When The Urge To Bite Your F/O Gets So Strong You Have To Pull Out The Gum To Cope With The Urges

When the urge to bite your F/O gets so strong you have to pull out the gum to cope with the urges

i love you proshippers in spaces you aren't accepted

i love you proshippers who have to pretend you're antis

i love you proshippers in the mogai community

i love you proshippers in the age/petre community

i love you proshippers in the furry community

i love you proshippers in the therian/otherkin community

i love you proshippers in anti heavy fandoms

i love you proshippers with anti friends

you are all so seen and so appreciated. keep being yourself and stick to your morals ❤️

Honestly? One thing that made me feel/sympathize for the big 3 paraphilias, is cuz I had to deal with my thing for cannibalism a year or so ago with no support for a few months.

I constantly thought about it (some days for hours at a time non-stop) to the point it was fucking up my mental health. It went on like that until I found someone to talk to that felt the same way, which helped a whole bunch. Really helped me to express my feelings in a healthy + non-judgmental space, and now I barely think about it unless I actually want to.

It made me realize that the more demonized paraphiles like pedophiles must go through a living hell without support, cuz the object of their paraphilias' attraction is pretty much literally everywhere/very common, which makes it hard to not think about, I'd assume. Not to mention my shit only went on for a few months at most, while paraphiles likely go through it for years.

And without good support, I'd imagine it's a slippery slope to offend or ending oneself (the latter obviously being horrid cuz yall- offender or not- are human, and deserve some basic decency at the very least.)

So glad you're doing better, OP, and hope non-offending pedophiles/zoophilies/etc become less stigmatized cuz yall don't deserve the hate.

The pro-para community helped me go from having a pedophilic disorder to just having pedophilia, which means I’m much happier, less anxious, don’t hate myself as much, don’t isolate myself as much, and I trust myself to never act on it. Without the pro-para community, I would not have learned how to recognize and deal with it, which could have ended in me harming a child.

Yes, the pro-para community has pro-contact people and abusers (as does every other community that has ever existed), but they are not what the whole community is made of nor are their ideas what the whole community wants. We support paraphilias, that is it. Anything other than that is a personal belief and is not inherent to being pro-para. I completely understand thinking ‘what if this paraphile is just pretending to be anti-contact,’ but it’s not fair to assume and judge someone based off that. There’s no way to know if an anti-contact person is secretly pro-contact or an abuser. Everyone is innocent until proven guilty.

Having paraphilias IS NORMAL, so yes I would love to normalize it. I would absolutely celebrate if people didn’t see paraphiles, especially pedophiles, as ticking time bombs and unsavable monsters doomed to be horrible and evil forever, and instead just saw us as normal people. Because that’s what we are.

I deserve to celebrate and be proud of the fact that I’m alive despite being told by most people that I deserve to be tortured to death even though I’ve done nothing wrong. I deserve to celebrate and be proud of the fact that despite having a potentially dangerous disorder, I’ve never harmed any children and I don’t plan to.

Sunday manipulating you into loving him...

His manipulation is so good that you no longer doubt your feelings. It's hard to imagine your life without him, and it shows. You cling onto him like a baby bird and he is soaking in all of the attention like a man who hasn't had a sip of water in a millennium....

He needs you. He needs you like never before, he is love for you is ethereal and true. His devotion mirrors that of an acolyte worshiping their beloved god.

Please, love him in the same way he loves you, for nothing else shall satisfy him and his bleeding heart.

taps mic

brocon where the younger brother has a dumb innocent crush on his brother and the older brother takes advantage of it :3

Oh I got a few! Me and my irl friend used to play a game to go hunt for terrible DNIs, and then block the users if proship was in there. Was both fun and was a way to block antis on my Tumblr account lmaooo.

Anyway, here's my contributions ( didn't check if others added any of these already sooooo )

DNIs that are hella hard to find to the point it almost feels like they're hiding it on purpose. ( below is just an example highlighted in green ) Sometimes it'd be so bad you'd have to go onto their blog ( cuz nothing in the original post, ) find their carrd linked in their pinned ( sometimes even under a cut, ) find out you can't access the carrd on your computer, have to go onto mobile Tumblr, find their carrd, go into an "about/DNI" section of the carrd, to then see their DNI. It's not common common, but not super rare either to find stuff like that.

Overly violent/hateful DNIs.

Here's a few extra bonus ones that aren't common, but weird DNI things I've seen.

DNIs with random people in them that seems to be ex-mutuals/ex-friends. Including people associating with those people.

Two DNIs with different things. Specifically a DNI on their pinned post saying "DNI proship" and the second being in a linked carrd that had stuff like "DNI racists" in it alongside EVERYTHING else.

I know that all DNIs are inherently flawed and pointless anyway, but what are some common criteria or addendums that make you doubly disregard them? (Besides the obvious...) I'll go first!

Fandom bullshit listed over things like "racist" or "homophobic"

You can just tell they're putting something on there because everyone else has it on theirs, but they have no idea what they're talking about

Acting entitled to know every follower's exact age, gender, sexuality, race, religion, and country of origin or risk being blocked

Calling fans of a particular media freaks/bigots/losers, followed by "current moots excluded!"

Overabundance of censoring that does nothing but make sure their talk of sensitive topics gets past every filter

"Basic DNI criteria"

"Etc"