that I don’t have any experience or solid answers for you, sorry. However, this is what I do know:

“Adulting” isn’t an overnight thing. It depends on the age of your F/O, but it’s pretty understandable to have someone who has very recently turned 18 still having feelings for a character that is 16 or 17, y’know? (As the age gap grows, however, it gets problematic. You’ve probably already witnessed the discourse yourself.)

I know this seems like the unfavorable option, but keep in mind that your opinion could change. Maybe you’ll love them differently once you're older and become more aware of the age difference (again, depending on your F/O’s age) or your feelings will naturally fade.

Once you’re older, you could also try to move this F/O into another position that isn’t romantic, such as seeing them in a more platonic light. Remember that friendships and (found) familial ties can be just as important as the romantic ones; you wouldn’t be changing the fact that you love this character, you’d just be changing how.

In my experience (especially if your coming-of-age is gonna be in over a year from now), I tried to think about it as little as possible. In the end, self-shipping shouldn’t be anxiety-inducing, but a part of your life that makes you happy. Things are going to be changing, and it’s alright to relax and let the current take you where it wants to go sometimes, as long as you’re not hurting anybody or yourself.

Yup, that’s my answer… sorry if it was less than you were expecting. Anyone who sees this and wants to reply with their own opinions/advice is free to do so!