So. About Boobs.

So. About boobs.

I really want to know if me feeling uncomfortable about having these things is a dysphoria thing or a misogyny thing.

Because honestly, I thought for the longest time that people who really like having boobs were a myth and that everyone just wishes to have them gone sometimes.

I also felt insecure about wearing crop tops for so long because of ✨️society✨️ so how do I know if my problem with my chest isn't the sane as that?

..yeah. Would love some input from cis women, trans woman who have boobs or just anyone who is comfy with them.

✨️Tiddies✨️

My neighbors cat just gave birth right next to me?? Her owner lives literally 5 meters away. She's completely fine with me touching her babies and is now in a corner of the garden and demands cuddles. I love this cat but dude

The dog I'm walking loves to sit on my lap. (He's a little too big for it but he's cute so eh) Anyways. It's important to know that his owner has very big boobs. So he discovered that these things are very soft and amazing pillows and started sitting on her boobies instead of her legs, which, fine, there is enough space, I get where he's coming from.

One day, he sat on my lap, we were cuddling, it was very cute but suddenly, he starts scooting up my belly, obviously searching for the nice, comfy pillows for him to sit on.

...

The look he gave me when he realized that my chest only had enough pillow to maaaybe fit half a buttcheek.. It was the nastiest look a dog ever gave me. He was so disappointed in me that he got off my lap and ignored me for 20 minutes.

BOOB FACTS

Lopsided boobs are completely natural! in other words the left boob isn't always the same size as the right boob, this is completely normal and you are beautiful

that's actually the only boob fact I have so far I'm trans sorry I'm new to this

I had several friends on sky who were more interested in chatting and not in playing Sky. We talked about real life stuff, sitting around somewhere. (Which is fine, just not what I wanted) And I never declined even when I really wanted to play Sky or talk about some new event because I didn't want to be rude...

Yeah it became draining super quick. It felt more like a chatting room than playing Sky. They started coming online less I began acting like myself more with new people. Not always accepting chat immediately or replying to people's chats with emotes if I wasn't feeling up to it. Now my friends know that they can join me if they want to play Sky and talk about Sky-related stuff!

In short, be yourself, try to suppress the people-pleaser in you and have fun :)

Hi!! How do you meet and make genuine friends on Sky? I’ve been playing for a few years now, but whenever I get a chance to chat with other players they either speak a different language or ask me a bunch of personal questions 😵‍💫. There seems to be so many funny and interesting people online but I never meet them in person!

I had to think about this one for a bit since im not good at making friends either JGGHFJ

I think it’s definitely easier to find people to connect with online rather than in game. A lot of the people I’m closer with in sky are usually people I find through online platforms rather than in game (though not saying its impossible to find good ingame friends, just might be harder) . A general thing would be to find those who have similar interests or humour, and as well as to spend time with the friends every once in a while, whether it be candlerunning or just hanging out to talk.

If you want a more in depth rambling of me going on about everything I know about making friends, then:

Ok well this is kinda for anyone reading this JGHJDJ

A general thing about friends is to find a common interest to talk about like OCs, art, sky in general, other games, anything basically, especially if you’re like me and bad at conversations. Even after you find the initial spark, it can get hard to keep up with regular conversations afterwards and it’s easy to drift apart. If you want to get closer with someone it’s definitely good to start conversations every once in a while. This can go from telling them things you think will be funny or showing them things to just things about your day. A lot of people appreciate this kind of thing and usually get comfortable to reciprocate it (unless you’re like me and really bad at stating conversations HFBSIC)

In sky, this can also be asking the other if they want to cr together or eden, even oobing if you’re into that. It gives the chance to hang out and talk to each other.

Of course, if the other person doesn’t respond with a lot of enthusiasm or doesnt seem to put effort into the friendship, it might be time to back off to give them space. They could either be tired and need a break or they arent interested in the friendship anymore. An exception would be if the person is already socially awkward or isn’t good at starting conversations. It can be hard to tell sometimes.

If you wanna find friends

For finding friends online, its usually finding a community and finding people within it or becoming a part of the community. if you’re social enough you can join discord servers and talk to people. Even if you arent as social, discord server can still help find people to interact with, like cr partners, heart trade, needing help people/finding help, that could lead to friendship. There’s also being on social media, though it might be harder if you dont post things or if you arent really noticed or something, though it’s not like you need to be famous to be able to find people. You can also find others on social media who are already asking for friends. Ive seen quite a few on tumblr and sometimes on other platforms where people asks if anyone wants to be sky friends. Twitch, the streaming platform yeah, also has quite a few sky creators that are willing to friend pretty much anyone, which could be another way to find a community (since quite a few people on sky twitch know each other).

For in game in sky: Moths are definitely easier to become friends with since you know guiding them and everything and watching them grow up, except moths are wild cards and some are euaheh weird and others never show up again. A lot of older players already have their own friends and friend groups and then other people play inconsistently or have different timezones/playtimes, so theres a lot more luck when making friends on sky. Best bet would just be keep talking to people and when you do find someone you bond with, continue to join and check in on them every once in a while to keep up the friendship.

Joining friends in game can be scary for many (me included), but it usually ends up not as bad as you think, of course respecting dnd spells (or cape codes if they have those). Even if you do join at an inconvenient time, its a simple “oh, sorry/mb” and you head out, leaving minimal damage and awkwardness.

Of course since this is the internet and people can be bad, if people cross boundaries even after being warned once or multiple times, or you just dont enjoy hanging out with, its okay to block and cut people off. No one is obligated to hang out with anyone nor responsible for the happiness of someone else. Having self worth and internet safety is important folks

Anyways people are complicated and theres a lot of ifs and possibilities and other stuff what not so take whatever advice i spit out mindlessly for granted JFHDO i dont know what im doing

Sirius: I don't identify as genderfluid. I am genderfluid.

Sirius: I identify as-

Sirius: ✨a bitch✨

the sims 3 is akin to hypnosis I swear. I start playing and get up to pee a short time later and somehow 8 hours have gone by