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Peter: Croissants: dropped. Harley: Road: works ahead. Shuri: BBQ sauce: on my titties. Morgan: Shavacado: fre Peter: Miss Keisha? Peter, Harley, Shuri, and Morgan: Fucking dead. Tony: … Tony: I don’t know what any of that means, but you’re all grounded for saying the f-word.
Most people who like Lizzie only like her for her music and most of her fans are female soooo... yeah.
Don’t get me wrong Lizzo’s great and I appreciate her music. That being said, liking an artist doesn’t automatically mean you’re attracted to them. Also, a lot of thinner female musicians are still doing pretty good so you initial comment about the “skinny bitches” is invalid. Maybe you should just be comfortable with your own body and stop putting down other people because they aren’t shaped like fucking circles.
Plus size girls are winning!
Lizzo’s success proves that now you gotta be plus size to make it big in music. All these skinny bitches no longer have a chance. Men and women love plus size girls now and they prefer to listen to music made by them.
We did it ladies! Plus size is the official new beauty standard. Lizzo broke barries and made plus size mainstream in music and in the world. She’s the biggest artists out right now and you can’t deny it. We’ve never seen anything like this before. Ladies, don’t fuss about losing weight, men love all your curves.
Just thought this was kinda important.
Real talk
Straight people aren’t the problem, homophobes are
Cis people aren’t the problem, transphobics are
White people arent the problem, racists are
Regular Americans aren’t the problem, Trump and his administration are
Men aren’t the problem, misogyny and rapists are
Think before you blame the majority of people that exist.
Yo look at this Wampa I found (at Abbeville County, South Carolina) https://www.instagram.com/p/BuPsdG0BBKT/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1ez161v6lrasq
My friend fell asleep on the bus to Disney
Holy Macarena!
N U N R A V E
after jefferson was elected, hamilton moved upstate and decided he wanted to start a vegetable garden. having no idea how to go about tending plants, he wrote to a friend of his, agriculture expert richard peters. this letter began
“in this new situation, for which I am as little fitted as Jefferson [is] to guide the helm of the U. States, i come to you as an adept in rural science for instruction”
You do realize that most normal people think being anorexic is just as unhealthy as being overweight or obese and view them in the same light. The only difference is that most people talk to people suffering from anorexia in a more sensitive manner because they are usually suffering from other mental health issues that cause their anorexia such as feeling unloved or unwanted; however, fat people eat a lot and never attempt to exercise hard to manage their weight and get upset when people love them and feel “oppressed” when they are too fat to fit in an airplane seat or sit in regular chairs.
-My Own Worst Enemy
Anorexic:
-Fasts for 48 hours
-Constantly smoke cigarettes for weight loss
-Overdoses on laxatives
-Purges by regurgitation
Fatphobes: ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Fat girl:
-excerises
-Eats the reccomend amount of calories
-Eats healthy food
- Literally just eats one pizza
Fatphobes: God you’re so uNheAlThY!!! Why don’t you eat a fucking salad, fatty!!
^^ Shit like this is one of the primary reasons why weight loss eating disorders exist in the first place
I don’t know there’s something pretty great about being healthy enough to run 5ks to me. There’s nothing wrong with making your child eat healthy food. So you should stop telling people how to raise their children
PSA: Stop pushing diet-culture and weight loss onto children!
Dieting and talking about weight loss both lead to increased risk of developing obesity and eating disorders.
Nothing good comes of pushing diet-culture and fatphobia on children.
So just…don’t, okay?
Thank you for this common sense.
It is not “fatphobic” to be charged more for large clothing. It is not “fatphobic” to suggest weight loss. It is not “fatphobic” to help someone realize how much they overeat. It is not “fatphobic” to talk about nutrition. It is not “fatphobic” to encourage a healthy BMI. It is not “fatphobic” to dismiss the “genetic obesity” lie. It is not “fatphobic” to dismiss the “starvation mode” lie. It is not “fatphobic” to suggest following a lower calorie diet. It is not “fatphobic” to dismiss any and all fat logic and enabling behavior. It is not “fatphobic” of your doctor to correctly assess your health and suggest weight loss if you are overweight or obese, or for them to deny performing a surgery due to your weight. Doctors are held liable and obese patients are high risk.
You are healthy at a healthy size. Not all sizes are healthy.
Being fat is not healthy. Call it what you will- fat, overweight, obese. BEING FAT IS NOT HEALTHY. EVER. Stop encouraging others to overeat. Stop encouraging others to neglect their bodies. If you sell people the lies you’ve been selling yourself all you’re doing is promoting self harm, a slew of dangerous health complications, and early deaths.
If you’re happy with yourself, keep your fat logic, delusional concepts, and lies to yourself. Dig your own grave, not the graves of others.
They seem like harmless jokes because that’s what they are.
Brooklyn nine-nine
Ok, so I know I’m going to lose followers for this, but I need to say this.
First off, I really like watching Brooklyn nine-nine. It’s super inclusive, it’s funny, and the plot is interesting and engaging. It’s great to have a show with a with two LGBTQ+ characters of color, one of whom is the head of the precinct, and I’m glad it’s been renewed.
