Gender Is Weird - Tumblr Posts
Ah the weird gender urge of wanting to be a young promising male detective, searching for the paranormal, and finding out more than I can handle, or to be The Sexy Vampire Lady with shadow hair and lure people in by inviting hem into my desolate manor and taking their blood.
So. About boobs.
I really want to know if me feeling uncomfortable about having these things is a dysphoria thing or a misogyny thing.
Because honestly, I thought for the longest time that people who really like having boobs were a myth and that everyone just wishes to have them gone sometimes.
I also felt insecure about wearing crop tops for so long because of ✨️society✨️ so how do I know if my problem with my chest isn't the sane as that?
..yeah. Would love some input from cis women, trans woman who have boobs or just anyone who is comfy with them.
✨️Tiddies✨️
not to out myself or anything but sometimes when I’m high i catch myself thinking about how im probably not actually nonbinary and i actually just hate gender stereotypes and people assuming my gender.
& also men and women should be able to do whatever they want. i do often feel like i’m agender (apathetic towards gender) i don’t care about being called anything really. Male, female, she, he, they, it? It doesn’t matter.
However, it’s weird also because i like being seen as a woman now that i am older. So i don’t always feel like a genderless void either. So i kinda feel like i don’t belong under any umbrella.
I guess the point of this post was that i just don’t feel very nonbinary.
I recently met a trans girl who said that because im nonbinary im trans. I don’t identify that way.
I think that trans people get so much more backlash than i do as a nonbinary person. & while i support everyone’s decision on calling themselves trans or not, I don’t consider myself it because i have been extremely privileged and i know it.
Had I known you could be AFAB and transfem, maybe all those times I felt connected to the label wouldn't have caused so much self doubt.
'why do you people feel the need to make everything a gender' because it's FUN! because it feels RIGHT! because that's how our genders make SENSE! because we're full of whimsy and are playing in the garden that is gender! because my gender is a graveyard and a bunch of other things, and I think I should get to say that!
people make things genders because it makes sense for them or for somebody else. Sometimes things just click as a gender, much like the concepts of 'woman' and 'man' do for others. Because that's all gender really is: a concept that people click or don't click with. How somebody can be trans and not understand that is beyond me.
Gender is confusing.
Like am I this
Or this
.
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I'm going with the second one cause I think it's right😌
Help
I’m feminine like the girl from The Ring and masculine like Mr. Rogers but most of all I’m queer like Gonzo the Great launching himself out of a cannon. Final girl scream coming out the mouth of Samwise Gamgee but mainly just felt with an attitude. Feminine rage and girlhood terror radiating from a man who couldn’t intimidate bunny rabbit with muppet-esque chaotic queerness.
This is how I feel my gender in my spleen (the organ I arbitrarily decided my gender identity comes from) but to anyone who asks I’m a trans guy who comes off as really gay.
I need a gender that’s just
“Why are you asking? What are you? The gender police?”
Like I have my pronouns, but you can’t have them and you just get to suffer.
Maybe my gender really is just confusion. Gonna gaslight you into thinking the concept of gender is all in your head and no one *really* believes you when you talk about it.