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7 Difficult Things About Being an INFP

There are certainly many great things about being an INFP personality type. We’re highly creative individuals who inspire others. We have a rich inner world that allows us to escape the dryness of a life filled with routine and structure.

We show an amazing amount of compassion for others, despite being so different from the rest of the population. We’re deeply sensitive and caring, and the best part is that we usually don’t expect anything from anyone in return.

Yet, I feel there are a few challenges to being an INFP. Here are seven of them. INFPs, can you relate?

1. Never really being able to finish anything you start

We live in a world of endless possibilities, and we INFPs always want to explore something new. We are often good at starting something, but we are rarely able to finish as we expected — or worse, never at all.

If I were to write a list of things that I had started but left incomplete, I wonder if even that list would be completed. I have enrolled in tons of online courses over the years but I haven’t completed a single one. I barely finish any book I buy, and I don’t think I’ve ever watched a full season of any TV series.

I know our souls don’t know a thing about deadlines, but unfortunately, our bosses and professors do.

I was quite excited when I started out writing this article, but I feel really lucky to have completed it.

2. Not being assertive enough

When we’re alone, we often find ourselves playing a conversation with our best friend in our head, but when he or she shows up, we go quiet.

We have a rich inner world where we often speculate about ideal possibilities. But sometimes it acts more like a cage and prevents the words within us from finding their way out.

We are not assertive enough when it really matters, even if we were really excited and motivated going into the situation.

For example, I find it impossible to study the day before an exam even when I have not yet studied anything. I had not even started my physics project till the day before the submission deadline, but even on that day, I barely did anything. I am not much different from my peers, except that they do study the day before the exam, and they do complete the project before the deadline.

We usually procrastinate till the end, but even at the final moment, we make most of our decisions by either thinking, “Just let it go” or “Let’s see what happens.”

3. Over-planning or no planning at all

There are times when we check out every single book on a subject from the library, bookmark every single article available on the web, and watch every single video on YouTube. But we end up being confused and simply can’t figure out how to start planning our next travel adventure or writing our novel. Then we finally realize that this over-research was simply a way of procrastinating.

And there are times when we simply go with our gut feeling, with little or no planning at all. We simply move forward without caring about the details (thanks to our focus on the big picture), only to realize that we should have done a bit of research beforehand.

I wish I could be in the middle of this spectrum, but unfortunately, I often end up being on either extreme.

4. Offering compassion to people who don’t care about you

I don’t understand why I worry about inconveniencing the store clerk when he simply refuses to hear me. I don’t understand why I feel sorry for the professor who is correcting my not-so-perfect assignment who never seemed to care about my education.

I never understand why I feel guilty when I do not buy something from a salesperson (just because he used a few cute words), even though I know that it’s his job, and he just cares about his own profit.

5. Spending your energy constantly validating yourself instead of focusing on your goals

I don’t know how many I times I just keep telling myself that what I’m doing is okay, and I should not bother if someone does not like my idea. We INFPs sometimes move through a cycle of constant self-approval instead of working our way toward our goals.

For example, I want to start my own location-independent business rather than go to college. I know that in order to do that, I’ll need to develop some skills. I had this thought about four months ago, and a month later, I enrolled in college.

I have not taken any steps to start my business because I spend my time reassuring myself that I’m on the right track and I should just focus on the present. Today, I am exactly where I started. Had I focused on developing the relevant skills, I wouldn’t be enrolling for the next semester.

6. Worrying about helping others when the one who you should be helping is yourself

Even when we have no idea how we’ll pay our rent, we feel sorry for not giving money to a homeless person our own way home from being fired from our job.

I simply wish I could just let go when I come across moments when I find someone asking for help. But my highly sensitive soul simply doesn’t allow me to do so.

7. Having high standards but a low self-esteem

We think that we should be a Pulitzer Prize-winning author, but we do not want to enroll in a writing course because we feel we do not deserve that sort of luxury.

We think we should be able to code the next Facebook, but we are afraid of even trying to learn to code, because we feel we are not worth it.

We realize we need many things to achieve that “something,” but we feel unworthy of anything.

And that’s the only reason we feel like we’ve never achieved anything. Our high standards often backfire and lead us nowhere.

Despite all of theses problems, I love being an INFP. I just often find myself laughing at myself and wondering what on earth I am.

Source - Kumar Shashwat, IntrovertDear.com

“Sometimes your silence hurts me more than your words ever could”

—Siona Valentine

Feel blessed that we can attend this exhibition aaaaaaaaaaaaa HAPPY BORNDAY, KIM WONPIL💕 #HappyWonpilDay

#HappyWonpilDay

To celebrate Wonpil’s birthday, a MYDAY fanbase MyDayTeamId (ig/twitter @mydayteamid) held a photo exhibition titled “Youth With Wonpil” today and I got a chance to visit it along with @monologuest

Here some pictures we took! (sorry for the poor quality I am Dumb)

We also got freebies!

The event was free, but limited only for +/- 150 visitors and we were lucky to get the ticket!

It was fun. Shout out to the fanbase and fans whose photos were exhibited!

Happy birthday, Kim Wonpil, our sunshine! ☀

#HappyWonpilDay

I've just won a give away and wish this is the one of my best day.

