Just A Little Positivity Post Cuz I Need This Rn Personally: Remember That Your Sexual Fantasies Aren't

Just a little positivity post cuz I need this rn personally: Remember that your sexual fantasies aren't something to be ashamed of.

You having fantasies and writing about/consuming content with those fantasies in it can't harm anyone, so don't let anyone shame you into thinking you're a bad person for having them.

What makes kink exciting for a large majority of people is the taboo aspects. While not everyone may share your kinks, it's normal to be into weird, taboo, illegal, or generally "bad" things.

What's important is making sure no one is harmed when you partake in your kink. That's the only thing. You aren't bad for being into what you're into. Periodt.

Just saw a person in a TikTok comment section with all the "proship" emoji combos. People were saying to check the person's search history and hard drive, but in the same comment section replies the person said they only use all the combos to mock proshippers.

Idk I just find it kinda comical that antis didn't even stop to think "hey, maybe this person using 6+ proship emoji combos in their username is trolling" which ended up with the emoji combo person being harrassed by, like, 10+ people if not more.

Update on this: I'd commented on a TikTok just yesterday where the creator was talking about how censoring on TikTok is stupid, and how it waters down the situations that are actually going on.

The comment I left on the TikTok featured words such as kill, rape, and porn without any censoring, and I have yet to receive any warnings about it.

Maybe it has something to do with the app picking up on the words used in certain contexts ( fx. threats, ) but you can certainly say them in some cases either way.

I was rereading my previous post about the TikTok censorship culture/thing, and it made me wonder what part of it isn't actually censorship, but in reality the algorithm doing it's thing.

I mean, it's already known how flaky and unreliable the TikTok censoring is at times, and also known that the algorithm on TikTok can get really specific, too.

So if that's the case, who's to say that the censoring "trend" isn't just people engaging more with the censored content, which then pushes more censored content to those people?

Who's to say that it isn't because they use those censored words in comments/videos, which is then picked up on by the app, and then has the algorithm show more content using that language to them?

Watch time could also be a factor since TikTok also picks up on that. So if a word like "rape" makes a person uncomfortable and scroll as a result, then that could also affect it in one way or another.

I don't know lmao maybe I'm just reaching, or this is a really obvious thing I'm realizing only now.

Honestly? I don't think they want to be taken seriously, or at least don't care about it. Antis strategy seems to mainly be harassment, shame, and vigilante attacks from what I can tell. Sure, sometimes they ( mass ) report stuff, but none of their actions seem to show them professionally dealing with the presumable predators ( fx. they mass report which can clog systems, they harass the predators which can have them attempt to delete evidence/run, etc. )

Even if law enforcement and platforms are unreliable, and systems to get actual predators dealt with is shit at times, their actions still do more harm than good by fx. messing shit up for law enforcement that are actually doing stuff by making things more messy/chaotic, having people harm themselves due to their harassment no matter if they're innocent or not, etc.

I doubt they actually care about getting predators behind bars with how they act anyway. Their actions more so says they want to harm people they find disgusting, all the while hiding behind the "protecting the kids" argument, rather than do actual good for the world.

Either way, what I'm trying to say is that antis usually seem to prefer to harass and/or "own" people they believe to be predators, rather than want/care about seriously dealing with them in the best/least messy way(s) possible.

Just saw a person in a TikTok comment section with all the "proship" emoji combos. People were saying to check the person's search history and hard drive, but in the same comment section replies the person said they only use all the combos to mock proshippers.

Idk I just find it kinda comical that antis didn't even stop to think "hey, maybe this person using 6+ proship emoji combos in their username is trolling" which ended up with the emoji combo person being harrassed by, like, 10+ people if not more.

Love yall proshippers for just existing. Gave me a space to explore my taboo fantasies without feeling guilty or just outright suppressing them, which has made me a lot happier and healthier.

This one goes out to all the proshipper homies. Love yall and this community (platonically) so much.

You know, I find it odd that people on TikTok use that censored language as much as they do.

Personally, when I comment, I can say things like "sex"/"sexuality," "porn," "kill," "rape," etc just fine and still get the usual amount of engagement/not receive any type of warning. Sure, the censorship is there based on the hidden comments feature, but it's flaky at best, ( and really odd cuz I've seen comments like "Hot" be censored, ) so the prominent word censorship culture on there is just really useless half of the time.

I've also seen this one specific creator reading the takes of pro-lifers, and she doesn't censor the words used either. I see her content just fine, even if she says shit like "rape"/"raped" multiple times. Not sure if her engagement takes a hit for it or if she gets warnings, but the content is still viewable to me, and I've seen her multiple times on my FYP ( as recent as just a day or so ago. ) Though do note that censorship is a lot harsher on creators from what I've seen, so I can give them leeway in some cases.

I guess it's a linguistic thing where a word over time changes meaning due to the original one being "bad," so people find a "less bad" word to replace it with until that new word also becomes "bad." But either way, it's annoying as fuck and pretty much pointless.