But…
The show is really fatphobic. REALLY fatphobic. There are two fat characters, who are terrible cops, creeps, and portrayed as animals. All they do is eat, they creep on the women in the office, they don’t do their jobs, they are unintelligent, and did I mention they only care about food?
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“Why don’t you just split it in half?”
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“Oh we already ate…”
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“Ask Amy if she wants to come over!”
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Overall, they are just displayed as pigs and horrors to be around.
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And those are just the ones I found on a YouTube video called “the best of Hitchcock & Scully|Brooklyn Nine-nine”.
These might seem like harmless jokes, but they are jokes making fun of fat people as a whole. And thought these are the only two main overweight characters, there is not a single overweight character on the show who isn’t portrayed negatively. There’s an episode where an overweight man is murdered, and jake makes jokes about him being fat the entire episode, and there’s an episode where Terry starts stress eating chocolate, becomes overweight fairly quickly, and is suddenly transformed from a confident, authority figure in the precinct to someone problematic(that is, until he stops eating the chocolate and magically becomes buff again).
Again, I really do enjoy watching Brooklyn Nine-Nine, but this is something we should be talking about, not just writing off. Just because a show has lgbtq and POC representation doesn’t mean we can’t critique it when necessary.
I can only pray this is satire because if it’s not then the irony of what you said and the hashtags flew right over your head.
Don't you get sick of looking at thin white women 24/7 365? Cos I do
So wanting your children to live long healthy lives at the expense of giving up some of what they like is abuse? Sounds to me like teaching them responsibility.
many parents who abuse their children do so bc they think it’s best, or it’s all they know. parents who beat their kids may genuinely believe that to spare the rod is to spoil the child… but they’re abusers nonetheless.
likewise, good intentions and ignorance don’t hold up as excuses for weight-based child abuse.
to restrict a child’s access to food in an attempt to control their weight, to force or coerce heavier children into exercise that they hate, to make critical comments about their bodies (using medicalized language or not), or to in any other way attempt to manipulate or shame them for their natural body size – these constitute abuse.
there was a time when doctors would also have advocated beating children, and the culture in general supported it. we’re in a time (hopefully not for much longer) when doctors and the culture at large support weight-based abuse. but it is parents who ultimately decide how to treat their children, and it’s on them that the final responsibility falls.
abuse that is well-meant is abuse nonetheless; damage to children is not mitigated by a parent’s genuine conviction that their own behavior is justified. if you disagree w me, consider that you may be trained to see fat kids as incapable of being hurt, or even as deserving harm.
You must not know what revolutionary means It’s not like there weren’t fat people before now
The act of simply enjoying life as a fat woman is revolutionary. Everyone expects you to hate yourself and to be full of a desire to meet their imagined level of adequacy. When you actively refuse to loathe your body and your life, you draw the line in the sand. You demonstrate that you will not allow yourself to be dehumanized and controlled.
You’re kidding me right. Wanting to stay in shape is in no way hateful or cruel; you’re just taking things to personaly. Also if all your friends are striving not to look like you, they are not the problem. you are
That’s so sad Alexa play Despacito.
As a fat person who is rarely ever complimented for my physical looks (aside from acceptable compliments for fat people), it drives me absolutely fucking bonkers when conventionally attractive people fish for compliments from me. They’ve got a whole society that worships their body type and tells them that they’re inherently amazing, just for being born with a good metabolism and no hormonal (or other specific health) issues. But they’re gonna come to me and tell me how they don’t look good, or they feel ugly, or no one loves them, and I’m supposed to make them feel better. I just want to tell them to open a fucking magazine, or turn on the tv. You’ll get to see virtually every person there looking similar to you. I didn’t see a positive role model (ie. not the butt of fat jokes) that was beautiful and funny and successful and that never had their body questioned and who looked like me till I saw Melissa McCarthy in The Heat (came out in 2013, fyi). I’ve never seen clothing models built like me till last week when I found the GRRRL clothing line (plus size models for most fashion companies are acceptable fat, ie. big boobs and ass, barely a stomach, thick but not too thick legs). As a kid, I never dreamed of being a princess because the only people who looked like me in Disney films were evil, or side characters who took care of the princess. If conventionally attractive people are looking for a partner, they don’t have to worry about being fetishized, they can be loved for themselves, and their partner won’t be questioned as to HOW or WHY they can love them. Their relationship will not have to be justified or explained, they will not face questions of “so… Like, [the fat partner] is never on top, right?” or “doesn’t it kinda ruin the sex when you can’t just move [the fat partner] around?”. They won’t be the running joke among their friends. If both partners are fat, they get even more wonderful bullshit to deal with. When dating, conventionally attractive people won’t be accused of lying or misrepresenting themselves if they don’t post a full body picture and show up to a date fatter than what the date anticipated. Their bodies do not need to come with disclaimers. I can count the number of times my former partners told me I’m beautiful without a “but” following it (3. With a “but” following it; 5). I remember almost every compliment given to me by friends that was explicitly about my physical appearence and that didn’t skirt around me being fat (there’s acceptable ways to compliment a fat person. Ie. You have a nice face/personality, that clothing is slimming on you, you look healthy, etc. I’m tempted to include cute, but I’m on the fence about that one) I’m tired of being the bastion of self love, confidence, and body positivity for people whose only barrier in the way of their own self love and confidence is themselves. I didn’t have anyone to push me to this point where I can love myself and others completely, regardless of size. The only reason I am the way I am is because I’ve made myself this way, facing a society that’s continuously told me it’s wrong to be happy and love myself as I am.
