That Moment Where You Come To Front Because The Host Is Not So You Your Brothers Discover The Reason

That moment where you come to front because the host is not so you your brothers discover the reason you formed at

This is kinda cool for us, we get that splitting is shit but we were fucking blank fragments who now have a purpose that's cool???

Awesome, making me and my siblings our profiles and such

Do you want to see some intros from us?? We're kinda attached to Tumblr so we don't mind that at all, we might be the first intros, and maybe the only intros, here in our main blog lmao

Not to make anyone worry, but saying you're a system can make you a target for abusers and bullying.

By stating you're a system

You're disclosing that you went through debilitating trauma at a young age

You're disclosing that you may act like a young child in certain situations, and that child may not know, or understand certain acts

You disassociate to a level where we do not know what was done by/to the collective body

You're telling people that you may have patches of amnesia, disorientation, and where you may split under pressure

Many systems have issues with self harm, suicidal thoughts, substance use disorders and unfortunately, many abusers will take advantage of this

Systems, due to their amnesiac nature, are very easy to gaslight, often by saying that a different part/alter did or didn't do something

But Kyle! What can I do about it?!?

Choose, very carefully, who you tell that you have a system. We try not to tell new people in our life until we're fully trusting that they won't take advantage of the knowledge of the system. Even then, we can count on one hand how many of our in person friends and family are aware of our system.

Avoid linking social media, this includes discord, where you are 'out' about your system to other social media, especially around workplaces. Some workplaces, schools, universities and other places still hold stigma around DID (thank you, Split /s).

Be careful what you tell people about your system: keeping alter counts private, not giving out certain alter's names, using pseudonyms/symbols for alters are some of the ways we've done this. If someone we don't want to know about the system asks about an alter name, the majority of the time, we'll say that they're an OC.

Most people don't know what DID and OSDD are unless they have been in certain circles or happen to have an interest in it, so you are usually safe… but I always air on the side of caution.

Do what you wish with this list, I wanted to put these thoughts out there. Stay safe, feel free to reblog with more ways you keep your system safe.

Drink water, have something to eat, have your meds if you need them, use your mobility aids if you need them, and do something nice for yourself today.

With love,

System Dad (Kyle / 💜)

That fucking stupid pwCDD is making me crazy, the obsessed seems to be another one (them)

Bro not only thinks he's the center of the world or some shit like that but he don't leave me and my things fucking alone, damn

I thought the problem would end with the spanish community but now he encountered my tumblrs blogs in english??? AND HE TRIED INFILTRATING TO THE SILLYCORD SERVER???

Fucking god someone make them stop he's freaking me out 💀

And if you perhaps see this, hello, stop entering my spaces and thinking you're like the center of the world or shit like that, idk why you even needed to enter, exit agan enter and exit the server, what's wrong with you???

I HAVE BEEF WITH SNAPCHAT

IT KEEPS GLITCHING AND IS MAKING ME GET UNADDED N SHIT AND IS TRYNA RUIN MY RELATIONSHIPS 😭

I need comfort rn ;-;

-silas (@starfall-sys)

SANPCHAT YOU HORRIBLE APP 😭

Ok ok, did you tried like opening again the app or restarting your device?? It can be that, tho I'm not sure, I don't use snapchat

Snapchat won't ruin your relationship I'm 100% sure buddy, but I get how can be a problem because of the adding bug... Don't you have another option to add this person?? That might be helpful too

I don't really know how to comfort in this situation so sorry 😭

LET'S GOOO, SEND ASKS PEOPLE!!

system ask game, because i'm bored!

PART 1: BRAIN MADE ALTERS

💫 - do you have a face claim? if so, what is it, and how'd you find it? ⭐ - do you have a "theme song", or a song you think describes you? 🌟 - what's your voice claim, if you have one? ✨ - do you have any friends or family in the system? 🌜 - did you form with any pseudo memories, despite not having a direct source?

PART 2: INTROJECTED ALTERS

🌾 - do you like your source? if so, does it bring you comfort? 🌱 - do you feel connected to your source, or more separate? 🌿 - do you have any pseudo memories? are there any you'd like to share, if so? 🍃 - what are your opinions on interacting with source mates? ☘ - do you look like or sound like your source?

PART 3: HEADSPACE

🍓 - does your headspace have layers to it? if so, how many? 🍒 - is your headspace big, small, or somewhere in between? 🍎 - was your headspace there when you first discovered you were a system, or did you have to make/build it? 🍉 - has your headspace changed over time, or has it generally stayed the same? 🍑 - do your alters have their own spaces/rooms?

PART 4: DISCOVERY RELATED QUESTIONS

🛑 - how old were you when you first discovered your system? 🚧 - do you remember who was host when you discovered your system? are they still host now? 🚨 - have roles within your system changed a lot since you first discovered your system? ⛽ - how did you discover you were a system? 🧭 - were there any obvious signs that you were a system before your discovery? feel free to send any of these asks in/our way as well! have fun lovelies!

As a traumagenic system I'm so tired of all the CDD tags just constantly being filled with anti-endo and other syscourse posts. Like I follow those tags to see jokes and other people's experiences, not to see constant fighting.

Also people will reblog our posts "endos dni" or "endos fuck off" when it has absolutely nothing to do with the post.

We came here to feel included in a community, not to harass and bully others. Syscourse is stupid and honestly harms everyone. We've seen so many traumagenic systems get harassed for not being anti endo enough or just not having the exact right symptoms. Syscourse is formed on a basis of fakeclaiming, and once we realize fakeclaiming hurts actually disabled people we will be better off as a community.

like we have syscourse tags for a reason, can we please keep it in those tags? block people you disagree with and move on