WHY JJE IS SO KYUD omfg im cryin

And why my sister's playlist suddenly playing day6's? Ewwwwww is this my destiny lol

Why u tag me again ugh....okay lezgedid.

Say hi to my Jae lets say this picture was taken at our last lunch date EHEHEHEHEHE life is so wonderful and what kyungsoo says is 'fuck you' i guess? 👻

"I'LL CATCH YOU BEFORE YOU SNATCH ME," is one of my favorites line on Hunt big thanks to Day6 aye aye!

Not tagging anyone bcs i only kno u lol

taaaaaaag

tagged by @bang-bang-banged lol i love tags so much but i ain’t got enough friends to tag back smh

let me tell y'all, im a really Basic Bitch and that picture of youngk brightens my day phone. Also idk why i saved that kermit frog i am Ashamed ok bye

Also stan Heize!!!!!!!!

Tagging only @monologuest so she can brag about her new lock screen lol bye

Yea and i can past this midtest week with hmmm hmmmmmmmmmm I wish I get a great score bcs I still believe that Im not that perfect at least i've tried.

AAAAAAND its time to having fun with ma boooooooi aye aye utube and vlive I'm coming mwah

OMG WHY THEY'RE s-s-so cute:((((((( Someone please tell me how to take a proper breath...............

Youngk won a bet, so Sungjin had to give him a piggyback ride during the ending :’)

He’s fighting the freaking bumblebee with a chair I can’t 😂

From one to no one tags

AAAAAAND here i come to play another tagtagtagtags game im really bad at this tbh but im still tryin and to improve my english actually hohoho yea im fool

1.) are you named after anyone?

Idk whats on my moms mind when she named me ehe why my name used to named baby boys ugh my mom told me that my dad want to had a baby boy is that the reason? hm i guess not lol

2.) when was the last time you cried?

Hm.............lets say that i forgot:>

3.) do you have any kids?

Kittens are kids too right? huhu but i don have one:(

4.) do you use sarcasm a lot?

:) (: :> <:

5.) eye color?

Not sure but.......dark brown? or black? will anyone look into my eyes, please?:)

6.) scary movie or happy ending?

Scary movie with happy ending? eheheheheh

7.) any special talents?

I can read your mind be careful oh wtf im thinkin rn

8.) where were you born?

Somewhere over the rainbow~

9.) do you have any hobbies?

Sleeping. Take a nap. Listen to music. Repeat how useless u r

10.) do you have any pets?

I was. Now i wish i had one:(

11.) what sports have you / do you play?

I LOVE RUNNING! running away from reality hehehehehehe

12.) how tall are you?

Yea im tall enough

13.) favorite subject in school?

Math? wohoo im genius yea

14.) dream job?

Translator? but im very bad at another language alien language i mean lol

15.) mutuals?

just my only one lovely nunniena @ryncorrect

does anyone want to be friends with me here hello welcome to my world! yea nice to know you guys ur welcome!

Why

Still almost 7:00 AM but why ppl become so fuckin damn bitch annoying omg what should i do cant i trust someone oh men i hate ppl why

♡ ♡

sungjin :: soundtrack

i present to u…… chaotic6?

Alphabet burger tag?

No no no. It’s a alphabet soup tag but i like burger more

Tagged by my only one uwus and i don have any idea about what i should write here ck.

Rules: Answer these in a new post and tag 10 people you would like to know better.........but i have nobody but her @ryncorrect​

A- Age: want to be forever 5 but my mom said 22

B- Birthplace: hospital ofc

C- Current time: Ng...15.30 GMT+7

D- Drink you had last: water? Or baby's blood? ngahahah

E- Easiest person to talk to: myself ehehehehe

F- Favorite song: EXO’s Universe and DAY6′s Letting Go are my ult. EXO’s Wait and Good Night also DAY6′s I’ll Try for my lullaby ugh actually i forgot the other song lol

G- Grossest memory: my life is full of gross memories ehe

H-Hogwarts house: I lived in Konoha

I- in love: with Jae? Sungjin? Depends on the situation:)

J- Jealous of people?: I’m an angel i don hate people don trust me i’m the best liar

K- Killed people: not.....yet

L-Love at first sight, or should i walk again?: better sleep

M- Middle name: darling lol someone kill me please

N- number of siblings: one lil sister and one lil bro

O- one wish: live blessed

P-Person you last called: one of my friend, wake her up

Q- question you are always asked: why i do this to me hohoho

R- reason to smile: you, guys ehey

S- song you last sang: CBX’s Playdate I’LL TAKE YOU ON A PLAYDATE U N I U N I U N I~~~~~

T- time you woke up: at 5 AM then sleep again 8 or 9 AM till 12

U- underwear color: don wear any HAHA not gonna tell u

V- vacation destination: prefer stay at home but Japan or travel around Indonesia is not bad

W-Worst habit: if fall a sleep 10 minutes after start to studying is a worst habit then it is lol

X- X-rays: i have no brain:)

Y- your favorite food: i like almost every food but prefer starve then eat food that contain Parkia speciosa. in Indonesia called Pete, or Petai

Z- Zodiac sign: Capricorn aye aye

tagging.......no one bcs i don kno anybodys here except my nuna when she should be called as eonnie hello anybodys here!

Awy-y-yea.......

Hello 999 I need your help

Touch Me // Park Sungjin one shot

Park Sungjin x Reader

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