Byleth & Sothis

Byleth & Sothis

POV: You are Dimitri Alexandre Blaiddyd of Faerghus

I thought the community was way more relaxed about this… but if it really is like that then yes please accept people how they are please, it‘s kind of the point of this community existing, afterall

the aromantic community is really alienating to anyone who isnt the perfect aromantic

for one, they have to be asexual. they also have to be alloplatonic. they have to hate romance. they have to hate shipping. they have to think friendship is inherant to the experience of life. they have to be aplphobic, intentionally or not.

hi, i'm an aromantic who loves romance and shipping. this doesnt mean i hate being aromantic. i'm also asexual and alloplatonic! but just because i support aroallos and aplatonics, i feel uncomfortable in the aromantic community and aromantic spaces.

i know and love aplatonics, aroallos and non repulsed aromantics. and the aro community revolves around friendship and sex repulsion (specifically the aroace community, which seems to think it's the only aromantic experience) and romance repulsion.

i would also like to mention that the asexual community is the same about alloaces, and of course theres the aroace overlap where they all hate apls.

being aroace while not being repulsed and not being aplphobic is alienating. it fucking shouldn't be. accept that some of us have a different experience and some of us don't think friendship is universal or inherant to the aromantic experience. does any of this make sense.

Every fictional character is aroace til' proven otherwise

(Source: I said so)

Love you even more 💖