If U Get Uncomfortable During Periods Imagine All The Ways Ur F/o Would Comfort You!!!

If u get uncomfortable during periods imagine all the ways ur f/o would comfort you!!!

Cuddling with you whenever you ask for it because they know how much you need their presence rn

Soft and gentle touches, putting a hand over ur tum bc its warm and soft and you love it

Bringing your favorite comfort food! Nothing that would make cramps worse but just. Foods you enjoy a lot

Putting on your favorite movies while cuddling under 30 fluffy blankets, melting in their embrace. You basically fall asleep in their arms but they don’t care

If ur experiencing mood swings they get careful as to not be rude and always apologize if they make you cry no matter what they did because they know ur not feeling okay and that your emotions are going up to 280% atm

Bringing in a hot water bottle/hot gel compress/heating pad so ur cramps ease down a bit

If this makes you dysphoric they’ll keep saying how much of a great boyfriend/datemate u are because ur body is being a little bitch and they know it feels wrong™ so they try their best to assure you it has nothing to do with who you really are

Massages!!! Wherever your body aches most/wherever you like better. But usually on the space right under ur bellybutton; they knead on it like dough unless it hurts you too much but they try their best regardless

Bringing you comfy and big clothes (bonus if its theirs!!) so that you don’t have anything on that could make your cramps worse bc of tightness

Do you like stuffed animals bc they’ll bring you all your favorites for you to hug very tight!

Just. Generally being sweet, tender and adorable with you because they know you hate everything when you’re like this so they want you to feel okay with yourself again

If you happen to be on ur periods together they’ll be cuddling up to you 10x harder bc your presence makes them feel like themselves again if it makes them feel wrong

This post was made by trans dude gang :^)

if you have trauma or anything negative related to thanksgiving (or any holiday for that matter), your f/o(s) very much understands. they won't judge you for feeling this way around the holiday.

they gently coax you to eat and drink water if you haven't. in fact, they'll cook for you; your favorite comfort foods rather than the typical holiday foods if need be! they may even suggest cooking together, as it could be a good distraction. but of course, it's okay if you can't.

if you're having trouble getting out of bed, they'll help you get out. need cuddles first? they'll cuddle you for a while. need to literally be pulled out? they'll gladly take your hand and help you up. need help cleaning yourself? getting dressed? anything you need, they'll more than gladly help you.

at the end of the day, they don't mind that you need help. even if it's a lot. even if it's just normal, everyday things. regardless, they know you're capable of making it through hard days, and by god they'll be there to help you and make sure you do. making it through another day and them getting to see your beautiful, smiling face again is more than worth it to them.

your f/o(s) loves you so dearly, no matter what.

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(pr0sh1ppers dni i'll hunt you down)

Imagine your f/o comforting you while you cry. You hate crying, especially around other people. It makes you feel terrible. Your f/o immediately picked up on your emotions, pulling you into their arms and shielding you from the outside world. They allow you to let it all out, whispering reassuring words and phrases to you as they stroke the back of your head gently.

me: Welp, time to write S/I into my first selfship fic with F/O! Can’t wait to see how fluffy it’s going to turn out!

~ one… fic… later… ~

me: As it turns out, S/I is barely breathing because of a stab wound and F/O is covered in their blood as they sob S/I’s name.

Imagine your parental f/o(s) singing Graham’s Lullaby (King’s Quest) to you…

Sleep disordered self shippers: your F/O’s get it.

I know, one of the biggest issues with sleep disorders is that not a lot of people ‘get it’- we get a lot of criticism for being ‘lazy’, when in reality it couldn’t be farther from the truth.

Your F/O’s would give those people a piece of their mind.

They see you every morning, struggling to wake up. They give you soft kisses and gently rub your back to keep you from dozing off again. They’ll say “Good morning” as many times as they need to.

They see you having sleep attacks, head dipping, losing balance in your chair. They’ll carry you to a couch or your bed before you get hurt. They want nothing but the best for you, and they don’t see it as an inconvenience. They never will.

They see you struggle with basic tasks, whether from executive dysfunction or just plain old fatigue. They’re always willing to help, but they know it can feel infantilizing at times- they always ask first, and never assume you’re incapable. Because you are capable! Your body is just stubborn.

So to those people that try to call you lazy, they say: “Fuck off. You don’t know them like I do. You have no right to judge them without understanding their struggle. They’re not lazy, and you can eat your words.”

(This was written with narcolepsy/chronic fatigue in mind but anyone can rb or add to this- even if you don’t have sleep disorders, you may relate to the scenario, and that’s valid!)