Common sense at it’s finest
Me: Anorexia is a disease.
Fat Acceptance Advocate: Amen!
Me: Anorexia is not attractive.
FAA: Fuck, no, it's not!
Me: Not eating enough is not healthy.
FAA: Completely true!
FAA: Get those women some cheeseburgers!
Me: It is completely possible to recover from anorexia and get to a healthy weight, and maintain it!
FAA: Yaaaassss, help those skinny bitches!
Me: Obesity is a disease.
FAA: The fuck did you just say?
Me: Obesity is not attractive.
FAA: Wow, that's fucking cruel.
Me: Over-eating is unhealthy.
FAA: You don't know shit about my metabolism.
FAA: Weight and food aren't connected!
Me: It is completely possible to lose weight and get to a healthy weight and maintain it!
FAA: ALL DIETS FAIL.
FAA: YOUR WEIGHT LITERALLY CANNOT CHANGE.
FAA: YOU ARE A FATPHOBIC BITCH.
FAA: FUCKING DELETE YOUR BLOG.
This has got to be the most nonsensical thing I’ve ever heard; how stupid can you be? Even if it were true that skinny people eat more than fat people on average it’s most likely because skinny people who work to stay fit work hard to maintain their bodies, so they need to eat more to make up for the calories they lost while doing that work.
I have no problem with fat people or being fat but I do have a problem with people spewing bullshit and trying to discredit other people’s hard work because they don’t want to work hard to lose weight themselves.
Additionally don’t say there are many scientific studies that back up your point if you can’t site that research.
Thin people actually think they’ve ‘earned’ their bodies. They honestly believe their thinness is a product of their own hard work, restriction of food and exercise. People who were just born thin, eat a normal diet and go to yoga twice a week think that that’s what it takes, and cannot fathom that there are fat people out there doing the same amount of exercise or more, eating the same or (in a lot of cases) a more restrictive diet and yet remain fat.
When offered a brownie thin person would joke “oh you want me to get fat” (let’s not even touch on how they think it’s somehow bad), but they honestly think eating a brownie or liking sweets and having them every day would actually make them fat.
Like, honey, you’re a size two. You can live off brownies for a month and not move and you’ll gain at best a couple of pounds. That’s how your body works. Some bodies work like that. Others don’t.
There’s a scientific study out there that found that thin people on average eat more than fat people. Yet they remain thin. They work office jobs, and go to yoga twice a week, or they’ve romanticized going to gym for a booty blasting workout and they think that this is the hard work they’re puttig in, and that if they stop, they will pretty much overnight, automatically rocket into size 20.
Even though there are plenty examples of thin people not liking exercise while being foodies and remaining thin, they will still claim that ‘it all burns off in the hard work of taking pictures for Instagram’. Or some shit. They continue to eat fast food on the same exact rate as fat people, and they drink alcohol, which is extremely high in calories, yet they think that yoga and kale salad and a smoothie the next day solve all their problems, and fat people are just too unintelligent and lazy to do exactly that.
There are thin people being foodies and hating exercise and drinking and temaining thin, and there are thin people being gymrats and counting calories and being vegan and remaining thin and thin people an mass still don’t see anything contradictory to their gospel in those kinds of thin people coexisting, while completely disproving everything we are told about diets. It’s not about a diet, diets don’t work.
Models will claim in interviews that they have to restrict themselves severely and workout dawn till dusk just to keep up the rare body type the lottery of genes has granted them and has no intention of taking away, workout or no workout. And then they die of malnourisment.
Thin people turn to fat people and tell them to follow the diet and workout for years, because they believe, ultimately, that all the body types stem from one thin one, or a couple of types of a thin one, so there must be a way to reach it. If they have that body type naturally, they feel entitled, they feel like they tried hard enough to reach it, even if by doing virtually nothing, and other fat people are not trying hard enough.
It’s akin to a person born rich telling a poor person to try harder to win the lottery of capitalism. I’m not even talking about billionaires, it’s the same mindset in upper middle class, who believe that by being born, stepping into all the doors that are open to them and literally not bankrupting themselves in a system built to prevent that, they’ve done some hard labour and deserve that pat on the back, and a brownie, that’s their guilty pleasure, alongside cocaine or some shit.
It’s an untrue, entitled mindset that’s harmful for everyone involved, including models and thin people who feel guilty for eating, and to fat people who often themselves think the same way, that if they work hard enough, they can win the lottery of genetics.
And it takes so much hard work to break free from that mindset.
me, seeing thanos turning all my faves into dust: it can’t get any worse, right?
peter parker: i don’t want to go..
me:
